Comments on: He Had a Girlfriend…And I Hooked Up With Him Anyway

By: Jen

Jen — Sat, 03 Oct 2009 19:34:56 +0000

Yeah. You should have walked away. Even if you didn’t know the other girl, out of respect for how much hurt that situation can cause another person you should have stopped it. After all, nobody really wants to be the person who caused someone else that much hurt, even unintentionally. Besides, there are many other single hot guys out there. Hook up with one of them, and the moment won’t be spoiled by guilt.

By: natalie

natalie — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 04:44:04 +0000

i may be cynical but i beleive everyone cheats, we’re only young once.. don’t get attached and you’ll be fine

By: Rick

Rick — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 03:15:44 +0000

If you were guy I would have to tell you, “You were thinking with the little head again instead of the big one huh.”
What is this crap he chased me stuff. at the end of the night either you gave it up or not, and you did made the decision to say what the Hell do me. That makes you the girl we don’t settle down with. Listen to Lainey, She has this all figured out she has been clued into this whole me Tarzan, You Jane mentality. Single guys see women in two ways in social settings one night stands and the kind you take home to momma. and guess what honey? You get to pick which one you want to be getting dressed and putting on your make up before you even step out the door. The quicker you figure this out the faster your find the right guy. Take it from a former hunter turned farmer because I found that someone who respected herself enought to say no. and spent two years getting her to say I do not I cant help myself.

By: ClandestineGentleman

ClandestineGentleman — Sun, 31 May 2009 20:16:59 +0000

We all create the circumstances of our lives through our decisions and mindset. In the grand-scheme of things, you did what came naturally to you. An attractive man approached you and when you discovered he might be involved with another woman, the chemicals of our human dance of attraction had already coursed through your brain. I am not excusing your actions or condemning them, but under the influence of alcohol we our not often at the highest level of human reasoning, usually quite the opposite… then throw in the biological chemicals of attraction and these things happen, quite often.
Do not take this situation to harshly, there was to be learned.

And you never know, I recently split with a girl of close to two years. The day it was ‘done’ I went out, had a great time with friends, and since I was out of town we went back to a friend’s house. Had she come back to my house that evening, she would have likely seen the signals of a relationship even though mine was over. Deep down on a primal level though, I think the fact that he was a man in demand by the pictures, it hit you and turned you on and that is why you feel guilty now.

I wouldn’t beat yourself up over this…but at the same time I would not go out looking for these situations because if they continue you can guarantee some dramatic fireworks.

Even though most people will not admit it, we’ve all been a situation like this or similar at sometime. And the people that judge you the most for it, are really just showing you a reflection of their own actions.

By: Sush

Sush — Sat, 30 May 2009 12:41:20 +0000

There is more important issues in life, than pampering guilt- conscious feelings.

If this make u feel better, I’ve been dumped 2 days ago, because he was not happy with me refusing sex with him many times, because of my Bible belief.

Ok, if it makes you feel better, nobody is at fault, nobody can be trusted these days, and nobody can solve all life’s problem, so go to the Living Word. There you will find answers to your questions, it always does.

By: Madeline Olivia

Madeline Olivia — Tue, 26 May 2009 07:06:23 +0000

Humans are not monogamous people. Monogamous relationships are as unnatural as fish with feet and beaks.

Go out and have sex with all the men you want to. Hell, you may even be liberated.

By: BabyBear

BabyBear — Thu, 21 May 2009 03:58:40 +0000

you’re feeling of the impending doom of Karma is correct. expect it when you least expect it

1. you were wrong to sleep with him
2. considering that’s the kind of guy you’re attracted to, don’t be surprised when you find out your man is cheating.

By: QueenHoneyBee3009

QueenHoneyBee3009 — Wed, 20 May 2009 19:32:31 +0000

You are a “dirt bag” and so is he! You knew, so, a) you’re lying to yourself and b) he’s lying to her! Either way, you’re both lying and greedy and selfish!
Don’t care about the other girl, how would you feel if this were your man you were serious about and you caught him cheating with someone? Sad! People do not care about each other any more as humans orhav respect for themselves or others! Next time, don’t drink that much and just WALK AWAY!

By: Jennifer

Jennifer — Tue, 19 May 2009 15:31:58 +0000

The fact that you justify it as the alcohol talking shows you know you made the wrong decision. It’s not just about him or the girlfriend: show yourself a little respect. So the guy’s a good kisser? He’s also a terrible person. And you really want to ‘make love’ to that?

By: Jenn

Jenn — Tue, 19 May 2009 03:39:30 +0000

So what he didn’t tell her about the girlfriend…. Maybe the girlfriend was having a alone night with toys from http://www.ThePleasureEden.com