Comments on: Why I Don’t Speak Cunnilingus

By: Sandra McCarthy

Sandra McCarthy — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 08:13:30 +0000

I used to love getting cunnilingus but now I don’t because too few guys love it. If I find a guy that REALLY loves it, I’ll probably do it again. I’d say MAYBE 15-20% of men out there enjoy it and then the rest of the breakdown gets bleaker and bleaker. It’s weird I would have thought with how men are, it would be the reverse. (how horny they are and ravenous!) Oh well, we can always try to turn into lesbians!

By: Hazel

Hazel — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 03:34:57 +0000

Im bisexual and I realise now, with my lady lover, that maybe no man can do it THAT good that it is real sex. I’ve only had one guy who could make me come through oral, but my girl? She can pretty much choose when she wants me to come. Which is good, because we cannot have normal intercourse per se, its made up for with complete expertise in other areas!

I think the main key to cunningulus though, is being able to relax. Not caring what your partner thinks. I am very biased in this but I almost think every woman should try sex with another woman – or maybe just watch it (and not porn, theyre not for real!) – if you have sex with another woman, you realise a lot more about your own body.

I was shy about certain things with guys – such as the fact I tend to full on spaz out when I’m close to coming I realised my gf was the same. And that we both worried about similar things. And I realise, going down on her, that really, nothing is that bad – sometimes she’s delicious, sometimes she isn’t so much (but you can always just dribble everywhere and dilute it ) sometimes I end up flossing with pubes, sometimes thats fine. And there is nothing hotter than when she comes – so if you are embarrassed, rest assured that the very things you worry about probably turn your man on.

By: Michael

Michael — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 06:29:25 +0000

Well, |i have an ijury that causes me to have an erection 50% of the time… but I Love going down on a woman, and believe me… I Know where to put that tongue!

By: CC: 21 Ways to be a Gentleman in the 21st Century « tinkermellie

CC: 21 Ways to be a Gentleman in the 21st Century « tinkermellie — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 02:31:05 +0000

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By: Bubba

Bubba — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 05:52:18 +0000

Shit baby, you needs a real muffdiver – get a lesbian to eats that puusy and you cum. Have her strap on a dildoes and your nevers goes backs to mens. Brings yours lube, thongs, anal plug and my girl wills haves you cummming all night long as shes eats your pussy hole and ass hole. MMMMMMmmmmmm

By: some guy

some guy — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 04:24:55 +0000

I have quite a few problems with your thought process:

“Lying there, letting him try to get me off and knowing it’s not that great for him just doesn’t do it”
— As a guy, I get a RAGING erection knowing, feeling (and tasting) a female brought to orgasm from oral. I’ve enthusiastically given myself a few bloody noses from my face being pressed too hard against the pubic bone and had women push my face away telling me they can’t orgasm anymore because I ENJOY IT JUST AS MUCH AS THEY DO. Maybe you should avoid having sex with guys who are (or you think are) selfish who treat cunnilingus as a chore.

“I think its way hotter to feel my partner’s body in tandem with my own, being able to touch him and feel his heart beating next to mine.”
— That is a personal opinion, but the fantastic thing about females is there is no refractory period between orgasms as with males. What’s to say a man can’t get a woman off orally and immediately afterward have vaginal sex and bring her to another orgasm?

“(sorry, I am damn good at fellatio)”
— Honey, you are in all likeliness as good as an average to below average gay man at giving oral.

By: Steve

Steve — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 22:29:07 +0000

I like giving it to my girlfriend so much, but somehow I don’t think she likes it. I know that she has a bit of a self-esteem issue eventhough I’m giving my best to change her vision of herself on better. She never gave me blowjob either, she says that she is concirned that I’ll think of her as a cheap and hummiliated. I’d like that she gives me a blowjob so much, it would make me the happiest man in the world if she would find a way to enjoy sucking me and swallowing my cum WHILE ENJOYING IT…

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By: MidnightVisions

MidnightVisions — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 18:22:24 +0000

Wow ladies,
alright I understand the article, and you want to save a little bit of your innocence and still feel like that unbosomed flower thats waiting for true love, well guess what, wake up! what are you stuck in a fairy tale?
Dont tell me you want to get freaky in bed but then there are limits cause of some psychological barriers of saving it for true love. Dont compare having oral sex is like a prostitute kissing on the lips.. what kind of comparison is that??
The truth is,
you dont like oral sex cause a guy you really liked never gave it to you proper. Ill tell you what, pleasing your partner in all possible ways is key in a relationship. Im sorry ladies if you suck at giving blowjobs, you got to get going! Put some heart into it.
Every time I get down on a lady, I go all out and watch them squeeze the pillows while biting their bottom lip. I expect the same experience back. If a girl cant make me bite my lip or twirl my toes, BYE BYE!

By: Doit Together

Doit Together — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 14:50:38 +0000

For all you girls who love the feeling of his body on you, and love giving head:

Why not the 69 position? It offers quite the balance of power and closeness, and offers much in the way of dual stimulation.

just some thoughts