A few years ago, if someone mentioned a self-help book around me I would have cringed… and laughed in their face. I didn’t understand how people could pay money for books that any idiot with a computer could write and try to pawn off as good, sound advice. However, in light of some recent events, my attitude about self-help books and the like has done a complete 180.
Not to say I’m a total self-help junkie now, but I am pretty shameless about the fact that I read – and believe in – the healing power of self-help books. (Okay, that sounded unnecessarily cheesy, but you catch my drift.)
So, even if you’ve never snuck a peak at the Self Help section in Barnes & Nobles (or are just too embarrassed to admit it), here’s some of my faves & some others whose street cred is pretty great, as far as self-help books goes:
1. You Can Heal Your Life – Louise L. Hay. I just recently started reading this one myself and I’m in love. It’s intense and has caused quite a few life-changing epiphanies, and Hay will seriously stop at nothing to help you create your perfect life.
2. The Secret – Rhonda Byrne. The now uber-famous Law of Attraction is explained in this simple, visually appealing, tiny book. And when you don’t exactly have time to sit down & waft through an intense self-help workshop like you’d get from something like You Can Heal Your Life, The Secret will totally suffice. You can easily soak up a chapter between classes or use it as a study distraction. It’s more exciting than King Lear, I promise.
3. Succulent Wild Woman by SARK. Or anything by SARK, actually. Her books are super colorful, easy to read and inspiring. She’s been through it all and has the battle wounds to prove it, but has basically turned out absolutely wonderful, if you ask me.
4. Eat, Pray, Love – Elizabeth Gilbert. Although personally I’m not so sure how I feel about a book with ‘Pray’ in the title, I’ve heard oodles of good things about this one. This book was basically a third appendage when my old roommate was chillin’ in our apartment between lectures.
5. The Red Book – Sera Beak. Recommended by one of my favorite bloggers, Miss Gala Darling over at iCiNG, this book is all about creating your own brand of spirituality.
6. He’s Just Not That Into You – Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. Okay, this isn’t exactly a “self-help” book, per se, but it’s a pretty practical reminder for women out there that some men really actually do just suck (and there are NO excuses for them!).
7. Spilling Open: The Art of Becoming Yourself – Sabrina Ward Harrison. More of a journal than a self-help book, it’s filled with inspiring collages and scrawled messages from Harrison’s own mind alongside space to spill your own deep thoughts. Ch’yeah.
Know a good self help book you want to share with other CC readers? Talk about it in the comments.



katharine says:
Tue, 7th Apr 200910:55 am
Spilling Open is amazing. Even if it doesn’t inspire someone, they would still love the creativity.
eSs says:
Wed, 8th Apr 20099:29 pm
When Things Fall Apart. AMAZINGGGG!! It’s def something you can turn to over & over again in life, when things fall apart
Elizabeth says:
Sat, 2nd May 20092:00 pm
I was about to say I didn’t care for “The Secret” at all, when I realized, well,I never actually READ it. So I guess I’d have to say I didn’t care for what I read about it. But I did like ‘Eat, Pray, Love.” Here’s another suggestion: Liquid Mirror by Kelly LaSha. There’s a workbook section — made me aware of the value of being honest to myself and helped me find the unconscious beliefs (we all have ‘em!) that run my life. I feel like I’m in the driver’s seat now, rather than let life happen to me, instead.
Richard Harte says:
Sat, 16th Jan 201011:53 am
One of the most popular self-help books in the UK is titled Secret Habits of Successful Bastards. It is a self-help book aimed at helping people who are too nice for their own good. It is funny but painfully true and gives the reader an insight into what it really takes to be successful. Women love it, because it catalogues 100 ways that people operate to win, and the author’s webiste even allows a person to measure just how much of a bastard someone is, and get a free certificate to present to them afterwards. Try the ‘Bastardometer’ at http://www.successful-bastards.com. Perfect for boyfriends and husbands that need a gentle ‘wake-up’ call!
sallybeam says:
Fri, 5th Feb 20105:47 am
Wow! Thanks for your sharing. Gonna find to read some of them.
Here’s where I share my favorite best self help books http://www.selfhelpfriend.com
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