Comments on: He Said/She Said: Swiping Your V-Card http://collegecandy.com/2009/05/20/he-saidshe-said-swiping-your-v-card/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Fri, 25 May 2012 21:07:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Sexy Time: The First Time : College Candy http://collegecandy.com/2009/05/20/he-saidshe-said-swiping-your-v-card/#comment-96042 Thu, 02 Sep 2010 13:01:23 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=30189#comment-96042 [...] lies we are told about virginity. Even the language – “losing” it, being “deflowered,” having your v-card “stolen,” makes it sound like sex is some kind of black hole for [...]

]]> By: loreal http://collegecandy.com/2009/05/20/he-saidshe-said-swiping-your-v-card/#comment-36206 Wed, 24 Jun 2009 07:07:00 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=30189#comment-36206 it happend wen ws 20 yrs..old..i did it wid my bf..we were in relationship since an year..we often thot abt doin it before but somethin in me stopped me from doin it. but on the first anniversary of our relationship …we were alone at his place and some where at the back o my mind was ready for it…and he made da first move …n it happend .n it ws best sex i ever had..bcoz we were so much in love…lots of love and feelings were involved..n i was happy that i finally did it with the one i love..n he is still my bf…but we share the same love and intimacy..even after 3 yrs.!i think one shd do it sm1 u really love.!

]]> By: Stephanie http://collegecandy.com/2009/05/20/he-saidshe-said-swiping-your-v-card/#comment-35198 Sat, 13 Jun 2009 18:05:56 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=30189#comment-35198 I'm glad I'm not the only one who went through the 'sore, sweaty, and thinking wtf just happened' aftermath. I lost my virginity when I was 14 to a guy who had me convinced that he was dying and previously mentioned that he didn't want to die a virgin. (Now he's alive and healthy, just as he was two years ago.) So I don't exactly have the best memory of swiping my v-card: a guy I didn't love and an out-of-control lie. At the time, I thought losing it that way would make me feel almost noble in a way- sacrificing part of myself for someone who apparently deserved it. But honestly? It was incredibly awkward both during and after, and all I wanted to do by the time I got home was take a shower and forget it had happened. The experience has made me a bit more than uncomfortable when I think about being active with my current boyfriend- despite what people tell me, I just don't want to go through that weirdness again. Any ideas on how to get rid of the lingering letdown?

]]> By: Meg http://collegecandy.com/2009/05/20/he-saidshe-said-swiping-your-v-card/#comment-33832 Sat, 30 May 2009 21:12:39 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=30189#comment-33832 I'm 20 and a virgin. Originally my intention was to wait til marriage, but there have been times were I just want to swipe it and be done. Unfortunately my bf doesn't "do virgins." So unless he ends up being the one and marries me or something I'll be a virgin for awhile.

Apparently he's only swiped one vcard, and it was while he was swiping his own. The emotional bull crap was apparently a lot, and after the bitch broke his heart he decided he didn't want to put anyone in that same position. Thus no devirginizing unless there's marriage involved.

*sigh*

]]> By: cait http://collegecandy.com/2009/05/20/he-saidshe-said-swiping-your-v-card/#comment-33742 Fri, 29 May 2009 17:29:02 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=30189#comment-33742 This makes me scared to lose mine. I feel like I waited too long and now NO GUY will want me. It's not my fault though, no one was ever attracted to me till senior year of high school and because of that I'm really awkward with the opposite sex, now I'm a college junior! OH NO! (trust me, I'm ready)

]]> By: Chirstina http://collegecandy.com/2009/05/20/he-saidshe-said-swiping-your-v-card/#comment-33711 Fri, 29 May 2009 15:04:35 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=30189#comment-33711 Lily: just screen capture the convo by pressing “prt sc” on your keyboard. It’s usually up in the top right section. Then paste it into Paint or something. :)

]]> By: lily http://collegecandy.com/2009/05/20/he-saidshe-said-swiping-your-v-card/#comment-33450 Tue, 26 May 2009 21:05:03 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=30189#comment-33450 I LOVE He said/she said, it's easily the best of the best on this site. I think this is such a great one because I couldn't agree more. Question, how do you copy and paste the entire iChat questions like that? I'm a writer too and I get a lot of ideas and advice, but no I'm not copying your idea, I promise!

Thanks and keep it up

]]> By: Rozy http://collegecandy.com/2009/05/20/he-saidshe-said-swiping-your-v-card/#comment-33378 Tue, 26 May 2009 00:50:51 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=30189#comment-33378 I feel fortunate to have had a wonderful time losing my v-card–even if the first 10 minutes was awkward as hell after we realized he wasn't even in…but it does make us chuckle.

]]> By: Kat http://collegecandy.com/2009/05/20/he-saidshe-said-swiping-your-v-card/#comment-33243 Sun, 24 May 2009 11:01:04 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=30189#comment-33243 Well, I think guys like virgins since they can't go wrong. The girl has no great sex to relate to in their past! So, win win.

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