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		<title>By: ranger334</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/03/05/getting-revenge-on-a-cheater/#comment-147051</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Sep 2011 22:14:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is where the revenge comes in, when she comes calling, i will give her the oppourtunity to set the record straight, because she never admitted to the threesome or any prior cheating, she swore up and down  that it was a one time thing, but i know what happened. If she can man-up and own up to everything that happened, then the revenge plan wont even go into effect, but if she continues to deny in the hopes that she can get me back, i will play right back and feign some interest in seeing her and pretend to miss her all under the pretenses of getting her to come visit me for a weekend or something, and then when she does come visit and makes the 5 hour road trip by herself with all the hopes of sliding back into my life, i will burst her bubble by giving her a false address, (she doesnt know where my new apartment is) and telling her to drive right back when she starts calling me after shes wondering why im not in the condemned and abandonded house that i sent her too. 
 
What do you guys think??? tooo harsh, or a Perfect revenge plan. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is where the revenge comes in, when she comes calling, i will give her the oppourtunity to set the record straight, because she never admitted to the threesome or any prior cheating, she swore up and down  that it was a one time thing, but i know what happened. If she can man-up and own up to everything that happened, then the revenge plan wont even go into effect, but if she continues to deny in the hopes that she can get me back, i will play right back and feign some interest in seeing her and pretend to miss her all under the pretenses of getting her to come visit me for a weekend or something, and then when she does come visit and makes the 5 hour road trip by herself with all the hopes of sliding back into my life, i will burst her bubble by giving her a false address, (she doesnt know where my new apartment is) and telling her to drive right back when she starts calling me after shes wondering why im not in the condemned and abandonded house that i sent her too. </p>
<p>What do you guys think??? tooo harsh, or a Perfect revenge plan. </p>
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		<title>By: ranger334</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/03/05/getting-revenge-on-a-cheater/#comment-147050</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Sep 2011 22:13:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i may be presented with a very promising possibility of revenge on a cheater in the future, my ex girlfriend cheated on me when i was back home for two weeks, the night that i was supposed to come back, i missed my bus. She had a threesome with two of her friends, and i busted her ass when i found some rubs in the trash. we broke up and i left and went back home, i live in NY but went to school in boston where she is from. 
 
before i left she kept saying that this didnt have to be the end of us and that we could just go on a break, and how she is still going to call me and try to be my &quot;friend&quot;. I know that sooner or later she is gonna come calling when she thinks i have moved on and try to wrangle me back into that shitty relationship. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i may be presented with a very promising possibility of revenge on a cheater in the future, my ex girlfriend cheated on me when i was back home for two weeks, the night that i was supposed to come back, i missed my bus. She had a threesome with two of her friends, and i busted her ass when i found some rubs in the trash. we broke up and i left and went back home, i live in NY but went to school in boston where she is from. </p>
<p>before i left she kept saying that this didnt have to be the end of us and that we could just go on a break, and how she is still going to call me and try to be my &quot;friend&quot;. I know that sooner or later she is gonna come calling when she thinks i have moved on and try to wrangle me back into that shitty relationship. </p>
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		<title>By: Ms. Buttersworth</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/03/05/getting-revenge-on-a-cheater/#comment-130966</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ms. Buttersworth]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 May 2011 06:11:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have recently lost a lucrative job due to downsizing. Feeling secure in my relationship of 18+ years I gleefully returned to school. Unemployment aiding me in paying my share of the bills. Only to find out my partner now has &quot;a brand new girlfriend&quot;. He still lives here in my house . Today I found that he suddenly locks up his truck. Why? A 2 am trip to the truck explained it all.  he is now hauling around HER bowling bag in the truck. At first I was going to slice it to ribbons and roll the ball down the alley. I actually considered donating it. Having it come up missing just didnt seem like enough. Instead. I covered the contents in maple syrup and put it back into the locked truck. Tomorrow is bowling night. Good luck to her. And him? Im empting our account in the morning. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have recently lost a lucrative job due to downsizing. Feeling secure in my relationship of 18+ years I gleefully returned to school. Unemployment aiding me in paying my share of the bills. Only to find out my partner now has &quot;a brand new girlfriend&quot;. He still lives here in my house . Today I found that he suddenly locks up his truck. Why? A 2 am trip to the truck explained it all.  he is now hauling around HER bowling bag in the truck. At first I was going to slice it to ribbons and roll the ball down the alley. I actually considered donating it. Having it come up missing just didnt seem like enough. Instead. I covered the contents in maple syrup and put it back into the locked truck. Tomorrow is bowling night. Good luck to her. And him? Im empting our account in the morning. </p>
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		<title>By: stoprevenge</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/03/05/getting-revenge-on-a-cheater/#comment-120120</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Feb 2011 22:02:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m a man and I&#039;ve suffered through two infidelities, three if you count kissing, and I say it is completely wrong to get revenge. It hurts more than anything I&#039;ve ever known elsewhere, but I would never think about harming my partner in any way. To say something about angry women, I think modern women are cheating more than men do, it&#039;s just that women expect men to be perfect and make it seem like we&#039;re the bad guys. Really, I know to many guys who give their girlfriends everything and receive crap. That&#039;s not love, it&#039;s called being a selfish diva. That&#039;s all I have to say. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#039;m a man and I&#039;ve suffered through two infidelities, three if you count kissing, and I say it is completely wrong to get revenge. It hurts more than anything I&#039;ve ever known elsewhere, but I would never think about harming my partner in any way. To say something about angry women, I think modern women are cheating more than men do, it&#039;s just that women expect men to be perfect and make it seem like we&#039;re the bad guys. Really, I know to many guys who give their girlfriends everything and receive crap. That&#039;s not love, it&#039;s called being a selfish diva. That&#039;s all I have to say. </p>
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		<title>By: Chell</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/03/05/getting-revenge-on-a-cheater/#comment-55872</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Chell]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 20:03:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I fully believe its okay to give them whats coming to them. No not with a knive but I want them to suffer like the pain caused upon me. The sleepless, anguished nights where I cried and cried and have never felt worse or more horrible about myself. How is that fair they cheat and I lost everything? I hardly have my sanity left... but damaging things wouldnt be revenge. I want him to feel the way I did when I walked in on our anniversary to him naked with some vial disgusting woman because I came home only 20 minutes earlier... he should feel the way I did.. feel the endless days of torture and the panic attacks I would get and just cry and couldn&#039;t stop myself for hours. There is no greater pain I felt then being cheated on and I&#039;ve lived a pretty difficult life. 

Try walking a mile in my shoes and saying the worst they should feel is &quot;whoops I got caught&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I fully believe its okay to give them whats coming to them. No not with a knive but I want them to suffer like the pain caused upon me. The sleepless, anguished nights where I cried and cried and have never felt worse or more horrible about myself. How is that fair they cheat and I lost everything? I hardly have my sanity left&#8230; but damaging things wouldnt be revenge. I want him to feel the way I did when I walked in on our anniversary to him naked with some vial disgusting woman because I came home only 20 minutes earlier&#8230; he should feel the way I did.. feel the endless days of torture and the panic attacks I would get and just cry and couldn&#8217;t stop myself for hours. There is no greater pain I felt then being cheated on and I&#8217;ve lived a pretty difficult life. </p>
<p>Try walking a mile in my shoes and saying the worst they should feel is &#8220;whoops I got caught&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: john</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/03/05/getting-revenge-on-a-cheater/#comment-52888</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 13:14:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ok cheating is cool dats all girls are here for is sex and 4 the man who got his penis cut of lol ahahah dats cool moor bitchs for me he dickless lol poor bitch i make his wife happy for him are your wifes happy for yous woohoo ahahah ya ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ok cheating is cool dats all girls are here for is sex and 4 the man who got his penis cut of lol ahahah dats cool moor bitchs for me he dickless lol poor bitch i make his wife happy for him are your wifes happy for yous woohoo ahahah ya </p>
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		<title>By: DEE</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/03/05/getting-revenge-on-a-cheater/#comment-51912</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[DEE]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2009 16:41:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think men whom cheat with get it in the end.I have one that has been cheating forever i just found out. and her name is linda brammer and she knows he is married and she dont care .so all u ladies that are angery call her and tell her what a slut she is she is.  works in dalton,ga as a xray tech. 706-581-0712 battlefield imaging ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think men whom cheat with get it in the end.I have one that has been cheating forever i just found out. and her name is linda brammer and she knows he is married and she dont care .so all u ladies that are angery call her and tell her what a slut she is she is.  works in dalton,ga as a xray tech. 706-581-0712 battlefield imaging </p>
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		<title>By: sarah</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/03/05/getting-revenge-on-a-cheater/#comment-38985</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2009 02:58:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ew. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ew. </p>
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		<title>By: Duke It Out: Forgive a Cheater? : College Candy</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/03/05/getting-revenge-on-a-cheater/#comment-38130</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Duke It Out: Forgive a Cheater? : College Candy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 13:01:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] The sad fact is that, while there are exceptions, many people who cheat, cheat again. So even knowing that, should you take them back? Sure, you want to, a part of you is probably aching to, but does that mean you should? And what about the truly repentant? Should they be punished because of a statistical probability? Or should you just do this? [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] The sad fact is that, while there are exceptions, many people who cheat, cheat again. So even knowing that, should you take them back? Sure, you want to, a part of you is probably aching to, but does that mean you should? And what about the truly repentant? Should they be punished because of a statistical probability? Or should you just do this? [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Shawn</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/03/05/getting-revenge-on-a-cheater/#comment-29244</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2009 18:05:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I agree 100% that ANYONE be it male or female that cheats is one of the lowest things someone can do, but come on people. I do agree that a person is allowed to get revenge, but destruction of property and things to that nature are cool and funny? I don&#039;t care what anyone else says, if people do things of that nature they deserve to get the harsh punishment of the law. Yes it&#039;s hurtful and hearbreaking but it seems when it comes to this subject people deem it &quot;okay&quot; to do these things then complain and regret it later when capital punishment is brought onto them. At times people just seem to forget what morals are. Christ I hate the world we live in sometimes. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree 100% that ANYONE be it male or female that cheats is one of the lowest things someone can do, but come on people. I do agree that a person is allowed to get revenge, but destruction of property and things to that nature are cool and funny? I don&#039;t care what anyone else says, if people do things of that nature they deserve to get the harsh punishment of the law. Yes it&#039;s hurtful and hearbreaking but it seems when it comes to this subject people deem it &quot;okay&quot; to do these things then complain and regret it later when capital punishment is brought onto them. At times people just seem to forget what morals are. Christ I hate the world we live in sometimes. </p>
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