Comments on: Duke It Out: Sex With the Ex

By: exx

exx — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 12:46:07 +0000

i am seeing my ex on new years first time since we broke up. we both rsvpsd to the same party :/ he ended things after he cheated and in that same breath suggested we should "one more time" i was still very upset and refused we still hooked up though, it was weird. we have talked once or twice since and i wrote him nasty email when i was drunk a few weeks later and sent it in the morning still thinking it was good to get everything off my chest. he was really mature when he responded, but we havnt spoken since. I'm casually seeing someone else but hes not comming to the party. it's more of my ex's friends going. i dont know if we will get back together physically new years but its defiantly an option. i would never date him again so is it such a crime to sleep together? He did suggest it then and if i cant find anyone by midnight why not?

By: thatonechick

thatonechick — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:34:43 +0000

me and my ex broke up mid december 08'.it was a really bad break up for me, and with him living 2 houses down it was real hard to see him everyday. to make matters worse he eventually got another girl. it hurt me but i tried everything to get over it.well one day he came over to use our computer. things got flirty and hot and we eventually ended up hooking up that night. i loved it. it was the best sex ever. the passion was there and it was such a bitter sweet moment. of course i tried to play it off like it was no big deal but my feelings arose once more and i was back to square one. i knew he didn't want more so the next day when he tried to go in for the kill once again, i said no. of course we had that awkward talk and we of course didn't get back together. sex with an ex is good if you eventually get back together but it sucks when they dont want more and you do. i cant say im proud of it, but it felt good to take back what was mine for a night!! instead of that gross hoe he was with…. ugh

By: ThatGirl

ThatGirl — Fri, 07 Aug 2009 11:29:25 +0000

Wellll I came insanely close to sex with the ex last night. But we're in that awkward stage atm where we haven't talked at all… we just let whatever we wanted to happen, happen. He's not only my ex but my best friend which concerns me, i don't want to lose him. But i don't know if i can do the friends with benefits thing… i've had guys offer before, but i've always said no. I'm just so confused right now…I guess i just need to tlk to him.

By: Jessica

Jessica — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 05:13:34 +0000

only if its within 72 hours

this gives enough time in case there may be a possibility you two will get back together, or enough time to have intimate closure, or one more steamy love session before you're both done with eachother all depending on how both partners feel and how the whole thing ended, either way ending a relationship is no fun with just a 'goodbye'

By: S

Mon, 08 Jun 2009 18:02:40 +0000

if you get back together, sure. otherwise it's kinda sad…

By: eamon

eamon — Mon, 08 Jun 2009 17:58:15 +0000

My ex-girlfriend and I broke up last year. 4 months afterwards when the smoke had cleared my ex and I had lunch. The sexual tension was there and we ended up back at my place. I couldn't help but to make a move and we ended up sleeping together. After a couple of more sessions over the next few weeks we ended up having a good talk about it. I made it clear to her that I didn't want to get back with her but still wanted to have sex with her. The sex was always the strongest part of our relationship. It turns out that since we broke up she had about 4 guys chasing her and although she had no intention of getting with any of them she was loving the attention. She basically said that she was in NO hurry to go back into a relationship with anyone, so she was fine with a Friends with Benefits arrangement. That was four months ago and we're still having sex about once a weekend. I thought it might end up being complicated but surprisingly it hasn't. I'm sure such an arrangement couldn't work for everyone but in this case it seems to have worked. My advise to anyone that ends up in this situation, be up front and have that talk. Guys, tell the girl straight up in plain English that you want to have sex with them and nothing else. Don't send any mix singles and if she wants to proceed then she knows where she stands.

By: Melanie - Northeaste

Melanie - Northeaste — Mon, 08 Jun 2009 00:58:55 +0000

Ex sex? I'm all about it.

By: peterpuussyeater

peterpuussyeater — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 13:06:38 +0000

Baby, you want to fuck my 14" cock??? I'll be your ex…mmmm

By: Stephanie

Stephanie — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 11:51:20 +0000

Nope. No sex with the Ex for me. My Ex-Boyfriend and I broke up because he has to sort out his problems before he can be in a relationship. So obviously, we still like each other (a lot/too much/more than "friends" should.) We hung out/hooked up and both regretted it. We have hung out since then, and started getting frisky agian, but we knew better that time and I sent him on his way. Afterwards I got a text from him that said "We did the right thing." And I wrote back "I know " It feels really good to have self-control.

By: Bethany Rosser

Bethany Rosser — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 07:41:13 +0000

It's gotta be a definate NO for me. If you both just wanna get laid, that's great but only if that's the understand you both have about the situation. I would love to hook back up with my Ex on occassion, no strings attached but the bugger is still in love with me so it cannot happen.

Hooking up with the Ex is kinda like that whole, Friends With Benefits crap. When you're both on the same page it can be a wonderful arrangement but usually someone gets their feelings involved and it never ends well! Quite frankly the whole ordeal will probably just end up with another break-up.

You wouldn't go back to a sinking ship would you? So why do people keep going back to their Ex's? It's the same theory. You're not together for a reason and eventually all those old reasons will resurfance.