He Said/She Said: What Is Cheating?

Candy says:
Thu, 15th Jan 200910:25 pm 

an admission from me that this has just brought out and i probably wouldnt have told anyone otherwise: me and my fiancee have a slightly volatile relationship and therefore im left craving some sort of appreciation (he is usually too). His brother, however, is not in a relationship. I’m not sexually attracted to the brother in any way – we’re friends at most, but sometimes we hug, he gives me backrubs (i freelance draw/use laptop a lot and therefore regularly have a sore back) and sometimes we kinda snuggle or get close. I don’t know how i feel about it, i dont consider it cheating, its never done in spite, we’ve never kissed or touched in any way that could be cheating, but i’d still feel bad if my fiancee walked in one day when we were hugging or playing or something.

I feel like a total bitch, because i always have and will swear i will never cheat, yet in some people’s eyes this is cheating.

I know girls tend to have way more rivalry than boys, but if i ever saw my fiancee with someone else, and pray god if it was my sister, i’d flatten the both of them :/

sometimes i wonder, am i teasing the other boy, is he trying to tease me, or is it totally innocent? :/