And now we can't even decide to not get pregnant at all! What will be next? Will people watch us to make sure we only have sex in the missionay position? Will people say you're a whore because you had an orgasm?

All right, I went a little too far now. But seriously, with all this "abortion is wrong" thing, I thought people would at least let us not get pregnant. No. Either you have a baby or you have a baby. These are your options. Choose.

To the hell with that. Im an atheist, I don't believe in the "santity of life" (some people DO deserve to die) and I don't believe that we were put on this world merely to breed.

Plus, why should I have a baby? Because I can? Well, I can chop my arm off too, but I'm definately not going to do that.

"It's so sickening it makes you want to puke"? Well, if you want to puke, all you have to do is get pregnant and wait. LOL.

I love my fiancé, we've been together for 5 years. I think that just looking at him is great, I really don't need a "mini him".

Tell you what, get a photoshop or something like this and make a version of you and your partner combined. See? There's a "mini him"! And you don't ruin your life for nothing. Yay!

Well, I'm 21 and I've been w/ my boyfriend for 5 years. We talked about this subject several times, and it ended always with this thought: "yup. That's not for us. We love traveling thogether, we want to have enough money to live comfortably and…(well, this might make me sound like a evil witch) we don't like children. Not at all."

And people would come with the argument: "well, but when the kid is yours, you might like him/her".
Good thought! Hey, what about I chop my leg off right now? I may enjoy life as a one-legged person. I mean, if we are gonna let something that will make me responsable AT LEAST for 18 years to chance, why not leave everything to chance? I'm just glad my boyfriend had his vasectomy already.

You guys wanna know why I don't wanna have kids? Here goes:

1. I want to dedicate myself to my carrer. I want to be the best at what I do, and that thakes time.
2. I want to be able to have sex not caring about locking the bedroom door or keep my moans low.
3. I want to be able to watch something like Dexter or Law and Order: SVU without concerning with what some people in the house can't watch.
4. I want to travel a lot. All around the world. Just me and my partner, with no care for anybody else.
5. I hated school. No way I'm going to see math homeworks ever again.
6. My brothers will have kids (they want to). That's more than enough children in my life.
7. No way I'm waking up in the middle of the night with that dreadful sound babies do.
8. No way I'm touching a shit-fulled diaper. EVER.
9. I don't find spit balls cute. Or running noses. Or vomit.
10. No way I'm gonna change my free night program from "videogame" to "watching some stupid cartoon I don't actually want to".
11. No way I'm going trough pregnancy/labor pains.

I could go on and on, but I guess you guys get it already. Oh, and for those who keep saying that "one day" I'll regret my decision and change my mind, that's realy rude, as if my way of life is the wrong one. Well, perhaps I should start telling you that "one day" you'll regret the fact that you had children. How's that?

Cheers from Brazil!

It's pure selfishness that most of us don't like this life deep down and yet we want to bring in innocent people to this problems filled existence just because there is some stupid natural craving to have children or for some other selfish desires.

Although I have had a successful life but seriously I would have been much more grateful if my parents had let me be in non existence.

Almost immediately after we got married, he started pressuring me to get pregnant. We are both in our 30s, so I can't use the "we're still young" excuse to postpone it. I was able to get him to back off for the first year of marriage, but now he is rarin' to go. I had hoped I would feel differently by now, but I don't. Yet I don't feel like I have a choice. Either I have a baby or lose him, completely breaking his heart in the process. I hate the thought of hurting him.

How have things worked out for you? People always say that when you have your own child, you will love it so much and everything will be great, blah blah blah. I hope that's true.