Comments on: Heading South of My Border? Yessss, Please!

By: CuriousAllAround

CuriousAllAround — Wed, 16 Jun 2010 04:09:32 +0000

@Frank and @Sophie

I think you both are hilarious and bring up equally important issues on both fronts. ahahaha.

For me, I've never found a guy who would actually want to go down on me for more than a minute and actually enjoy it… (well there was this one girl… but she didn't do much of anything for me either in the end. It was like she was rushing to get to my part of the deal not really taking time or anything.) *Sigh* I've heard all these great stories and really a part of me wonders if maybe I am missing out. I'm really shy in real life so I've never actually just talked about this to a random guy or girl who I haven't dated for more than 2 months about this.

So in the end, when girls like you ask, all I can say is "no I don't particularly like it. Doesn't really do much for me…" sheepishly.

By: nikki

nikki — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 15:10:19 +0000

@ sophie

you rock. period. m/

By: K

Sun, 19 Jul 2009 20:51:36 +0000

"any man worth his salt" hahahahahaha

By: CC: 21 Ways to be a Gentleman in the 21st Century « tinkermellie

CC: 21 Ways to be a Gentleman in the 21st Century « tinkermellie — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 02:31:11 +0000

[...] knob (thank you 3 6 Mafia), return the favor please! Unless she’s not a fan, in which case, prove to her that she should be one. 18. Messed up? Apologies are always better with chocolate. 19. Kiss her on [...]

By: Kit

Kit — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 11:57:56 +0000

Girls have to get very, ridiculously close, and as much as you dont like "flossing", neither do we. I've been with guys ranging from caveman to metrosexual in their grooming habits, and I'd like at least a little maintenance. To say that its a "tender region" is a bit unfair. Ask your girl how many times shes accidentally cut herself shaving or whatnot.I'm not expecting every man I come across to be clean-shaven or anything, thats unfair too, but a trim is nice? Also, its usually just bad oral if you don't like it. I'm sure theres some people who honestly dislike it, but certainly not the majority.

By: E

Wed, 08 Jul 2009 09:45:04 +0000

Hmmmm….shaving can be incredibly erotic and sensual. As a dude, I generally give even if I don't receive. Good times!

By: knuckles

knuckles — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 17:18:59 +0000

It is absolutely unfair for a guy to expect oral sex and not be willing to give it. My girl and I stick to oral almost exclusively (both ways of course) cuz it's safer (baby-wise), requires less effort (for me at least, but I do most of the work during vaginal sex anyway), and can be fine-tuned a little more. It's the ultimate act of submission, your way of telling her that you are willing to do anything for her… also, try this: go down on her and make her cum (once or twice), then let her lay there and recover for a few, then f*ck her slowly and deeply and make her come again (she will, several times.) afterwards she will be trembling and sweating in an exhausted heap, whispering to you that she loves you more than life itself

Frank, I don't get it: "we all HAVE to swallow". HUH? Your girl squirts out a big glob of sticky juice every time she cums? If so, something's very wrong with her body. I know some girls can squirt on occasion but what exactly are you swallowing? very weird.

"it’s not like fellating, where you don’t have to get close" WHAT?! I'm not even sure how to interpret that. You know that fellatio involves putting the penis INTO her mouth? That's inside her body. Not licking something outside of her mouth, putting something into it, much much more intimate. I'm not sure what kind of fellatio you've received, but it sounds like you were doing it wrong… And I agree with Sophie that men are much less-likely to keep it kempt down there.. which is too bad.

"Although I know where the right spot is"… based on your other statements, I doubt you know where anyone's "right spot" is. Especially because women have two "right spots" that should be simultaneously stimulated for maximum results!… anyway, not trying to flame here, but really, those statements made negative sense.

P.S. Shaving (him and her) makes it infinitely better for both parties… actually getting this done can be a joint effort

By: Frank White

Frank White — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 09:30:36 +0000

That last paragraph of the previous post read like some new age poetry about oral sex.

By: 21 Ways to be a Gentleman in the 21st Century : College Candy

21 Ways to be a Gentleman in the 21st Century : College Candy — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 13:02:07 +0000

By: MidnightVisions

MidnightVisions — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 17:06:34 +0000

I still cant believe there are females out there

that say "they dont like oral sex"

no its just you dont like boring and dull oral sex

just like guys who hate when a girl

just licks 4 times and says are you ready ..

I take great pride as well with my oral skills

If im not making the girl twirl moan and biting their lip

im doing something wrong

but heres the thing

Im not gonna go all out

if the girl aint going to deliver the same experience

if im going all out

by all means i want my toes twirling too ..

a little bush is ok

as long as it aint looking like jumanji

and for the smelly part, aghh

I mean come on throw some baby powder on that

rub lotion around your thighs

butt if it still stinks

after the shower

the baby powder

and lotion

….

taxi!!