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The New Meaning of Bondage

birthday_spanking-1Any shared activity among a couple is likely to bring that couple closer together. Hobbies such as painting, gardening, cooking a meal together, or taking a weekly jog together could all romantically benefit relationships. This rule idea applies to couples both in and out of the bedroom where, ironically enough, sadomasochistic (S&M) type of activities are shown to promote bonding.

The New Scientist is reporting that S&M (including spanking, bondage, and flogging), although stressful at first, could bring couples closer together.

In a study, researchers at Northern Illinois University measured the stress hormone cortisol in 13 men and women at an S&M party. “During S&M scenes, cortisol rose significantly in those receiving stimulation, but dropped back to normal within 40 minutes if the scene went well”. At another event, testosterone was measured in 45 men and women and reportedly “increased significantly in receiving women only”. This fluctuation in hormones is understood to help women cope with the stressful nature of the activities.

In both studies, hormone levels returned to normal in couples who enjoyed the experience. The couples who reported the party as a success also “reported an increases in relationship closeness”. These new findings show that “when sexual intercourse is consensual it is not stressful – even if it is extreme sex”.

Not ready for nipple clamps, whips and chains? Don’t worry about it, an activity as simple as cleaning the apartment together could promote closeness withing a couple. Then again, nothing brings a couple closer together than a pair of handcuffs.

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    1. Sam says:

      Ah the one guy I slept with a few weeks back spanked me.. no warning. And it was HARD. Not my cup of tea, but more power to those of you that enjoy it.

    2. thegr8brownie says:

      i think it has to do with the fact that in those types of sexual scenarios, you have to give up a lot of control and put a lot of trust into your partner.

      So after the experience if your partner hasnt abused the power you gave them, then it brings you closer.

    3. sauer kraut says:

      Huh. Really?

      And the spanking and other stuff endured by kids at the hands of their parents bring them closer together too, eh?

      Guess I'm of the opposite frame of mind.

      That nipple thing, however, sounds interesting in a sickish sort of way.

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