Comments on: He Said/She Said: Kissing After…. You Know

By: karla

karla — Sun, 15 Mar 2009 21:10:20 +0000

i dont get ppl sayin its gross, maybe you guys dont feel comfortable enough with ur partner? I've never questioned this, we always kiss after!

By: L

Sat, 14 Mar 2009 19:40:56 +0000

I’ve actually never had this problem with a guy. Whoever I was with, I think we always kissed after anyone went down without thinking much of it. No complaints, no grossed out looks, just wanting to make out some more.

By: Nesty

Nesty — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 11:34:23 +0000

When my girl goes down to me and does all that,she comes back and kisses me.I also go down,do it to her,and come back and kiss her.It's ok by me.

By: Frat Boy

Frat Boy — Wed, 11 Mar 2009 12:44:58 +0000

I totally don't know what to do about this subject. I actually just wrote a story about this on this website my buddy sent me called www.kissanddish.com and the editors just posted my sex etiquette story on the front page! Yes published author...or blogger! Anyways, I am just as confused as anyone on what the fuck to do. check out my story though if it's still there.

By: Cristina

Cristina — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 00:06:28 +0000

I dont know about everyone else, but I always have a drink handy after I give oral because I like to wash the taste out of my mouth, so kissing my boyfriend afterward isnt an issue (although my guy told me he doesnt care at all. He used the argument, "It's my body, my fluids, why would I be grossed out?"). But, whenever I am with someone new, I always ask after I'm done. I would be really embarrassed if I went for the kiss and he wasnt okay with it, so I just find it easier to ask, haha.

By: Lisa

Lisa — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 15:17:34 +0000

First of all, I love going down on my guy. We use it as foreplay for the most part, so there arent many times that he finishes in my mouth. So we never have an issue about kissing. I know he gets grossed out with going down on me, so he usually cleans up before we continue.. Otherwise, if he does finish in my mouth, its usually the end of the episode so I can drink some water and such. I've never had a guy refuse to kiss me.. it usually depends on if I need water or not.

And to "Me".. I dont find it demeaning. It turns me on to turn him on, which I do in a multitude of ways. its another way to express your love for that person.. But if you bf doesnt even like anyone doing it.. it would be strange to me not to be able to express that to him.

By: Me

Me — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 18:11:03 +0000

It doesn't seem like any of you like going down there, or that your boyfriends appreciate you at all…my boyfriend wouldn't let me even if I wanted to because he finds it demeaning…I do know that if I did, he wouldn't think twice about kissing me after…

By: Mystery

Mystery — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 18:33:52 +0000

"Or whenever the next opportunity arises"???? Please.

By: Nufoxx

Nufoxx — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 13:49:01 +0000

Well, I don't mind kissing a guy after he's been down there, but then again, i've never had someone with face like a glazed doughnut

By: Gwenevere

Gwenevere — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 18:53:56 +0000

The first time my ex went down on me, when he came back up, he asked me if I was grossed out by kissing him after what he did.. I told him no, that I frequently liked to sample my taste during and after my sexual acts.. That totally relieve him, because he loved kissing me, but didn't want to gross me out..

So it all really depends on the people, and how they like it.. It's probably a good idea to talk about it before the awkward "do we kiss" moment doesn't arrive..