Comments on: Pillow Talk with Diana: “Is He Insecure About His Sex Skills?” http://collegecandy.com/2009/01/13/pillow-talk-with-diana-is-he-insecure-about-his-sex-skills/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Fri, 25 May 2012 21:07:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Anonymous Coward http://collegecandy.com/2009/01/13/pillow-talk-with-diana-is-he-insecure-about-his-sex-skills/#comment-9370 Wed, 14 Jan 2009 12:40:23 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/16003#comment-9370 I disagree. The act of sex is enjoyable in and of itself. Of course, I will agree, an uncontrollable orgasmic shudder is a great stress reliever. Sometimes, I can't even get off… even though my ex-girlfriend (sadly the last girl i've had sex with), would get off 2 or 3 times. Eventually, I'd just get tired of it and either fake one, or just quit.

Anyways, sounds like your guy has a confidence problem. His sexual prowess is really directly tied to his opinion of himself.

Also, look inside, the reason most women can't orgasm is because they're too tightly wound up. Don't try to have one, just have one. Or fake it, and start giving your man some confidence. Either way, you need to work on your bedroom communication skills…aka, right there right there, not UAGHAHAHAH, everytime he rubs your G-spot.

]]> By: thegr8brownie http://collegecandy.com/2009/01/13/pillow-talk-with-diana-is-he-insecure-about-his-sex-skills/#comment-9369 Tue, 13 Jan 2009 15:26:41 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/16003#comment-9369 from a male's point of view, i want to say that orgasms are very important to us. Sex for a guy is all build up to his orgasm, and if we don't have one, it sucks. So its hard for us to wrap our head around sex being good with out one. For us, sex is ussually just, "eh". Its nice, but its not what we are there for. And I am talking strictly about the physical feeling of sex.

So a talk sounds like a good idea.

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