Comments on: Is It Possible to be Too Single? http://collegecandy.com/2009/04/23/is-it-possible-to-be-too-single/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Mon, 13 Feb 2012 23:36:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Latest Hollywood Gossip – Round 1: Apr 28, 09 | Celebrity Gossip http://collegecandy.com/2009/04/23/is-it-possible-to-be-too-single/#comment-132062 Mon, 09 May 2011 17:18:15 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=28077#comment-132062 [...] Is it possible to be too single? – College Candy [...]

]]> By: e http://collegecandy.com/2009/04/23/is-it-possible-to-be-too-single/#comment-31040 Fri, 01 May 2009 19:32:27 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=28077#comment-31040 are you fat?

]]> By: kiki http://collegecandy.com/2009/04/23/is-it-possible-to-be-too-single/#comment-30948 Fri, 01 May 2009 11:34:42 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=28077#comment-30948 i HATE being single.

]]> By: Rachel http://collegecandy.com/2009/04/23/is-it-possible-to-be-too-single/#comment-30925 Fri, 01 May 2009 00:30:29 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=28077#comment-30925 I think there is definitely such a thing as being too single. I'm almost 25, and I've never had a boyfriend. EVER. I'm the epitome of being too single. The last date I had was my sophomore year of college when (I believe) Fantasia was on American Idol. I find myself resenting the girls I know who somehow manage to go from one relationship to another, like they are trading in last year's pair of jeans. But I don't think my independence and self-sufficiency are the reason I am single. I attribute it more to social awkwardness and lack of confidence. Those are my reasons, I'm sure that other serial singles have different ones. I am just now learning that there is nothing wrong with me for being single and independent, which has helped me accept my life of singledom,though I'd still like to join the world of coupledom.

]]> By: kitch http://collegecandy.com/2009/04/23/is-it-possible-to-be-too-single/#comment-30778 Wed, 29 Apr 2009 20:08:00 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=28077#comment-30778 i am like you, but probably single for more years than you have been. i am not sad about being single, too. in fact, i enjoy it and am ready to be single for the rest of my life.

]]> By: Jane http://collegecandy.com/2009/04/23/is-it-possible-to-be-too-single/#comment-30719 Wed, 29 Apr 2009 08:46:41 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=28077#comment-30719 You're not too single, you're independent, and in the best of ways! I can't stand the sort of girl (or guy) that needs to be in a relationship to make it. Plus, you said you're content, and I say that being content is the true goal, not being taken. If you want a relationship, maybe you could start pursuing one more actively, but it's not as if there's anything wrong with your behavior now just because you don't have one.

Independence and the ability to make yourself happy without needing to rely on someone else to feel okay is a fantastic thing, and it's something that not that many girls have. Never sacrifice it just to find some dude.

]]> By: Anya D Night http://collegecandy.com/2009/04/23/is-it-possible-to-be-too-single/#comment-30537 Mon, 27 Apr 2009 14:34:34 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=28077#comment-30537 screw. that. My boyfriend always says he loves me because I don't need him and still want him, the moment he gets upset that I'm not damsel-y enough, I am booking the first flight to Singlesville and you and I can hang out and drink and take out trash together, hairy legs and all.

Maybe it isn't your independence that's bad, but the guys you're meeting? Or how you meet them?

]]> By: Shayla http://collegecandy.com/2009/04/23/is-it-possible-to-be-too-single/#comment-30308 Sun, 26 Apr 2009 12:24:14 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=28077#comment-30308 ugh! I'm totally that girl.

Seriously, haven't been in a proper relationship for almost 2 years. It sucks. I know it's something about me – I mean, I'm fairly attractive. Okay, a LOT more attractive than some girls, I'll be honest.

But it's obviously a personality thing when it comes to dating.

I can easily attract guys but my problem is staying neutral like that; ive been out of a relationship for so long that every time someone comes along i get superduper attached and the whole debacle starts again…

i just hope i can work out what's stopping "things" from becoming "relationships."

Good Luck to you!

]]> By: Joe the Drunk http://collegecandy.com/2009/04/23/is-it-possible-to-be-too-single/#comment-30140 Sat, 25 Apr 2009 08:50:50 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=28077#comment-30140 What's the problem here?

Why can't you be single and still live a little?

And what's the difference between the college girl who keeps her legs crossed but opens them when she wants to and the filthy fuckpigs who whore around college campuses all the time in the year 2009?

]]> By: Stephanie http://collegecandy.com/2009/04/23/is-it-possible-to-be-too-single/#comment-30040 Fri, 24 Apr 2009 13:11:00 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=28077#comment-30040 That is so true. Guys do need to feel needed. A lot of people don't realize that these days.

I'm single too, though, and I'd have to say that if you're happy being single, don't change a thing. If not (for any girls out there), then do something about it.

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