When Oprah high fived Kate Winslet and proclaimed “God bless your real breasts!” I smiled and felt a little bit prouder for women with real breasts everywhere. Not everyone has huge, perky, volleyballs on their chests and it’s about time someone recognized it. Maybe it’s silly that it took a reminder from Oprah Winfrey that breasts move, but after the article in the New York Times yesterday, it looks like more women need to be reminded.
The latest figures show that “the number of cosmetic surgical procedures performed on youths 18 or younger more than tripled over a 10-year period, to 205,119 in 2007 from 59,890 in 1997.” That is an astronomical number!
I know I shouldn’t be surprised being I can name more than a few people who have been offered a pair of silicone implants wrapped in a red bow come graduation day, but that number really shocks me.
I understand that beauty and perfection have been something that women have constantly strived for and I also understand that cosmetic surgery has become more acceptible in our society. I mean, just turn on the television and I bet you can find at least three makeover shows on right this minute, and at least one re-run of Dr. 90210. Still, maybe we should be wondering why young girls are inceasingly begging and pleading for new noses, breasts, chins, teeth, ears, tummies and every other resize-able, reshape-able body part.
Self esteem is a huge argument for teens when trying to convince families to take the life-changing plunge into cosmetic surgery. I don’t necessarily say life-changing in a postive light either. Not only are there serious risks associated with these surgeries, but sometimes they require upkeep, which means a life under the knife.
It makes me sad to think that girls think they need to look a certain way to fit in. The media may not show it, but noses have bumps, girls have bellies (we have organs in there!), breasts are big and small and pointy and round, and ears stick out – that is what is normal. At one time or another we were all part of the itty-bitty-titty committee… it’s part of growing up. Eventually your body changes, and if it doesn’t, at some point you start to love it for what it is. If only we all had Oprah on speed dial; I think we would remember this more often.
What do you think? Should we do anything we can to feel better about ourselves, or just learn to love what we have?



Lauren, University of Michigan says:
Thu, 15th Jan 20093:07 pm
Unfortunately, women are being compared to these ideals in the media all the time. Even if they arent real, it makes sense that young girls want to look like them. It really is so sad.
Jen says:
Thu, 15th Jan 20096:56 pm
I think we need a campaign for real beauty again, Kudos to Dove and such, or maybe we just need people to credit real beauty where real beauty is especially in the youth, it’s time to universalize beauty.
Sarah says:
Fri, 16th Jan 200912:08 pm
I just read the article from the New York Times and am appalled at the numbers displayed. The worst part is that parents feel it’s alright to let their teenage daughters get plastic surgery at such an early age; “I didn’t want her to have to go through that anymore,” says one mom. Are you kidding? If your child is having image issues at ELEVEN, then you need to start re-thinking what you’re teaching your kid. You can’t just blame it all on the media and kids at school. If my child had low self-esteem, I’d do my best to teach him or her that they’re beautiful the way they are–not just give them an instant fix with plastic surgery. If they still had issues with it, I’d spend my medical bills on a fucking therapist, not a surgeon.
There’s something seriously wrong with the way body image is being handled these days and it’s beginning to make me sick. Kristen (the teen in the article) probably shares the mindset with many other teen girls that there’s a “normal” way to look–and that look includes big boobs, a tiny tummy, and the perfect face. Preposterous. What do we need to do as a society to change this state of mind? Send our teens off to self-esteem boot camp at 16?
Diana says:
Fri, 16th Jan 20092:13 pm
I think if parents just told their children to pay for the surgeries themselves, the numbers would go down considerably. Plastic surgery is too expensive for a teen to earn money for. Can you imagine how many times a person would have to say “Would you like fries with that?” to earn a pair of perfect c-cup breasts? You know, I’ve wanted a nose job since I was 12, and it hasn’t changed. My mom told me I could get one as long as I paid for the surgery myself. Needless to say, I’m 22, broke, and I still have my old nose.
Lucy says:
Mon, 19th Jan 200911:39 am
I think it’s tough to make a call on whether or not someone needs cosmetic surgery without hearing their side of the story.
dana says:
Sun, 26th Apr 20092:49 pm
one of my old high shcool chums had plastic surgery to look like a creature from the neck up it was so gross to look at her she relized after it was done she commited suicide if you saw what she looked like anybody would she could not go out in public unless she was wearing a hood over her face she spent 90000.oo to have it done.well anyway 2 years later they found her hanging in her bathroom just think of your head being done in the shape of a light bulb and haveing your ears pointed and boils all over it to look like a suer sat and haveing your eyes enlarged to look like a space monster.she had it done in london at the age of 32 what a waste of a preet girl! untill this day i cant believe they would do it .
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