Comments on: The Smoking-Hot Reason To Avoid First-Date Sex http://collegecandy.com/2009/03/26/the-smoking-hot-reason-to-avoid-first-date-sex/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Mon, 13 Feb 2012 20:13:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: may http://collegecandy.com/2009/03/26/the-smoking-hot-reason-to-avoid-first-date-sex/#comment-65745 Sat, 23 Jan 2010 09:24:09 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=25166#comment-65745 We fell in love the moment we cuddled and stared at each other's eyes for hours, after sex. And it happened in the first date. My boyfriend wouldn't think less of a girl who knows how to please and enjoy herself in bed; in fact the sex was a way of bonding with him. We're now the happiest couple ever!

]]> By: Jess http://collegecandy.com/2009/03/26/the-smoking-hot-reason-to-avoid-first-date-sex/#comment-24868 Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:14:38 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=25166#comment-24868 I agree with Sarah.

Also, I've waited to have sex with guys later on and it was just a let down. It kind of helps me weed out bad chemistry to a point. I'm not going to sleep with any guy, but if I want to sleep with the guy, I don't see why I shouldn't.

]]> By: Sarah http://collegecandy.com/2009/03/26/the-smoking-hot-reason-to-avoid-first-date-sex/#comment-24694 Fri, 27 Mar 2009 12:04:26 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=25166#comment-24694 I have often slept with men too 'early'. In my own personal experience I don't think that the sexual relationship is faulted by sleeping with the person too early, I think that by having sex sooner you let loose on some of your hangups (since as your sexual relationship grows so do the activities your comfortable with). I however think that by having sex so soon you entangle yourself in a relationship that maybe you would not have been in if you would have let yourself know the guy more.I think at times sex replaces emotional closeness and we confuse the two. As long as you nurture your emotional relationship along with your sexual relationship I think that sex at any point is okay.

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