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Tuffy Luv Sez, He May Or May Not Be Just Not That Into You Or He Might Be Into You Or…Yeah.
May 12, 2009 Posted in Advice, Relationships
Got something you need to know, but just can’t ask your friends (or the freaks who weigh in on Yahoo Answers)? Ask Tuffy. She’ll answer anything (seriously, anything!) honestly and without judgment. After all, her name isn’t Sugar Coater. So shoot her an email: tuffyluv@collegecandy.com.
Dear Tuffy Luv,
I went out with a guy a few weeks ago. We had a really good time (I think?). We had a few drinks, then he drove me all the way home, even though I told him I could walk. The convo was great, we had a lot in common and I thought he was a cutie patootie. I don’t want to be all annoying girl in “He’s Just Not That Into You,” but I really don’t understand why he never called? Aren’t all those things signs that he’s interested?
Perturbed.
Dear Perturbed,
Number one: If I catch you drinking and driving again, I will cut you in the face. Seriously, not cool. You heard, everyone?! No matter how short the distance, it’s NEVER okay to risk others’ lives.
And now to address your actual question. Okay. This is tricky because there actually is no answer. Let’s look at a couple o’ scenerios.
Numero unoski: He likes you and is too shy to make the next move. Actually, this is the most likely. Maybe you should give him a call and see if he wants to go out again. You never know what might happen.
Number two-oo-oo: Something happened in his life that made dating his last priority. Maybe there was a family emergency, or maybe he just flunked a test. Either way, a text message saying hey couldn’t hurt.
Numberino three: He thought he was gonna get laid, and when you didn’t put out, he gave up.
or:
Number four: Yeah, it wasn’t working for him.
Anyway, any way you slice it, contacting him casually to feel it out is worth it if you thought you guys really had something. Just a “hey, wanna grab a slice?” would do. Nothing longer than that, or you risk freaking him out if the reason was in fact number 4.
Good luck, girl!
Hearts & Skulls,
Tuffy Luv
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rach says:
Tue, 12th May 20091:05 pm
i just saw the author of He’s just not that into do stand up in dc (it was awesome) and one of the main point of his book is that you deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you and not just when it is convenient for that person. Greg’s point is, that if he wants to hang out, he’ll call. otherwise. move on to greener pastures.
Sam says:
Tue, 12th May 20091:04 pm
Tuffy Luv,
She didn't drive home
"We had a few drinks, then he drove me all the way home, even though I told him I could walk."
Kim says:
Tue, 12th May 20092:02 pm
She shouldn't have let him drive.
Annie says:
Tue, 12th May 20094:23 pm
Make sure the yogurt you use as a starter has active cultures.
Tellie:
Hello? This is how yogurt is made. Why would it be a health hazard?
As for the cost, a gallon of milk around here costs about three dollars while a minuscule plastic container on flavored yogurt costs anywhere from 50 cents to a dollar. Yogurt can in fact be eaten unflavored and strawberries aren't that expensive anyway. You can also use less expensive fruits. Ever think of banana yogurt or apple yogurt? You can stir in vanilla extract and make a homemade McDonalds fruit and walnut salad, whatever.
That being said, yogurt does gross me out a little. XD Nice article though.
Annie says:
Tue, 12th May 20094:24 pm
Hahahah, I posted on the wrong tab. =)
Good luck with the man, but no one should be driving under the influence.
zoe says:
Wed, 13th May 20091:30 pm
omg, I'm surprised at you tuffy love, normally you cut the crap and tell it like it is. This time you are MASSIVELY sugaring the pill. I don't want to be harsh, and I fully hope to be proven wrong, but he is just. not. that. into. you. If he was, he would have called. simple. As rach said, you deserve someone who is, so go find him.
Brit says:
Mon, 15th Jun 20098:12 am
I must agree, it's not hard to give a simple phone call. Some guys will travel across continents for a girl, and this guy can't even be bothered to pick up his cell? If he was occupied with a family situation, he could still have sent a text if he was even remotely thinking about you. Anyway, if he's got other issues that are stopping him..then you should move on because you deserve a guy who will give you his full attention. While his actions may not be full of bad intentions, they're certainly not good enough to give him merit. Move along, you deserve it
Mel says:
Thu, 7th Jan 20109:53 pm
Okay, so I think the picture link is broken. Unless your picture is supposed to be a guy ranting about bloggers direct-linking his photo or something? Just checking….