We’ve always heard that it is far better to give than to receive, but does that hold up in the bedroom? Is it really better to give a little lovin’ than to get it!?
Sure, I like the power I have over a man when I venture south for the evening and the knowledge that I made him very (verrry) happy, but that doesn’t mean I don’t expect a little somethin’ somethin’ in return. Is it really fair to take (and, in some cases, demand in the form of pushing) and never to reciprocate? And why do so many damn guys do that?
Man up, dudes!
Let’s see what my boy friend (notice the space there, ladies) had to say.
Lauren says:
Thu, 2nd Jul 20091:22 am
Ok who calls it head when going down on a girl? This guy you talk to always just seems to agree with whatever you say and offer meek opposition. Talk to someone who actually hooks up. Doesn’t have to be a player, but someone with experience at least! And are you trying to make it sound like you hook up with many many guys? Have a little more respect for yourself. If you want to sleep around, at least pretend you aren’t easy. Not an insult, just advice.
Chelzz says:
Thu, 2nd Jul 20091:52 am
Oh my fucking gosh, “It’s wet, dark, and mysterious” just made my day. Like for some reason, I laughed really hard at that. I love your boy friend (acknowledging the space)
T says:
Thu, 2nd Jul 20093:02 am
Lauren…you are extremely annoying. It wouldn’t matter if she was the easiest slut who slept with half the population of Asia. As long as she protects herself and is smart about it, who are you to judge? I hate the word easy…it implies that women should make sex hard to get for men. Hello! Women like having sex too but u never hear girls calling guys easy. Think about it.
The Guy says:
Thu, 2nd Jul 200910:11 am
Lauren – I never call it “head”, except this one time. It just came out like that. I don’t like that term either. And as far as offering “meek opposition” goes, that’s because any time I say something remotely guy-like on this Site, I am called a misogynist piece of sh*t. And that got old. So, what do you suggest…?
Ashley says:
Sat, 4th Jul 20099:52 am
Hell – I call it head for boy or girl. Why not? You hear the word and translate “oral”. We don’t need to have completely separate words for girls and boys. Sex is sex both ways. Sheesh.
And to bash the guy for NOT fuckin across the globe and then turn around and berate the girl for having a one-night-stand..Damn. Just Damn. This is the exact thinking that makes girls ashamed of their own sexuality and pressures men to be whores.
Dude who like giving too says:
Mon, 6th Jul 20094:59 pm
Depends on the smell down there, girls who have fatty/meat rich diets tend to have a strong smell down there when excited.
Depends on how well the area is groomed, getting pubic hair stuck in my teeth is horrible.
I am not going down on a one night stand. Lets face it, it didnt take much effort to get you in to bed. I cant help but wonder if I am the first guy “today”
Ainsley says:
Sat, 11th Jul 20097:14 am
Lauren is fat, ugly and has low self-esteem. That is why she is so easy. Girls that have some self-respect for themselves and aren’t fat and ugly don’t sleep with anything with a dick. Have some respect for yourself skank.
Ainsley says:
Sat, 11th Jul 20097:16 am
Lauren- Referring to the skank who always posts these dumb back and forth text messages, not the poster who I totally agree with.
Hazel says:
Wed, 29th Jul 20098:12 pm
I don’t think there’s any more excuse for not goin down on a girl than a guy. I’m bisexual, and there are plusses and minuses to each. Sure, if you’re going down on a unshaven girl you might worry about pube flossing – but I’ll tell you it’s way better than gagging, for me at least. Also, though you may not realise it guys – you smell too. Genitals smell, and not always pleasant. But it is not girls alone who have an odour, and well as far as taste goes – at least it’s not spurting down your throat yeah?
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