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		<title>By: amanda</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/02/12/five-things-you-never-want-to-hear-from-your-new-lover/#comment-21508</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 16:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[haha, that&#039;s hilarious, my bf said almost exactly the same curly-hair comment a couple days ago...grrrrr! ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>haha, that&#039;s hilarious, my bf said almost exactly the same curly-hair comment a couple days ago&#8230;grrrrr!</p>
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		<title>By: Disturbed</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Disturbed]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 14:55:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Erica: 
 
     I&#039;m not discrediting your article and what you experienced, more so I was tired of all the comments people had posted before. I love your comment about not finding your boyfriends attractive initially, that lets everyone here know that you develop friendship/a relationship based on their personality, not their looks. Again, i&#039;m not discrediting your article, I congratulate you on this publishment, and not to be throwing out any hatred, but I&#039;m shocked to here you say you often see a &quot;hot girl/not-so-hot guy combo&quot; because honestly that&#039;s is something I hardly see. Maybe it&#039;s not so popular over here ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Erica: </p>
<p>     I&#039;m not discrediting your article and what you experienced, more so I was tired of all the comments people had posted before. I love your comment about not finding your boyfriends attractive initially, that lets everyone here know that you develop friendship/a relationship based on their personality, not their looks. Again, i&#039;m not discrediting your article, I congratulate you on this publishment, and not to be throwing out any hatred, but I&#039;m shocked to here you say you often see a &quot;hot girl/not-so-hot guy combo&quot; because honestly that&#039;s is something I hardly see. Maybe it&#039;s not so popular over here</p>
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		<title>By: Erica - Kent State</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Erica - Kent State]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2009 16:34:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have to respond to this because it was my story to begin with. It&#039;s crazy how absolutely, ridiculously wrong you are, Disturbed. I have never found ANY of my boyfriends attractive from the get-go.  It&#039;s always after months or years of friendships that things develop.  It&#039;s so weird that you say you hear girls talking about guys asses, etc. all the time, because most girls I know don&#039;t even find many aspects of the male body that attractive.  I really do think that men do not give women enough credit -- WE are the ones who really take personality into consideration.  How often do you see hot girl/not-so-hot guy combo? A LOT. Enough said. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to respond to this because it was my story to begin with. It&#039;s crazy how absolutely, ridiculously wrong you are, Disturbed. I have never found ANY of my boyfriends attractive from the get-go.  It&#039;s always after months or years of friendships that things develop.  It&#039;s so weird that you say you hear girls talking about guys asses, etc. all the time, because most girls I know don&#039;t even find many aspects of the male body that attractive.  I really do think that men do not give women enough credit &#8212; WE are the ones who really take personality into consideration.  How often do you see hot girl/not-so-hot guy combo? A LOT. Enough said.</p>
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		<title>By: Disturbed</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Disturbed]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2009 12:27:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i&#039;m sorry fellow ladies, but i must stop this madness..it sounds like from most of these responses you&#039;re either: 
 
 
 
a)hooking up with guys cause they&#039;re hot and muscular, not because of their personality 
 
 
 
b)because you just go for looks, you don&#039;t care about personality initially, and then you find out he only cares about himself and will cheat on you in a heartbeat 
 
 
 
c)if you go for older men, they do know more than you, that&#039;s why they&#039;re getting sex from you 
 
 
 
and i like how sarah commented on #2 about the whole body type issue and said that men were retarded if they thought they could compare them to over women..NEWS FLASH, everyone compares their present to their previous, regardless of sex..and women ESPECIALLY point out guys all the time saying wow i wish my boyfriend looked like that, or dame he has a hot ass. 
 
 
 
Basically i&#039;m trying to tell everyone to quit bitching and remember- it&#039;s your own fault when you end up with a dumbass boyfriend, YOU PICKED HIM! ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i&#039;m sorry fellow ladies, but i must stop this madness..it sounds like from most of these responses you&#039;re either: </p>
<p>a)hooking up with guys cause they&#039;re hot and muscular, not because of their personality </p>
<p>b)because you just go for looks, you don&#039;t care about personality initially, and then you find out he only cares about himself and will cheat on you in a heartbeat </p>
<p>c)if you go for older men, they do know more than you, that&#039;s why they&#039;re getting sex from you </p>
<p>and i like how sarah commented on #2 about the whole body type issue and said that men were retarded if they thought they could compare them to over women..NEWS FLASH, everyone compares their present to their previous, regardless of sex..and women ESPECIALLY point out guys all the time saying wow i wish my boyfriend looked like that, or dame he has a hot ass. </p>
<p>Basically i&#039;m trying to tell everyone to quit bitching and remember- it&#039;s your own fault when you end up with a dumbass boyfriend, YOU PICKED HIM!</p>
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		<title>By: Hot Girls</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Hot Girls]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2009 22:20:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Meag</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Meag]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 20:52:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I really do like this list!! and I completely agree with sam.. I actually get called &quot;cute&quot; a lot..friggin annoying! I may be 5ft tall but Im 20.. not 5. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really do like this list!! and I completely agree with sam.. I actually get called &quot;cute&quot; a lot..friggin annoying! I may be 5ft tall but Im 20.. not 5.</p>
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		<title>By: sara</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[sara]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 15:47:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Omg that dating the older guy issue happened to me too. Every problem I had he already had an answer of how I should handle it based on his experiences. No thank you I can make my own decisions. 
 
 
 
Also, while I enjoyed being called beautiful, and major props to the guy because its sweet to say, and it is nice to hear, I don&#039;t want it to be said to me every day. Especially if I&#039;m dressed up to go out for drinks I want to be told that I look HOT or SEXY every once in a while too. And yeah, cute is starting to not work for me either anymore. I feel like I&#039;m 10 when someone says that. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Omg that dating the older guy issue happened to me too. Every problem I had he already had an answer of how I should handle it based on his experiences. No thank you I can make my own decisions. </p>
<p>Also, while I enjoyed being called beautiful, and major props to the guy because its sweet to say, and it is nice to hear, I don&#039;t want it to be said to me every day. Especially if I&#039;m dressed up to go out for drinks I want to be told that I look HOT or SEXY every once in a while too. And yeah, cute is starting to not work for me either anymore. I feel like I&#039;m 10 when someone says that.</p>
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		<title>By: Bobbi</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Bobbi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 02:15:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[about my husband and a very personal matter with our sex life...it is  his problem though...not mine.  How do I talk to you about this  privately? ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>about my husband and a very personal matter with our sex life&#8230;it is  his problem though&#8230;not mine.  How do I talk to you about this  privately?</p>
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		<title>By: Bobbi</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Bobbi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 02:14:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[About  my husband and would like to talk very personal on this matter.   How would I go about it ? ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>About  my husband and would like to talk very personal on this matter.   How would I go about it ?</p>
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		<title>By: Meg</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Meg]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 23:11:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Rebecca, I&#039;ve had both those things said to me! uuugghhh, its like the most backhanded &quot;compliment&quot; ever when I hear my hair is &quot;much prettier&quot; curly after I took the time to straighten it. gimme a break. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rebecca, I&#039;ve had both those things said to me! uuugghhh, its like the most backhanded &quot;compliment&quot; ever when I hear my hair is &quot;much prettier&quot; curly after I took the time to straighten it. gimme a break.</p>
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