Tuffy Luv Sez, Sexuality Is Fluid, B*tches!

By Sara

Dear Tuffy Luv,

I’m a straight girl, never been interested in other girls, have a serious boyfriend. Sometimes me and the bf watch porn together. But the weird thing is, I get really turned on by the naked girls. I’m not really that turned on by my boyfriend’s body or by the guys in the porn. So I realized I’m attracted to naked girls. But I’m so not interested in sex or relationships with girls. Seeing hot naked women makes me want to have sex with men. What the hell?

Confused

Dear Confused,

Honey, you’ll be happy to hear this is pretty much standard.

Here. Read this article. It’s about this scientist who made ape porn and then tested it alongside person porn to see how people would react. It turns out that men know what turns them on: straight men were turned on by hetero sex and lesbians, gay men were turned on by homosexual sex, etc. But women were a whole other story. Apparently women were basically turned on by other women–but they reported being turned on by the men. Very interesting.

Anyway, the point is, just because you’re physically attracted to women doesn’t mean you want to have sex with them. Maybe it’s the media always telling us women are more attractive than men. Maybe it’s some deep primal urge. Whatever it is, it ain’t simple. But women are often physically attracted to other women even when they aren’t attracted psychologically or mentally or emotionally.

Of course, that said, if you do want to have sex with a woman, that’s good too. Maybe you just need to explore to see what’s right for you. Just make sure you clear it with your boyfriend first–Tuffy Luv HATES cheaters.

Hearts & Skulls,

Tuffy Luv

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