Sexy Time: A Closer Look at the Taboo

fantasy1.jpgWe all have our own sexual fantasies. Some of us want to try threesomes, some want to be blindfolded, some want to have sex in public. None of these fantasies are all that unusual and I doubt anyone would raise an eyebrow if they came out in a game of never-have-I-ever (well, unless you’re playing with Grandma).

But what about those fantasies that are just “weird”? The ones you’re afraid to share with your boyfriend, the one’s you hear rumors about in the caf, and the ones you read about online when you accidentally Google the wrong thing and then quickly delete your web history.

This week’s Sexy Time will take a closer look at a two of the more cringe-worthy sexual fantasies out there to see what they’re really all about.

Daddy/Daughter Fantasy

What It’s All About:
The daddy/daughter fantasy isn’t necessarily about incest, it’s about domination, submission and seduction. Daddy/daughter fantasies come in all forms: an innocent little girl playing “games” with daddy, a bad little girl being punished by daddy, a naughty little girl seducing daddy… use your imagination.

The Appeal:
Many women enjoy daddy/daughter fantasies because it allows them to be submissive. Despite how far feminism has come, the “slut” stigma is still very prevalent in society. Daddy/daughter fantasies allow women to enjoy sex without feeling any guilt or shame. Rather than being labeled a “slut” for enjoying sex, they are simply a little girl who is doing what their daddy wants them to. Other women enjoy playing the “Lolita” aspect, the naughty little girl who no man can resist. Daddy/daughter fantasies come in all shapes and sizes and men and women all have different reasons for finding them hot.

The Ick Factor:
Since when is acting out incest and pedophilia sexy? Does calling your boyfriend “daddy” in bed mean you actually want to have sex with your father?  Is a guy who is into this sort of thing also into children? The answer is most likely NO to these questions, but that doesn’t mean they don’t pop into most people’s heads when they first come into contact with a daddy/daughter fantasy.

Water Sports

What It’s All About:
Wikipedia says, “Urolagnia (also urophilia, undinism) is a sexual activity in which participants derive sexual pleasure from urine and/or urination.” Many people enjoy urinating on their partner or being urinated on as a part of sexual activity.

The Appeal
: There’s something kind of hot about two people who are so turned on by each other that they even find the other’s piss sexy. For the urinator, the pleasure in urine play usually comes from putting their partner in a vulnerable position and being able to act in a manner that would otherwise be completely unacceptable. For the partner being peed on, urine play can be a way to explore submissive tendencies, or they may just simply find urine a sexy thing. After all, many girls like having semen on their boobs or face (I am not one of them!), and urine is just another liquid that comes out down there.

The Ick Factor:
But pee is icky! What if you get some weird disease? Even though urine is actual sterile and safe for consumption, most people can’t get over the “ew” feeling associated with it.

These are only two examples of the many taboo fantasies out there. What’s important to note, however, is that while many people find these fantasy’s “icky” or “wrong,” plenty of people find them pretty damn sexy. Really, Google searching “daddy/daughter fantasy” wields over 11,000,000 hits, and “water sports sex” turns up over 26,000,000. I feel pretty confident in saying that no matter how weird or unusual you think your personal fantasy is, there are tons of people who share the same one. Maybe it’s time we start opening up and pursuing the things that turn us on, rather than conforming society’s “missionary with a sprinkling of cowgirl” script for sexual fulfillment.

What do you guys think? Ever tried either of these? Do you have any of your own taboo fantasies?

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    1. Lauren - University says:

      The daddy daughter thing totally skeeves me out. Especially when you really think about it like the author did here. Gross. Grossssss.

    2. Jeff says:

      Hitler liked to be peed on so any thing hitler liked must be bad.

    3. Doctor Bluto says:

      Since the daddy daughter thing grosses you out, but the urine one doesn't…. umm… can i have your number?

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    5. stardustandmoonshine says:

      Hah, hah, very interesting article. Thanks for approaching the topic in a mature and comprehensive way!

    6. Lisa in DC says:

      Golden nectar (swallowing pee) or golden showers is really quite a turn on…….as long as I'm doing the peeing.:-)

    7. Missi says:

      The daddy daughter fantasy is cool and quite the turn on. Especially the Lolita aspect. Another variation is Mommy Son! With a healthy attitude about it, it could be wickedly fun!

    8. Shannon says:

      After being with the same man for 13 years and having 2 children together I often call my husband daddy because of the kids. I have called him daddy in bed (mostly out of habit of saying it all the time), he is TOTALLY freaked out by it! On the flip side I absolutely love when he calls me his slut. I like when he gets rough and says all sorts of things many women would probably knock him out for!! I think role playing in some form keeps a certain spark between two people in a long relationship. After a good long night of being his slut, the next day we can look across the room and just giggle like we are teenagers again. All in good fun.

    9. Star says:

      Wow, I saw the link post "I pissed on her because I loved her" and completely broke down laughing. Especially the "this fetish of urine and being called daddy". But good article despite all the weird links that always pop up with these.

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    11. Mustafa_Beer says:

      I went to a bar with a few friends from work one night. As I playfully flirted with one much younger girl, she started calling me Daddy. After embarassing me with her comments, we both played up the Father /Daughter angle, much to the shock of the rest of the patrons. The night progressed well, and as she left in the morning, she thanked me and said it had always been a fantasy of hers. I still call my " daughter" occasionally.

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    13. Cass says:

      Yeah i love it when my boyfriend has the power. Im his dirty slut and hes my master..It soo turns me on! havnt tries golden shower yet tho…hmm?

    14. Enrico says:

      See, I'm the submissive boy and I love it when my girl dominates. It's just hot. period. I guess that's the mommy/son fantasy? But that doesn't sound right. I kinda like to just think that I belong to my girl and she can do with me whatever she pleases! lol

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    17. R. S. Thomas says:

      Urophagia is a submissive thing in order to show your partner that her body is special and you place unlimited value on her and her body. It is done purposefully to dramatize your regard for her. In addition, drinking her pee has health benefits. As mentioned, urine is sterile until it has been exposed to the air for awhile. In addition, if she isn't seriously ill, it's safe. You do pick-up minerals and water-soluble vitamins. If you're on a low-salt diet, you might want to limit the practice. Or, you could have her eat a huge slice of watermelon which dilutes the urine and gives it the taste of watermelon.

      Now, the 'ick' factor. A lot of that is cultural and will dissipate with maturity. The Uric acid does have an acrid taste but you can train yourself to accept it and even like it to some degree.

      Uric acid can help to keep you healthy as it will kill bacteria, viruses and fungi. It can even interrupt the growth process of cancer cells. Drinking it exclusively is not a good idea, for some of you all-or-nothing people; (compulsive). Certain societies will drink six to eight ounces of their own urine, or that of a cooperative intimate in the morning, as a tonic. It is quickly absorbed into the bloodstream.

      You'd be amazed by how many women enjoy this kind of attention. It makes them feel special and desired.

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    21. M3kiss says:

      My boyfriend asked me to sit ob his lap and pee on him. It’s a turn on and I am going to do It but I don’t understand what he gets out of it. I asked him to do it to me he said he’s never done it on someone else. He also said it’s warm, wet And comes from inside me. I don’t know his reason behind it. Can someone explain.

    22. Robert Ray Rice says:

      My ex and I did the Daddy/Daughter thing quite a bit, and my new girl loves it too. For me its exactly the right way for me to express my dominant tendencies. In "normal" BDSM I found myself unfulfilled because I'm a very gentle soul and the Discipline part was always a bit odd for me. I also had trouble being outright submissive, because I suck at behaving myself. The DaddyDom thing balanced it out for me. I could be silly and playful, but I also never had to deal with having my authority challenged. Unless I wanted it to be.

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