Kingsley Okpare says:
Fri, 22nd May 20092:36 am 

Well I Love sex but I am not married, I have this boyfriend who insist We must have sex anythime we see, We are having problem now because he wants me to get pregnant for him before he comes see my Parents what do I do cos I live him

Lia says:
Fri, 22nd May 20097:16 am 

Kingsley Okpare are you serious? 'Get pregnant for him'? A child is a lifelong commitment and he expects you to be preggers before he's even met your folks?! Dude wants some guaranteed grip on your life so when your parents meet this loser, they won't encourage you to ditch him if you're knocked up. Sex is great but your bf sounds like a horny control freak. DO NOT let this fool impregnate you. Do you want to get married soon? Does he? Do you have a good steady pay check? Does he? Do you currently have a lifelong commitment (I didn't say do you WANT one, I said do you HAVE one cause a baby IS ONE. And it doesn't guarantee your relationship, it just guarantees that you'll never be rid of him entirely if he drops you), are you living together and for how long, has he EVER cheated on you, what are his exact reasons for the pregnancy clause, what's his relationship like with his parents- these are all questions you need to review thoroughly and then run away from this dude. And please read 'The Complete A**hole's Guide to Handling Chicks'- I think you might spot several of your exes. Good luck and stay on the pill.

vikash says:
Sat, 6th Jun 20091:55 pm 

sir, my penic is very loose,thin,sort.

plz give me advise

NedNoD says:
Tue, 16th Jun 20094:57 am 

I'm female. I'm usually the one initiating sex with my husband. A lot of people find this weird, but I like it 3-4 times a week, hell, if it was twice daily I'd be content. But sex isn't everything and it's nice to put on some clothes and go outside and, you know, be seen, and not every date night needs to end with sex, but strip jenga is so much fun when you're bored, horny-but not quite in the mood yet. Takes a while, and it gets competitive, but it's laughs for the both of you.

CC says:
Fri, 26th Jun 20098:57 pm 

Well my boyfriend and I have sex 2-3 times a day. I'm very content with that. I couldn't imagine going a week with out it.

sue says:
Sun, 13th Sep 20092:23 am 

my boyfirend and i have been together for a long time and he want sex eveyday, no amount of sex is ever enough for him. what should i do?

fluffy says:
Sat, 21st Nov 20095:39 pm 

hey hi there can anyone help me with my problem… im 23 and everytime me and bf were having sex i cannot reach the climax, it feels like im gonna pee and dont know what wrong. my bf dont know that i dont release the climax… that he might get offended. thanks mail me flufflygal@rocketmail.com

Kevo says:
Sat, 19th Dec 20095:48 am 

I love this discussion

danielle says:
Fri, 8th Jan 20101:49 pm 

ok me and my boyfriend have sex 2-3 times a day… i mean i love the sex… but is that to much? and when we have sex i sometimes have pain on the right side of my vagina around entry… and sometimes i get pain in my stomach when in doggy style.. do u have any suggestions?

tricia samaroo says:
Tue, 18th May 20101:06 pm 

hi am been married for 12 years. my husband is 35 and an 31 lately i find sex has gone out of our life. hes always tired or stress we have sex about once a week can u helpme please.

Gwen says:
Fri, 20th Aug 20103:37 am 

Danielle,

I'm on here for the exact same reason. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now and we have sex 2-4 times a day every day of the week. I love having sex with him but I started having pain in the right side of my vagina about a month ago during entry. We can't keep our hands off each other and now it's to the point where I feel so bruised even sitting down hard hurts and the pain is overriding the pleasure for the whole experience. I also get stomach cramps for a day or two when we have sex from behind. I hope they respond to me here cause I'm really starting to worry if I should go to the Doctor about this or not.

Jamie says:
Wed, 25th Aug 20101:34 pm 

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We have sex until we are completely worn out or it starts hurting me. (3-6 times a day) We don't always see each other everyday but we've kind of figured out that when it starts hurting me its because a)it needs to be lubricated

b)from doing it rough it gives you rug burn

While I was at the doctor's office she said she noticed irritation on the inside of my vagina and offered to prescribe a cream to heal it. I passed because you can easily get infections in that area. Just give yourself time to heal.

Sezzynena says:
Mon, 29th Nov 20108:24 pm 

Hey there well i am 19 years old, i been in a current relationship for 9months now and my sex life is great. We do have sex Everyday about 2-3 a day. To me is kind of getting to me like an usual thing and same thing over and over. After we have sex i have crampins . Is dat normal? And sometime a little spot of bleeding when urinating. I need advice asap tanks

Brandi Graham says:
Sun, 24th Apr 201110:16 pm 

I went to the dr for stomach pain during sex, and an exam was done. I had cervical pollyps, ovarian cysts, and fibroids. All ti which cause pain, and dangerous if not treated prompt or properly. Dont play with your health. If it hurts theres a reason.

Elisa says:
Mon, 23rd May 201112:27 am 

He is a guy therefore he has watched porn and has been in sex ed. That pee is your cum your body says weather or not you are going to pee or cum. just like guys do.

elisa says:
Mon, 23rd May 201112:37 am 

you are dumb. you need to have your boy friend needs to meet your parents whether you are pregnant or not and whether you are married or not. If he gets you pregnant you will have him in your life until your child dies. even then he will be there. you better just becarful. I am 19 almost 20 and my son is almost 1 he is the best thing that has happened to me and i am happily married to his father. we discussed having the baby in about two years not a year go. my mom was sixteen when she had me and three different men knocked her up and two ditched her and now she suffers from the abusing they did and what her daughter she cannot see thinks of her. my grandma was 18 and the night before she had my dad her baby daddy bought her a plain ticket to go back to washington and never see him again. my cousin baby daddy was in the military over 21 when she was 15 and she got prego and is just now getting her life started 4 children later and she is 21. her baby daddy left her and has never seen his son. you better watch out. do not get stuck in that situation. because it will and can easily happen to you.

Krista says:
Fri, 10th Jun 201112:03 am 

I'm younger than most people on here and me and my boyfriend have sex about once or twice a week. But I never have orgasms. Is this normal and is there anything I can do to help? Message me.

dimples says:
Tue, 19th Jul 201112:04 am 

I have been with my bf for 13 years.. I am a 31 year old female, and when we first started our relationship,we had sex every hour. Now im just not into it. Is this normal?

Krishna Kuram says:
Fri, 2nd Sep 20116:35 am 

you are do sex whit me

,ark says:
Thu, 22nd Sep 20117:07 am 

wow, sex every hour……thats awesome-getting busy…..

thomas says:
Tue, 11th Oct 20117:07 pm 

i get laid alot. sometimes two or three women a day and not less than once a day. its all casual. i love sex but i feel like im stretching myself too thin or that since im having so much sex with different women, all clean btw, that its making me not as good. and im good. i cant cum unless she does and sometimes that gets old. i want to slow down but i dont at the same time. im 30. what are the physiological implications minus stds for having so much sex? what are your suggestions?

Scott says:
Sun, 30th Oct 201110:54 pm 

First off I’m18 years old and have been in a relationship about a year now and get to see my gf only on the weekends at which point we have sex 15
times or more and I have had two previous relationships similar because of my “talent” as I’m told. I also give advice to many ppl and will now do the same here.
To answer multiple questions:
Vikash Type more clearly and explain what it is you want to know.
Sue You need to talk to him and tell him that sex isn’t that big to you ad it is to him and that you would rather be less frequent using facts such aether fact that a little patience will really rile u up for that next time if he is worth ur time he will understand
Krista Yes it is sadly very normal for women to not have orgasms going off of assumptions what you could definitely benefit from is more adventure in the bedroom including toys ribbed condoms flavored gel and a little more foreplay to get those sweet spots really sensitive for the main course
Dimples After thirteen years of the same person sex will become monotonous he’ll I’m 18 and some of my relationships became monotonous in weeks! You could greatly benefit from the advice that I gave to Krista as well
Thomas What other problems could there be ? Look above! Monotony is going to be one of ur biggest problems along with the fact that after a long weekend sometimes I have trouble getting in the game it is just skin I would not be surprised to see some ED in the future not to mention the more partners you have the less being with someone monogamously will appeal to you and will create massive bedroom issues so cool it down man you ain’t even close to old but those prime family man years are ticking away!

sunny says:
Fri, 11th Nov 201110:03 am 

hiiiiiiii sue,i am an army man. my wife want sex at least three times in a day. when i am on leave i give three or four time sex. she is sooo much happy and love me lot. actually i like only one time in a one day.but for her happiness i did it and i am happy

izzy says:
Tue, 3rd Jan 20124:22 am 

I’m 35 I have 4 children3 with previous relationship I have been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs and our baby is 18 mths. We only recently moved in together and he is doing my head in with sex every morning he wakes me up hands in my pj bottoms and mastabates all the time even next to me while he thinks I’m sleeping. I hate it I hate sex I hate being poked and proded. He then gets the right hump if I say no, but he gets his way anyway I feel like his sex toy. I’m going to leave if he carrys on

dibo says:
Mon, 20th Feb 20127:38 pm 

i’m 23 and me and ma boyfriend do alot of sex like 4 times or more a day and this this i been having some stomach pains and my vagina is kindo painful on the intrance and this is worrying me.

qwerty says:
Sun, 26th Feb 20123:01 pm 

you don't need to pee, you're a squirter, meaning you ejactulate during orgasm, don't worry, what comes out is not urine, it is a mixture of sugar and hormones. just relax and let it happen, if you try and hold back the need to pee you hold back your orgasm.

Lily says:
Mon, 27th Feb 20125:29 pm 

You're just sore. Try just once a day.

How Often Should You Have Sex To Conceive says:
Sat, 17th Mar 201210:23 pm 

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rajnish says:
Mon, 7th May 20123:39 am 

i fall within 2 or 3 minute at the time of sex tel me how much time should be limit of sex and tel me the way by which i could increase my sex power at the time of sex

TaTa says:
Tue, 15th May 201210:37 am 

I know the feeling! My husband was in a motorcycle accident 5 years ago and every since then, he wants to have sex every day!! More than once if he can get it up! It makes me sick! I should of been a nun, I could go without sex the rest of my life and be OK with it! I feel your pain, I feel more like a sex toy than a wife. Good luck!

Markos says:
Sat, 9th Jun 20127:30 am 

Hi all great thread . Im a 28 yr old. Male and i have sex with

My g/f 1 to 2 times a day . If i had the time for more i would . My girlfreind is. Complaning that we have sex to much so i only get it at a night most times. But she is still complaning that its to much and it tires her out she tries to get away with it any Chance she gets . I personaly think its very healthy is there anything i can do to increse her sex drive the foreplay is good we have , anything else ?

jaskola says:
Fri, 3rd Aug 20128:31 am 

i am sex time my water is fast going wat know do

Lithium says:
Mon, 1st Oct 20128:05 am 

I’m a 19 year old and I’ve been dating my boyfriend for like 5months now..I usually see him weekends cause I’m a student at University and he works..we have sex more than 10times in a weekend to an extant that its painful when I urinate and I bleed alil sometimes I get pains when we have sex behind..is that normal?he says I shouldn’t tell him I’m sore cause that’s not true

garry says:
Tue, 2nd Oct 201211:22 am 

you should get yourself checked for a UTI. getting them frequently can damage your reproductive system, also your kidneys.

Jessie Lynn says:
Tue, 2nd Oct 20129:13 pm 

Just curious. I'm 26 and my partner is 23. I don't think it's a bad thing but lately I've been questioning it. My partner and I have been together for a year now. Exclusive and all. He use to have multiple sex partners, at the same time (We've both been tested so, no worries there.) and jokes about being addicted to sex. Now I am questioning me. I've always been the "long term relationship" type. I've always had very high standards for safety and protection too. However, I'm just as sexually active as he is. We have sex at least 2-3 times a day sometimes it can get up to around 8 or 9 times. It doesn't interrupt school, work, or any of our responsibilities, but it does interrupt our sleep. To the point where one of us will wake the other if the mood strikes, and we don't get to sleep until early hours of the morning, only to be up by 7am. We've tried going to "bed" early so we can fall asleep early, but that doesn't really work at all. We'll sooner stay in and watch netflix, than actually date, just in case the "mood strikes". Though we do go out and have dates, we're no shut-ins. I'm quite content with the way things are, but at the same time, I am worrying if too much sex can actually be unhealthy. I mean as far as being a sex addict goes, none of those "symptoms" listed fit myself, and currently none except for maybe the use of porn fit my partner. There's no pressure to have sex, we don't do it during my time of the month cause it just freaks me out, and there are nights were neither of us really want to do it. He'll pout and whimper sometimes if I don't want to, but I really see it as nothing cause it doesn't start a fight, he doesn't get upset, and he'll just go masturbate. So really what I am wondering is, could both of us be addicted to sex, and is it healthy that we are like this even though both of us are content?

Harley nicole says:
Mon, 5th Nov 20126:21 pm 

Im 16 and pregnant, me and my boyfriend are still having sex. Will it hurt the baby?

unsure says:
Sat, 10th Nov 20124:14 am 

Idk, I'm 26 and my bf is 30. I want it at the least once to 4 or 5 times a day. But he says its too much. What kind of a guy says its too much? We do it twice a week. Its not enough for me. Is there something wrong with me? Are women not suppose to want it that much?

ERFLARIS says:
Sat, 15th Dec 20122:08 am 

I am 37 years, and my Wife Abt 29 yrs, we are married almost 9 yrs, My Libido is Very high i cannot sleep without sex every days or least 5 times a week, My Wife has very less Drive, and some vocation we fight each other a lot, for he least once ot twise a week is ok, but my issue is that i cannot sleep without it, do any medicin that can reduce my sex drive i dont want to spoil our relation, some time our fight ends up with discussion on separation, i am confused on this please need advice,

ERFLARIS says:
Sat, 15th Dec 20122:12 am 

I am 37 years, and my Wife Abt 29 yrs, we are married almost 9 yrs, My Libido is Very high i cannot sleep without sex every days or least 5 times a week, My Wife has very less Drive, and some vocation we fight each other a lot, for her least once or twice a week is ok, but my issue is that i cannot sleep without it, do any medicine that can reduce my sex drive i don’t want to spoil our relation, some time our fight ends up with discussion on separation, i am confused, please need advice,

USMAN says:
Thu, 20th Dec 20125:05 am 

no its good for u

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Thu, 20th Dec 20125:06 am 

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Samson says:
Sat, 9th Mar 201310:16 pm 

I am 72 and my girlfriend is 15
We have sex every day and sometimes more often ….. it all depends on how quick I can recover.
She loves sex and would like it more often but I have my limitations.
I taught her everything she knows and she has no inhibitions. She will try any kiond of sex.
I'm going to die happy

nickie says:
Thu, 28th Mar 20131:27 am 

I have been with my boyfriend 2 month I like sex but he said to much sex cause a infection is that true please help me.thank u

misz says:
Thu, 28th Mar 20136:41 pm 

I’m 22 and my husband is 24 we been married six years we have a child before we had a child we would have sex anytime anywhere but when I had my son we had sex once every month but recently the last week we been having three time’s a day sex he goes to work and to the gym the problem is he recently told he is feeling exhausted can that be true I always thought a man always wanted sex so I don’t know to stop or what please help

Guru says:
Sat, 18th May 20135:52 pm 

There is no problem for wanting that much. Though 4-5 times a day could most definitely get in the way of duties and responsibility, honestly if I could get it 1-2 times a day I would be one happy gentleman. Im lucky if I can seduce my lover into the hay once a week. Sigh, the libido was strong in her when we first met… She has gotten so lazy and rarely leaves her computer. So no, in my opinion having that kind of sex drive is healthy, as long as it doesn't become obsessive or out of hand.

Raylene says:
Tue, 21st May 201312:24 am 

Me and my man live together he works i work we used to have sex ask the time now twice a week if I’m lucky and i don’t know how to tell him i want more i try to hunt it i swear he wouldn’t care if i was sleeping naked he’s always tried cuz he works then lives on his video game and then just falls asleep lately i sleep in just my bra and pants but that don’t work either ugh

rocky says:
Thu, 23rd May 20138:03 am 

I’m having sex once week. Its an agreement. I struggle to orgasm, but love sex always.. I’m always wet and ready. But often I get the urge to urinate, and am wondering why, and what I can do to help me orgasm.

Rocky