He Said/She Said: Cuddle Time

June 10, 2009 4:00 pm     Posted in Advice, Relationships  Candy -- NYU g+ page

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By Candy

Don’t get me wrong, I love me some sexy time, especially early in the morning. But as much as I love to kickstart my day with a roll in the sack, there is nothing I heart more than a really good cuddle sesh. Totally girly, I know.

How can anyone not love it, though? Just laying around, feeling the adoration of your partner… It’s what sets the one night stand apart from the real I’m-totally-into-you relationship and, in my opinion, the most intimate act a couple can do.

Everyone knows that guys don’t feel the same way, though. If you’re not boinking, they want no part of it. But why is that? And how do we get our dudes to devote some quality time to being the big spoon? I asked and a dude answered. Here’s what he had to say:

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5 Comments on "He Said/She Said: Cuddle Time"

  1. shari says:
    Thu, 11th Jun 200912:13 am 

    i’m a girl and i HATE cuddling! i guess it’s okay for a minute or so, but then i’m done with it! lol and as for what the guy said about how guys would love a girl that wants sex all the time, that’s not true for all guys! i’ve had boyfriends where my libido was way higher than his was.

  2. Sarah says:
    Thu, 11th Jun 20099:29 am 

    I think my bf likes cuddling more than sex sometimes, but it's sweet. If I turn around and face him…things usually escalate. ;)

  3. Jake says:
    Thu, 11th Jun 20099:56 am 

    Shari – you are awesome.

  4. ges says:
    Tue, 30th Jun 20094:57 pm 

    Some guys actually like cuddling with a girl much more than anything else.

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