Comments on: Sexy Time: Eff The No-Sex Rule

By: firstimpressionz

firstimpressionz — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 21:35:57 +0000

Every situation is different. One must think rationally before making instant choices to engage in bedroom activities. There is nothing wrong with waiting and feeling the person out truly.

By: anonymous

anonymous — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 00:34:04 +0000

I don't think there's a double standard at all – maybe guys don't talk about this amongst their friends, but if I (or many other girls I know) went on a first date with a guy and he wanted to have sex afterwards, I'd probably kick him out and never go out with him again.

By: that girl

that girl — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 16:07:09 +0000

All the relationships ive had sex quickly in, ended quickly as well, for me i think waiting is better for a long relationship

By: Chat Lines - Ambienc

Chat Lines - Ambienc — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 05:23:42 +0000

True. It really depends upon the situation and two parties involved. It is just mature thinking and you will know when it is the right time or not on the first date. Nice post, btw.

By: anonymous man

anonymous man — Sun, 21 Jun 2009 01:42:45 +0000

"He told me that he would not consider a girl who had sex with him on the first night as “girlfriend material” and would only be seen as a sexual fling instead of a long-term potential mate. His friends seconded that."

sorry your boyfriend and his friends are chauvinists you should change him into a normal person

By: Amy

Amy — Sat, 20 Jun 2009 10:21:42 +0000

(First of all, Ibrahim, I'm from Texas too.) Anyhow, I got naked on the first date, when I was 19, with a guy who was 31, who at the time also happened to be one of my work supervisors. Did it end badly? Did he think less of me? Well, now we've been monogamously together for 8+ years, living together since 2003, and we're getting married in less than 2 weeks. No regrets with sex on the first date, obviously.

By: Weekly Wrap Up: Happy Hour or Couch Hour? : College Candy

Weekly Wrap Up: Happy Hour or Couch Hour? : College Candy — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 21:33:16 +0000

[...] try to meet a man that meets our standards (like one of these hunka hunka burning loves) and have sex (but not that other icky act) on the first date! And we have the perfect eff-me shoes to do [...]

By: Ashley

Ashley — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 21:18:24 +0000

I went too far on my first date with my current bf and have regretted it ever since, so in the end it all comes down to personal taste. You take a risk by having sex on date one because,heck, it woudnt be a rule if it didnt hold true.

By: Andrea

Andrea — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 02:48:12 +0000

Honestly, I think that there is an inherent risk of basing your emotional connection and relationship on sex. Face it, getting shitty drunk and going to bed with someone before you know if this person is even clean is a huge risk! Maybe neither of you were looking for a relationship, and lucky for you guys, you ended up in one. I'm sure your relationship is healthy and thriving, but I really feel that so many others are dating for their sexual needs first and a little conversation and dating on the side. "Domestic bliss" does not necessarily equate success in my book, choosing a partner who's gonna be there whether they've seen you naked or not is.

By: Liam

Liam — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 00:26:37 +0000

Girls who have sex on the first date are just easy ass. Which is usually what I'm after. If a girl makes me work for it, then she goes in the "Keeper" list for sure!