Sexy Time: Can Sex Be Too Good?

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I am having the best sex of my life. My boyfriend is absolutely amazing. He loves to make me orgasm and is always finding new ways to do it. I’m the luckiest girl in the world.

I’m also the most neurotic girl in the world, so I can’t help thinking: could this be a bad thing? What if I never find a man who can please me like he does? What if I am now completely spoiled and never enjoy sex as much with anyone else?

I honestly wouldn’t mind not having sex with anyone else for the rest of my life, but I know that’s not very practical. It’s unlikely I’ve met the person I’ll spend the rest of my life with at 20 years old. The fact that he’s moving across the country in a week only makes our eventual break up even more imminent.

So as I lay in my bed after a particularly good round of sexy time, I am not thinking about how happy I am, or how tired, or how hungry. All I’m thinking about is: can sex ever be too good? And as my boyfriend drifts off to sleep beside me (which is totally OK, he worked hard!), I ponder the possibilities for my future sex life.

YES, sex can be too good: Having amazing sex with one partner can spoil you for future sexual encounters. If you don’t find someone who lives up to your ex in skill, passion, and chemistry, no matter how much you love them, the sex will always be slightly lacking.

NO way!: Having amazing sex with one person helps you discover what you like, and these revelations carry with you into your future relationships. Now that you know what gets you off, you can train anyone to do it. And maybe they can do it even better…

I don’t know which answer is right, and I’m not sure I’m ready to find out.

What’s the best sex you’ve ever had, and did it spoil you for future partners?

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