Comments on: He Said/She Said: Red Flags That Send Him Running http://collegecandy.com/2009/01/28/he-saidshe-said-red-flags-that-send-him-running/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Mon, 13 Feb 2012 19:24:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Whatever http://collegecandy.com/2009/01/28/he-saidshe-said-red-flags-that-send-him-running/#comment-5576 Fri, 30 Jan 2009 13:45:11 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/16389#comment-5576 Having an eating disorder may be a sickness – but it's sickness that makes you fucking crazy. Eating yogurt and two slices of cheese for breakfast and then feeling anxiety about eating a third piece of cheese IS CRAZY! And you're right, it's not the girl's fault – it's her crazy-ass mother's fault.

]]> By: Lisa http://collegecandy.com/2009/01/28/he-saidshe-said-red-flags-that-send-him-running/#comment-5570 Thu, 29 Jan 2009 23:22:44 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/16389#comment-5570 Your friend should know he has a lot of fans on this site

]]> By: Kathy http://collegecandy.com/2009/01/28/he-saidshe-said-red-flags-that-send-him-running/#comment-5575 Thu, 29 Jan 2009 16:03:53 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/16389#comment-5575 I'm certainly crazy (bipolar, recovering bulimic, etc), and not /that/ pretty. For some strange reason, I've always had plenty of guys interested in me. I'm a total bitch, too. Guys baffle me.

]]> By: Sarah http://collegecandy.com/2009/01/28/he-saidshe-said-red-flags-that-send-him-running/#comment-5568 Thu, 29 Jan 2009 15:23:05 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/16389#comment-5568 "she was also a republican"

Icing on the fucking cake from crazy girlfriend hell. lol.

]]> By: Jes http://collegecandy.com/2009/01/28/he-saidshe-said-red-flags-that-send-him-running/#comment-5574 Thu, 29 Jan 2009 10:48:39 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/16389#comment-5574 haha- I found this article to be quite funny.

And its sooo true that girls can act super crazy/clingy in the early stages of dating.

But honestly, I've had SO many guys act the same way! lol

I dumped one guy for writing me a letter about how he thought we were soul mates after like a date and a half.

Another friend of mine went berzerk and psycho when I told him I wasn't looking for a "serious" relationship. He was at my apartment nearly every day!!

Several others just got really depressed and whiny… God I cant stand a guy who acts like a doormat.

Thank god I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 yrs now, (dated for 5) although how he handles my crazy PMS every month is beside me!

We need a article now about how guys scare off cool chicks by trying to get them pregnant! (*cringes…..)

]]> By: oh god... http://collegecandy.com/2009/01/28/he-saidshe-said-red-flags-that-send-him-running/#comment-5569 Thu, 29 Jan 2009 10:41:56 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/16389#comment-5569 Seriously? Get over it… Sure its a real disorder, but no one wants to date or deal with someone with those kinda issues. (I've been that girl before to an extent- believe me, guys do NOT want to deal with that shit)

And yes, someone who is always obsessing about what/how much they eat, etc. is not going to be much fun to hang out with.

Now, no one ever said they weren't good people, just too much stress/craziness to date.

Chill out people and find something else to get wound up about.

]]> By: danielle http://collegecandy.com/2009/01/28/he-saidshe-said-red-flags-that-send-him-running/#comment-5573 Wed, 28 Jan 2009 23:46:34 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/16389#comment-5573 That comment about eating disorders was definitely way off. Having an eating disorder doesn't make you crazy, and it doesn't make you a bad person. It means you're sick, and that isn't your fault.

It's easy to joke about eating disorders when you're life hasn't been affected by them, but think before you act. Your words can be very hurtful.

]]> By: yes http://collegecandy.com/2009/01/28/he-saidshe-said-red-flags-that-send-him-running/#comment-5572 Wed, 28 Jan 2009 22:51:41 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/16389#comment-5572 Kelly, Agreed. While that girl probably shouldn't be dating and should be taking care of herself, somethings just aren't a girls fault. Bipolar disorder has a genetic component to it. Everyone needs some lovin'! Plus I know plenty of people with issues with depression, it causes relationship strains, and the people may act crazy in the eyes of their partner because of it, but they are not actually crazy.

]]> By: Kelly http://collegecandy.com/2009/01/28/he-saidshe-said-red-flags-that-send-him-running/#comment-5571 Wed, 28 Jan 2009 18:58:43 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/16389#comment-5571 alright, fairly legit, but are we really gonna get on some girl for having bipolar and an eating disorder? i understand it's a deterrent for a potential boyfriend, but it's not like she asked for it, dude. there's a big difference between being possessive and being bulimic.

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