For the marriage trapper-if she does that to me i Wouldn't even think about marrying her,i would Dump her and leave her right there! she'll just be trapping herself! i'm not the kinda guy that'll sport around with some BIG belly chick/sagging woman(pregnant women are a turn-off} afterwards and act like if she's a super model..it's either you take your birth control and look good with figure but betray my trust…i dump you!simply put.

for the circumciser- i would hunt you down and murder you brutally..female genital mutilation style(it's justified for this}…and wipe out your entire family, Hitler style…slowly but surely…fire with fire!

all that being said, ground rules must be stated early in the relationship and guys must know what they want in a girl,if she doesn't want to abide by your views,move on..so think!!

who would want a baby that bad?

… and Melanie, does a man have a right to know he has a child?

Try banging your head on the desk while repeating "It's not about ME"! There are three people involved, you, the father and the child.

Your response shows that your mother was only thinking of what SHE wanted.

"A woman without a man is like a from with out a bicycle". Right. Ask a six year old girl if she'd rather have a bicycle or a father.

It's not about you. Other people are involved, they also have rights. If you'd quit looking at your reflection in the pond long enough, you might see that.

criolle