We are friends, we would always chill and hang out; we would always flirt, it was just so natural for us and that may be the reason that I started crushin on him and he did too..one night after he walked me to the car, he kissed me, we agreed it wasnt meant to be because we were both going to different colleges and what was rest of the summer wasnt enough and we would both end up getting hurt. Anyways, it was all cool afterward, I let it go but deep inside I had that crush feeling. I went to the city he was going for college and visited him, we went to a party and well got drunk..(he got drunk, i was buzzed) We were extra flirty with each other for obvious reasons, one thing led to the other..I sat on his lap, we started making out and decided to get out of there..Went back to his place and well the rest is history. I was expecting a “sorry, that was just a drunken night reaction” or something like that, I would’ve felt so much better but he kept quite when I approach him about it. He simply didnt wanna talk about it then or NEVER for that matter. Its been 4 months since this happen. He recently moved back and now leaves in town again. We have talk normally after that, no awkward anything but we havent really hung out like old times, I feel like unconsciously I’ve been putting it off because of a probable ‘talk bout that subject’ incident. That’s my story, bottom line this kinda of incidental hook ups are not good for ANY friendship, everything changes, want it or not.

sex is one of those things that will either make or break a friendship.