Comments on: Would You Date A Guy Who Weighs Less Than You?

By: Helene

Helene — Fri, 14 Oct 2011 03:26:51 +0000

I'm pretty much average weight and height – thought my thighs and calves are a little thick and not very toned. The guy I'm in a relationship with right now is skinnier than me, which makes me feel wierd sometimes because I feel wider than him in all respects, but he's a good foot taller than me, so I still feel cute and pretty beside him or when we're talking face to face.

By: Kat

Kat — Thu, 30 Jun 2011 20:42:24 +0000

wow I'm in that exact situation. like same sizes and everything. But I do like him. I don't know.

By: average girl

average girl — Tue, 28 Jun 2011 13:34:59 +0000

im actually dating someone who is very close to my weight. My dead weight is 110 and his is somewhere around 120. But he looks skinner than me. He is like scrawy skinny will im like a normal skinny (i am decently muscular) But im not going lie i woulnt want a bf that weighed less than me only because i weigh little enouh if there was a guy who was talller than me and weighed less than me it just would look like he was sick or something. Im not short short but i am short. Im 5'2" or 5'3" and i dont think it is too much to ask for a guy to be taller than me not saying i wouldnt date someone my height i just rather not. I feel so insecure for saying this but i do wish he did weigh more because i feel kinda insecure how much i weigh. There is a long story behind all that but i was finally getting used to being happy with how much i weighed and now im just content.

By: Lisa

Lisa — Mon, 09 May 2011 07:03:22 +0000

I've tried to…but it didn't work. I never really thought weight would be that much of a problem if we really, genuinely got along and made each other happy, but I was wrong. I was maybe 2 inches taller than this guy I dated, and heavier. He was really, really, really thin…underweight, in fact. It honestly made me feel fat. And I was already insecure about my body(I was average but thought I was heavy). I was just never turned on by him…unfortunately. I definitely think women need that strong, masculine body type on a man they are intimate with…unless they are completely secure with their bodies and happy with being with a smaller man. And in that case, kudos to them.

By: nugem

nugem — Sat, 19 Feb 2011 07:38:00 +0000

Lotta anorexic chicks around here. That’s great. Dating chicks.that.are larger than me.is.gross. I like to feel like I.am the man. Sorry for.all the.damn periods . Damn phone.

By: Kira

Kira — Fri, 05 Nov 2010 20:34:39 +0000

I'm a bit of a bigger girl at 5'7" and 160lbs and right now I'm casually seeing this guy who is 5'6" and 120lbs. I thought I'd feel uncomfortable with him, but I don't. Even in bed I feel fine, it's clear that he really wants me…and really knows what he's doing

If he wore skinny jeans and eyeliner I probably would feel fatter around him, but he dresses like a normal guy and doesn't accentuate his skinny-ness…so I feel pretty good.

By: Allison

Allison — Thu, 14 Oct 2010 01:43:10 +0000

Ashley, I don’t know where you got the idea that “girls usually just weigh more than guys.” There’s no truth to that. When you compare average weights of men and women of the same height, men always weigh more than women. There’s nothing to this “we have boobs, butts, and hips to account for” theory. Fat doesn’t weigh much; men weigh more on average than women because they are more muscular and have larger bones (both muscle and bones outweigh fat; breasts and hips are surrounded by fatty tissue). Plus, breasts and hips don’t have to weigh much, but they get bigger the heavier you are. In other words, you can’t blame being heavy on the T&A, blame it on eating too much cake.

I weigh 115, so any guy smaller than that would have to be pretty shrimpy and I’m definitely not attracted to that. I definitely prefer more of a manly man. There is no way that a guy weighing 110 pounds could lift me up against a wall, etc. etc. I wouldn’t want to feel like, at 115 pounds, I’m the more butch one in the relationship lol.

By: Gina

Gina — Thu, 07 Oct 2010 04:30:00 +0000

So…I've been in a long distance relationship for this guy for a short while. He's actually seen a lot of me through pictures and such, but not really my full body because I'm insecure and wont post those type of pictures on Facebook..haha.

I'm 5'7" and weigh around 155. (I can go from 157 to 152 in a couple days…Hahaha..)

He's 5'10 and weighs 145.

This is me:
http://tinypic.com/r/1zwdqqe/7
And this is him:
http://tinypic.com/r/2556n1e/7

He tells me that he thinks I'm beautiful and I shouldn't worry about how much I weigh.

He's coming to see me in…a couple of days actually!

Will we have sex? I don't know. I'm seeing how things flow.

But

From what I've learned throughout this, guys hate it when you complain about the way you look when they love you for who you are.

It hurt his feelings when I told him about my binge dieting to get myself thinner than him before he came. He told me that he didn't want me to do that…that he wanted me just the way I am.

I've still got awhile to find out how he feels about me in person.

But I have faith in us.

By: girl

girl — Tue, 03 Aug 2010 10:24:30 +0000

I went on a blind date a few days ago. He was smart, nice and good-looking. And weighed less than me.

I weigh 105 pounds and am 5'5", so it's not like I could lose weight. I don't actually know for sure how much he weighs but he is like 5'6", very skinny and smaller than me all over…smaller hands, wrists, waist, shoulders, etc.

I liked him, but I can't imagine our relationship getting physical…

I think it's more about me being uncomfortable with my own body than wanting to be protected.

By: emo~sex~appeal

emo~sex~appeal — Thu, 24 Jun 2010 17:13:42 +0000

wow! i've never heard anything so stupid as a girl needing her guys arms to be the size of manhattan just to feel "secure" and "protected". Protect you from what? and "secure"? as if you must be ripped to be stable? at first i thought guys were the more judgmental ones, but its rapidly becoming real to me as to just how shallow girls can be -.-