Last time you heard from me, I was telling you all about the pros and cons of Goodbye Sex. Well, as promised, my boyfriend and I reunited….in the bedroom.
Here’s part two: The Pros and Cons of Welcome Back Sex!
Pro: Happiness to have them back
It’s a wonderful feeling to see them again. And touch them. And kiss them… It’s easy to get swept away in that happiness, and it feels amazing once you get to lead them into the bedroom…or the couch…or the kitchen table….or – well, you get my point.
Con: That happiness wears off
Just as soon as that happiness hits you, it wears off. Once the “festivities” are over, you get right back into the routine of things. It’s as if they were never gone at all. I’ll let you decide if that’s a good or bad thing.
Pro: It’s wild
You’ve both been deprived and letting your imaginations run wile, so there’s some lost time to make up for. It was some of the most passionate, hottest sex I’ve ever had. It’s amazing to just let loose.
Con: It can get TOO wild
I can’t lie; there were some injuries. While getting into the heat of the moment has it’s benefits, take it easy. Getting too rough leads to pain. And in some cases, embarrassing bruises/red marks that you don’t want to explain later.
Pro: It All Feels New Again
It’s been so long that it feels different, new and exciting again.
Con: It Is Over in A Flash
I didn’t experience this, but some people may get so excited to be together again that things just happen so…fast. You know what I mean?
In the end I am going to have to say that Welcome Back Sex is my favorite; it’s just as great as the Goodbye variety, but you don’t have to be without your partner after.



Annie says:
Sat, 24th Jan 20095:38 pm
whooo
pathetic part 2!!!
Callie says:
Sat, 24th Jan 20096:35 pm
Seriously?
It was a freaking week.
Try going months without seeing the person you love.
God forbid he should be gone two whole weeks! Oh noes!
beth says:
Sat, 24th Jan 20097:30 pm
you’d never make it as a military g/f or wife.
calrose says:
Sat, 24th Jan 20097:45 pm
Yeah 2 weeks is nothing! My boyfriend have been going 2 weeks without seeing each other for most of our relationship. We go to separate schools, 2 hours away and right now I’m in Calfornia while he’s in Wisconsin. So we’ll be going minimum 2 Months without so much as a peck on the cheek! I can only imagine how great the welcome back sex will be after this long…
Lauren, University of Michigan says:
Sat, 24th Jan 20098:20 pm
Stop hating on the writer. Her point wasn’t that they were apart for 2 weeks, she was just saying that welcome back sex is great.
Sheesh. Some people are so angry all the time.
Elise says:
Sat, 24th Jan 20099:15 pm
So, you know, there’s a saying amongst military wives: “Gone is gone.”
Essentially, that means it ain’t a pissing contest, ladies. As anyone who’s ever been in a long-distance relationship can tell you, sometimes the one-week absences can be worse than the two-month ones.
Heck, in a couple of hours my husband will come home from work, and after two weeks of always-together vacation time… well, ten hours has somehow stretched into infinity. Or at least close enough to give it just a little of that welcome-back flavor.
Jasmine says:
Sat, 24th Jan 20099:16 pm
yea, take the stick out of your ass. poor jealous, lonely girls.
Jenn says:
Tue, 27th Jan 200911:57 am
why wait? Just go to http://www.thepleasureeden.com get yourself a few toys and have fun anytime!
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Tue, 10th Feb 20098:34 pm
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