Comments on: Pillow Talk with Diana: “Why Can’t I Find a Girlfriend?”

By: kylie

kylie — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 07:05:05 +0000

don't give up being chivalrous – meaning opening doors and getting their coats etc, but flowers? that's way too forward on a first date. keep that for when you mess up or its a special occasion. keep it low maintenance – it won't scare girls off.

By: Rick James

Rick James — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 20:09:47 +0000

dude, you find love as soon as you stop looking for it.

and yea be an asshole. punch a baby, steal some candy, and drink a couple beers.

By: Jennifer

Jennifer — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 23:58:42 +0000

i think hes a catch, but he shouldnt have to talk about himself so much if all those things shine through on their own.

By: Kallie

Kallie — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 02:43:52 +0000

Wow. If I were this guy, I would stop complaining… I’m 20 and I’ve never been in a relationship. yeesh.

By: holly

holly — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 13:43:56 +0000

i'm from the south where the "chivalrous" behavior described are expected and run-of-the mill. doing those things is not a sign a person is an asshole or a "nice guy," but how the individual views himself for doing them is. i'm sure you will be relieved after the "become an asshole" comments to hear that you are in fact already sound like an asshole of the first degree. extra douche points for not mentioning wanting a girl with any sort of similar interests, etc. but just "a" girlfriend… any girlfriend who will give you reinforcement for thinking you've cracked some kind of code to sexy time in exchange for completely uninventive standards of dating chivalry

By: Jenn

Jenn — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 23:57:34 +0000

quit being a pussy, stop trying to "make all the right moves" girls like it when you ask them out to have a plan, know where you are going. I bet you always ask "Where would you like to eat?" "Where do you want to go" have a plan she will tell you if she doesn't like something. But she will like you more if you are just yourself. Advise from www.ThePleasureEden.com

By: HOLY crap...

HOLY crap... — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 23:46:26 +0000

Did that chick just seriously give her phone number out on an internet blog post????

WOW.

I'm sooo hoping that's a joke!

By: Caitlin - University

Caitlin - University — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 23:01:31 +0000

You're the type of guy who is TOO nice and TOO easy to stamp a big "Friend Zone" on. If you're looking for a girlfriend you won't find one…stop looking and eventually, someone will come to you. You're trying to hard to make yourself look good.

By: LKO

LKO — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 22:23:30 +0000

Become an asshole.

By: twinkie

twinkie — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 21:40:31 +0000

too nice= creepy