You ever see those Visa Check Card commercials where they show a fantastic shopping plaza where everyone is happily swiping away *swipe swipe swipe* until that jerk comes along, coin pouch in hand, and holds up the whole line?
Yeah, that jerk is usually me.
I’ve always been a cash girl – it’s efficient, it’s solid, and it’s hard to let go of. I just think credit cards make it too easy (“That’ll be $563.94” *swipe* “Thank you have a nice day!”) and that’s entirely my point. You can swipe away bucket-loads of money without realizing it. Credit cards make it so simple, it’s like you can get whatever you want and you’re not even spending real money.
However, when it comes down to forking over a twenty dollar bill to some Starbucks chick for a cup of coffee, I’m much more hesitant to get the overpriced (albeit ridiculously addictive) Venti Caramel Frap. With cash, it’s either you have it or you don’t. With credit, you always have it (or so you think).
I’ve seen many a times when my girlfriends get a little swipe happy and come home with shopping bags full of things they can’t really afford because “they can always pay it back later.” And I’m not too psyched about debit cards either – $32 overdraft fees because I went a dollar over my limit? Yeah okay.
I must admit that the only thing keeping me from shelling out hundreds at a time on online shopping is my serious lack of plastic. But I have reached a point in my life where it is almost impossible to go without a credit card and an embarrassment not to have a bank account. I’m all for hiding money in the mattress (uh… I mean not hiding it in my mattress- great, now the thieves will know where to look) but it simply isn’t practical anymore. I get it, I need to start building my credit. No bank = no credit = no interest = no security. So yes, I have resorted to getting myself some plastic.
But honestly, I’m worried about swiping myself to debt (ha!). Any advice? Anyone in the same boat?
Paper or plastic?



Jess says:
Mon, 15th Jun 20095:03 pm
I have a debit card, but end up paying with cash most of the time. I just check my online banking all the time and make sure I know how much is in there and stick to a budget.
Lauren - University of Michigan says:
Mon, 15th Jun 20095:26 pm
Credit cards may be scary, but you seem to have the right frame of mind for them. I only spend what I have on my card and NEVER carry a balance. It’s better than paying with cash because my cash can stay in a bank account and earn interest AND i get the awesome benefits (like free flights, gift cards, etc.) that come from a credit card.
Mazuba says:
Mon, 15th Jun 20096:37 pm
I agree with the writer.Cash is the way to go.In my country,credit cards are not very common and we have survived so i think it’s all a mind thing.
poppy says:
Mon, 15th Jun 200910:35 pm
ACTUALLY, that commercial it’s not about cash or credit cards.
it’s about checks and check cards.
saying how some bank (forgot which one) offers check cards.
I don’t mind paying in cash but checks yes!
Just happened today at the mall someone paid with a check, the cashier took like 20 min because she didn’t know what to do with it. NO LIE!
beth says:
Mon, 15th Jun 200910:42 pm
A bank account is a necessity- You cannot buy a car, a house, or even get a loan most times without a bank account, plus carrying excessive cash is unsafe. Not only do you risk losing it if your purse gets stolen, but flashing cash is a quick way to get mugged. You do not have the zero liability with cash that you do with a stolen debit card or credit card.
My biggest advice (I’ve worked for Wachovia for 3+ years) KEEP YOUR OWN LEDGER- and write down EVERYTHING the MOMENT you spend it, and keep accurate totals!! do *NOT* trust calling the 1800 number or online banking to keep you accurate because 99%.999 of the time they are *NOT* updated in real time- and they do not reflect account holds from purchases earlier in the day. Therefore, you call for your balance, they tell you your current balance, but oops, they forgot to mention that venti starbucks caramel frap you ordered this morning, because it technically hasn’t cleared your account yet, and suddenly you’re overdrawn 16 cents and BAM…35 dollar NSF fee- paying 40 bucks for coffee that should have cost 5 dollars is not a good feeling.
Unfortunately, I see this daily, and I truly feel terrible when I am unable to refund somebody’s NSF fees, because it is not a bank error– I get yelled at on a daily basis and it kind of sucks, haha.
It’s so simple to keep a debit card register- they make them small enough to slip your card in and toss them in your wallet, or, with the over-sized purses most girls carry these days, a standard check register works too… or you can just keep one of the cute tiny 3 inch spiral notebooks in your purse. It takes literally 2 seconds to write down your purchase and total your ledger, yet most people rely 100% on unfortunately unreliable electronic means, and it ends up costing them hundreds of dollars in fees a year. PS if you *do* end up making an **occasional, small** mistake, going to the bank with an accurate register seriously that you’ve been keeping religiously SERIOUSLY ups your chance of getting an NSF fee refund, at least once…
Sorry I got on my soap box and went on a CAPS rave– but it frustrates me to no end.
Also- Just an FYI on common bank policy (by the way, I seriously disagree with this… but it is common… and if you fall victim, you won’t get your money back, I guarantee it…) Most banks, when you overdraw your account with multiple purchases, will pull the largest transaction out first, regardless of which purchase was ACTUALLY made first that day. (they say it’s because the largest is probably your most important and they wouldn’t want it to go unpaid (IE your rent)… but honestly, it’s an excuse to collect more fees) Then go down from there, because they know they will collect, on average 3x more fees rather than pulling them in chronological order. EX: You pay for your starbucks at 8AM, 5 bucks; then pay for a new pair of shoes, 50 bucks, at 2 PM; and then your rent, 900 dollars at 6 PM, however, your beginning balance was only 856.00… SO, instead of getting ONE NSF fee for the rent (after the starbucks and shoes brought your balance down to 801 dollars) you end up with THREE because they bounce your rent, then your shoes, then your starbucks. BAM… your 951 dollar purchase cost you 1056….because you got 105 dollars in NSF fees… it SUCKS but it’s the God’s honest truth.
Just keep a register.
You’ll be fine.
Jenny says:
Mon, 15th Jun 200910:54 pm
I’ve always been a very thrifty person, so it’s very easy for me to keep a debit card. I almost always use my card because I’m always aware of how much I have in my account, and because getting to an ATM that doesn’t charge me fees is not convenient at times.
rach says:
Tue, 16th Jun 20098:38 am
i’m all for credit and debit. if you are worried about swiping too much set up automatic withdrawal from your bank account. that’s how i have mine set up, so i never pay late and you always clear the balance every month.
Leigha says:
Tue, 16th Jun 200912:40 pm
I’m the opposite. If I have cash, I’ll end up spending it, but I think twice about using my debit card, and I absolutely HATE using my credit card. I’ve been using mostly plastic since like my junior year of high school, and I’ve never had to pay overdraw fees, and I pay off my credit card (almost) every month, so I’ve only paid a few dollars interest. I absolutely prefer it over cash.
sAL says:
Tue, 16th Jun 20098:56 pm
Cashless society is here folks – GO VISA!!!!!!!
Koty says:
Sun, 21st Jun 200911:11 am
I was so glad to read this article and find there are other people like me. I am cash ALL THE WAY!! I have a checking account and such but only use to pay rent and other bills and NEVER bring my debit card anywhere because like you said I don’t spend as much money if I have my money with me directly in front of me. Sometimes with debit/credit cards you can be careless. My bank sucks and charges ridiculous fees for overusage….which is nuts. It’s my money, why can’t I use it when I want? So I eliminate the hassle and fees by carrying cash with me. It may be old fashioned but at least I know where my money is at all times, how much is left, and I don’t have to worry about a bank charging random $3 or $5 fees just to get my cash.
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