Comments on: He Said/She Said: Self Stimulation, If You Will http://collegecandy.com/2009/06/17/he-saidshe-said-self-stimulation-if-you-will/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Mon, 13 Feb 2012 18:21:10 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: MidnightVisions http://collegecandy.com/2009/06/17/he-saidshe-said-self-stimulation-if-you-will/#comment-36703 Sun, 28 Jun 2009 16:14:12 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=32223#comment-36703 You freaks!

ahh to tell you the truth, I love to see a girl masturbate =D

but the truth is , its not about the masturbating,

its about what they're masturbating about !

people girls/boys masturbate to their fantasy

you can find about any type of fantasy/fetish online

but that can get in the way of a relationship !

If you are scared to share your fantasies with your partner

then guess what, that relationship aint going too far.

If a girl or a guy satisfies their partner in all ways

then why would we still masturbate?

I like to disagree with the guy in the aim convo up there..

we masturbate because they didnt satisfy our fantasy,

they satisfied our physical needs but not our mental needs.

If i know my girl is going to dress up as a nurse

(or whatever turns you on) when I get home from work and tells me

"your late for you daily check up"

and satisfies my fantasy then there is no need for me to masturbate.

We need to satisfy our partners fantasy, not just have sex. end of story.

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its nothing personal girls, think of it that its better that we jerk 3 times a day than to fck 3 girls per day right?

]]> By: Weekly Wrap Up: Happy Hour or Couch Hour? : College Candy http://collegecandy.com/2009/06/17/he-saidshe-said-self-stimulation-if-you-will/#comment-35752 Fri, 19 Jun 2009 21:32:58 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=32223#comment-35752 [...] Perhaps we’ll stay home and satisfy ourselves? [...]

]]> By: Enrico http://collegecandy.com/2009/06/17/he-saidshe-said-self-stimulation-if-you-will/#comment-35704 Fri, 19 Jun 2009 07:26:18 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=32223#comment-35704 I'm a chronic masturbator and I have the best girlfriend in the world. Yeah, it took her awhile to realize that guys do it to reduce stress or to curb anxiety. It's just our way to … release sometimes. I jack off before finals just to clear my head. Now it's kinda fun because my girl likes to watch and help out. hehe :)

]]> By: Haywood Jablowme http://collegecandy.com/2009/06/17/he-saidshe-said-self-stimulation-if-you-will/#comment-35623 Thu, 18 Jun 2009 11:45:05 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=32223#comment-35623 I am going to grab some Klenex and rub one out. Girls talking about masturbating is getting me excited.

]]> By: Jenny http://collegecandy.com/2009/06/17/he-saidshe-said-self-stimulation-if-you-will/#comment-35602 Thu, 18 Jun 2009 00:49:54 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=32223#comment-35602 I agree with everyone else. My boyfriend and I both love sex with each other, but it's fun to masturbate on our own, too. And surprisingly, masturbation has only gotten more fun since we moved in together. ;)

]]> By: Alex http://collegecandy.com/2009/06/17/he-saidshe-said-self-stimulation-if-you-will/#comment-35600 Thu, 18 Jun 2009 00:01:25 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=32223#comment-35600 I agree with the girls above! This is the dumbest article ever! I have a boyfriend and i masturbate all the time, probably more than he does, and yes…he is AWESOME in bed! Masturbation is just a different means to the same end, and sometimes you just want to do it yourself! Its your body, same way its his body, and you should feel comfortable touching yourself whether or not you're in a relationship. Also the statement about "very few" women masturbating–bullshit. 80% of women, committed or not do it, and why would there even be sex toys for women if so "few" of them do it? i usually like the he said/she said articles, but this one is totally stupid.

]]> By: Jess http://collegecandy.com/2009/06/17/he-saidshe-said-self-stimulation-if-you-will/#comment-35588 Wed, 17 Jun 2009 20:16:28 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=32223#comment-35588 I agree with the other girls too. My guy is amazing, but I don't get to see him every day and sometimes the mood strikes me when he isn't there – but I would rather it be with him, but if you get an itch you scratch it!

]]> By: indi http://collegecandy.com/2009/06/17/he-saidshe-said-self-stimulation-if-you-will/#comment-35576 Wed, 17 Jun 2009 18:06:24 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=32223#comment-35576 I agree with the above girls… I also have a very loving boyfriend who pleases me in every way possible… but yeah, sometimes he isn't around, or sometimes it's fun to do it while he is around and sex isn't an option, or during sex, or just because I'm turned on. :)

I'm also in no way offended by him masturbating. I'd be freaked out if I knew it was 4 times a day, but it turns me on to think of him thinking about me while jerking off.

]]> By: andy http://collegecandy.com/2009/06/17/he-saidshe-said-self-stimulation-if-you-will/#comment-35573 Wed, 17 Jun 2009 17:15:10 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=32223#comment-35573 yeah I disagree also. It is completely normal and healthy to masturbate. Ive had a boyfriend of over 2 years and he pleases me in every way but I still do it. Sometimes you feel the urge when your bf isn't around and you just gotta help yourself out.

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