Comments on: Holiday Flings, Part 2: Holding On

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By: Jamie

Jamie — Sat, 17 Jan 2009 21:17:01 +0000

Thanks for posting this!! I had a fling with a guy for a few weeks before christmas, but he graduated early and lives in Asia. We've been keeping in touch, emailing, talking etc. as friends. He's coming in May for graduation and I don't know how to approach it. Obviously I want to hook up with him again but should I assume nothing will happen? I'm pretty sure we will still be talking by then…so would this be a good time to reevaluate our relationship when he comes? Or just play it cool and let what happens, happens?

By: Mary, Schoolcraft

Mary, Schoolcraft — Sun, 11 Jan 2009 22:16:06 +0000

Thank you for posting this. I became friends with someone over the summer, through a mutual friend. Knowing he was leaving for a new start out of state didn't stop us from crushing on each other… On his visit over the holidays we had a fling, tried to call it a relationship, and the day before he left we admitted it wasn't working. I still love him, as a friend and as .. more. I know he feels the same, but it pains me to know that we are not together, even though we want to be……

I think we are going to just be friends for now. Friendship is something we always did well, and I think we would rather be friends in each others life than not at all.

…Just a rant, I guess but anyways good advice, well written and thanks again.

Peace