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		<title>By: angel goodness</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/08/the-difference-between-having-sex-and-making-love/#comment-164588</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 20:24:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i have not have sex before and am 24.but i make love. In love making u can get the satisfactions u need from having sex. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i have not have sex before and am 24.but i make love. In love making u can get the satisfactions u need from having sex.</p>
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		<title>By: gemakins</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 09:40:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How long does it take you to understand simple language, thought fellas are putting it way easier for people like you to understand....your comment has got me skeptical 
 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How long does it take you to understand simple language, thought fellas are putting it way easier for people like you to understand&#8230;.your comment has got me skeptical</p>
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		<title>By: firdous</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 15:01:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[trouth love is life for health ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>trouth love is life for health</p>
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		<title>By: Art</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 20:25:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Now that you have heard  the different meanings lets take it one step further. yes there is the animal in us to have and went sex. Then the emotional side, IS more meaningful. But lets put the frosting on the cake, and get to the spiritual. look into Tantra and see were that gets you.       ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Now that you have heard  the different meanings lets take it one step further. yes there is the animal in us to have and went sex. Then the emotional side, IS more meaningful. But lets put the frosting on the cake, and get to the spiritual. look into Tantra and see were that gets you.</p>
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		<title>By: Shahid</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 12:19:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think that love is the most wondErful in world and differs lot from sex which is an animal act.To luv somone to share emotion and to have strng love attraction .To have sex is good when you have loved and got married.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that love is the most wondErful in world and differs lot from sex which is an animal act.To luv somone to share emotion and to have strng love attraction .To have sex is good when you have loved and got married.</p>
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		<title>By: somebody</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jan 2012 02:51:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[no ur not sam...seriously,i love the way you think.im a virgin...and im only 19.you know i hear that in the US girls normally lose their virginity at this time...well...not here.not in the east.i dont know,i guess im just scared of getting fucked that the term &quot;making love&quot; scares me as much as the term &quot;sex&quot; does.ive never slept with anyone.im intact.and i still see no difference in the two..i hope you be happy with him sam :) ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>no ur not sam&#8230;seriously,i love the way you think.im a virgin&#8230;and im only 19.you know i hear that in the US girls normally lose their virginity at this time&#8230;well&#8230;not here.not in the east.i dont know,i guess im just scared of getting fucked that the term &quot;making love&quot; scares me as much as the term &quot;sex&quot; does.ive never slept with anyone.im intact.and i still see no difference in the two..i hope you be happy with him sam <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Cesar Abrogue&#241;a</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Cesar Abrogue&#241;a]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 02:34:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You are just realistic. It will come in an appropriate time by then! ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are just realistic. It will come in an appropriate time by then!</p>
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		<title>By: Dave</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 20:18:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nice article. I was married for 20 years. I got every door, never once missed a kiss hello or goodbye, got her off 90% of the time, and we got off together I guess around 60%-70%, I never even flirted with a girl the entire marriage. Not even once. She wasn’t easy to get off either, nor did she have multiple orgasms. All women are different. 
 
She faked her feelings the entire time. She was a master liar for a very long time. That’s what you get for getting a 17 year old girl pregnant (I was 23) that you love. I suspect she ran around for the vast majority of the marriage, as I caught her on the internet (a ream of print out of her emotional and sexual encounters with many men), as well as in real life (text messages, hotel rooms, cars/trucks, etc.), after the first 12 years. That was the easy part, as we have kids and she is so sick that she wanted me dead to hide what she was up to, holding onto the part of little miss innocent (the false image of herself she wants others to see) . I actually almost died and my boys almost lost their dad. The storyline from 3-D Sex and Zen says, “…though her lack of passion cannot fully satisfy Wei Yangsheng&#039;s sexual needs. His disappointment is no less than his affection for her.”, describes it partially. I actually know more about women then men. 
 
 
I have been with a couple of women over the last couple of years. I made love and had sex with them both. I lived with one for a few months. She was a hard core porn star. I blew her mind. I know how to get a girl off more than 60 times in fewer than eight hours.  
 
I can assure that marriage has nothing to do with making love or sex. 
 
Sex leads to addiction in many cases. Love can temperament this effect, if it’s real from both involved, but then you leave that to trust. You can’t respect a person by helping them to disrespect themselves. (shame) 
 
If you provide better than they ever expected, they always want more. I suspect it is the same for women. If you do not, then you are a disappointment. Either way, they always seem to want more and then innocent children pay the price frequently, as sex makes kids. 
 
It sucks, as there always seems to be problems because this world is very sick, as almost everyone is poisoned physically and physiologically, and don’t even realize it. 
 
@ Whitney - Be advised!  
 
@jeff – If you don’t know, then it was sex. 
 
@Amy – FYI, its still defined as rape, same as touching someone when they are asleep, even your spouse, according to the law. 
 
@Jenna – You must be hot! :P great on spot comment 
 
@Daviney – What happens is that everyone wants the love only. One night love stands, for real. Anything new and exciting to grow and experience, becomes - only when real personal growth occurs for both.  
 
@Sugar – Kudo’s, but of course that can be with sex too. That’s for you to decide. Don’t let anyone define you. 
 
@Bianca – On spot 
 
@arcee – I assume you say that because you have never intentionally had sex to make a child.  
 
@joewixxy – Yeah, that must be it. ;) 
 
@c. ungor – I am not a woman, but I can tell you this… Go find someone that has a female hamster. They go into heat every 4 days. Try scratching their lower back right above the tail. That’s a female reaction. When you understand that, you will get to the sex in less than 2 minutes after meeting girl, with a pause for ID included if questionable. You want the work, knock yourself out. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice article. I was married for 20 years. I got every door, never once missed a kiss hello or goodbye, got her off 90% of the time, and we got off together I guess around 60%-70%, I never even flirted with a girl the entire marriage. Not even once. She wasn’t easy to get off either, nor did she have multiple orgasms. All women are different.</p>
<p>She faked her feelings the entire time. She was a master liar for a very long time. That’s what you get for getting a 17 year old girl pregnant (I was 23) that you love. I suspect she ran around for the vast majority of the marriage, as I caught her on the internet (a ream of print out of her emotional and sexual encounters with many men), as well as in real life (text messages, hotel rooms, cars/trucks, etc.), after the first 12 years. That was the easy part, as we have kids and she is so sick that she wanted me dead to hide what she was up to, holding onto the part of little miss innocent (the false image of herself she wants others to see) . I actually almost died and my boys almost lost their dad. The storyline from 3-D Sex and Zen says, “…though her lack of passion cannot fully satisfy Wei Yangsheng&#8217;s sexual needs. His disappointment is no less than his affection for her.”, describes it partially. I actually know more about women then men.</p>
<p>I have been with a couple of women over the last couple of years. I made love and had sex with them both. I lived with one for a few months. She was a hard core porn star. I blew her mind. I know how to get a girl off more than 60 times in fewer than eight hours. </p>
<p>I can assure that marriage has nothing to do with making love or sex.</p>
<p>Sex leads to addiction in many cases. Love can temperament this effect, if it’s real from both involved, but then you leave that to trust. You can’t respect a person by helping them to disrespect themselves. (shame)</p>
<p>If you provide better than they ever expected, they always want more. I suspect it is the same for women. If you do not, then you are a disappointment. Either way, they always seem to want more and then innocent children pay the price frequently, as sex makes kids.</p>
<p>It sucks, as there always seems to be problems because this world is very sick, as almost everyone is poisoned physically and physiologically, and don’t even realize it.</p>
<p>@ Whitney &#8211; Be advised! </p>
<p>@jeff – If you don’t know, then it was sex.</p>
<p>@Amy – FYI, its still defined as rape, same as touching someone when they are asleep, even your spouse, according to the law.</p>
<p>@Jenna – You must be hot! <img src='http://s2.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' />  great on spot comment</p>
<p>@Daviney – What happens is that everyone wants the love only. One night love stands, for real. Anything new and exciting to grow and experience, becomes - only when real personal growth occurs for both. </p>
<p>@Sugar – Kudo’s, but of course that can be with sex too. That’s for you to decide. Don’t let anyone define you.</p>
<p>@Bianca – On spot</p>
<p>@arcee – I assume you say that because you have never intentionally had sex to make a child. </p>
<p>@joewixxy – Yeah, that must be it. <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@c. ungor – I am not a woman, but I can tell you this… Go find someone that has a female hamster. They go into heat every 4 days. Try scratching their lower back right above the tail. That’s a female reaction. When you understand that, you will get to the sex in less than 2 minutes after meeting girl, with a pause for ID included if questionable. You want the work, knock yourself out.</p>
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		<title>By: c. ungor</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Dec 2011 02:35:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ladies, do you find it cheesy if a man says, &quot; I want to make love to you.&quot;? 
 
At my work Christmas party a few nights ago, I was semi-drunkenly discussing seduction techniques with a few female co-workers. When I mentioned the phrase, they looked at eachother, laughed and told me. &quot;No one calls it &#039;making love&#039; anymore.&quot; 
 
So has any man ever said it to you? I admit I&#039;ve used it a few times in the heat of the moment. 
Is it just semantics to say %&amp;*$# or making love? Is there a difference between how you %&amp;*$# someone and how you would &#039;make love&#039; to them? 
Opinions ladies, pls!!!!  ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ladies, do you find it cheesy if a man says, &quot; I want to make love to you.&quot;? </p>
<p>At my work Christmas party a few nights ago, I was semi-drunkenly discussing seduction techniques with a few female co-workers. When I mentioned the phrase, they looked at eachother, laughed and told me. &quot;No one calls it &#039;making love&#039; anymore.&quot; </p>
<p>So has any man ever said it to you? I admit I&#039;ve used it a few times in the heat of the moment.<br />
Is it just semantics to say %&amp;*$# or making love? Is there a difference between how you %&amp;*$# someone and how you would &#039;make love&#039; to them?<br />
Opinions ladies, pls!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: shewit</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 06:27:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i just wish that&#039;they all come to thier sencces and not make sex as a big deel of making love even more stronger 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i just wish that&#039;they all come to thier sencces and not make sex as a big deel of making love even more stronger</p>
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