Comments on: Why You Should…Not Have Sex http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/13/why-you-should-not-have-sex/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Mon, 13 Feb 2012 10:57:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: ole http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/13/why-you-should-not-have-sex/#comment-146176 Sat, 10 Sep 2011 22:42:50 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=34417#comment-146176 first you dont need to have sex it isnt just pure pleasure thats what most people think sex is allso a love experince you see the media allwas drage about sex like its not about making love to the one you care but how good you are inn the bedroom the media has treated sex as a hobby treathing girls as easy targets not only that it makes girls more sluty and look weak trust me im a guy yes i think about sex but no i dont want to share with somone how wont share back with me i wanted to have sex with this girl but she was all about hanging out with cooler people i wasnt that populer guys just regaller guy but for her that wasnt good for her so you see many tennagers act as sex is great but most off them regrat that they ever did DONT lose your self to a guy how you barly know you think about it dont you want a futher thats what most dumb folks dont think

]]> By: Osbro http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/13/why-you-should-not-have-sex/#comment-103915 Sat, 16 Oct 2010 23:54:22 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=34417#comment-103915 Girls who have sex before marriage just look stupid and easy, show lack of self respect and self control.

Guys are looking for women that are pure to marry (guys do not want a slut for a wife).

]]> By: tiffany http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/13/why-you-should-not-have-sex/#comment-72918 Tue, 30 Mar 2010 12:45:00 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=34417#comment-72918 Time spent reading this article could be used to have sex lol! and the "freedom" paragraph i find completely biased, as a lot of females treat their bodies on a regualar basis. Sex could be cut down, yes in the media, but let's not forget it's a great way to exercise and with the right partner makes a relationship/marriage stronger.

]]> By: carmel http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/13/why-you-should-not-have-sex/#comment-72873 Tue, 30 Mar 2010 01:55:11 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=34417#comment-72873 we don't have sex because it is bad.

]]> By: alias http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/13/why-you-should-not-have-sex/#comment-70923 Fri, 12 Mar 2010 09:57:03 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=34417#comment-70923 i have abstained now for 2 weeks and my balls are massive! just thought that was funny but seriously, i love sex and making love to my ex (who i was with for a year and a half and waited 8 months to have sex with) was an indescribable feeling. i felt though that sex was on my mind just a bit to much, its all my friends will talk about and its all i see when i turn on my computer or tv, (i blame the media a lot for young boys especially being so crazy about sex and in turn having no respect for women)but different story.. i decided to give up sex for a while and i quite enjoyed it girls seemed to want me even more lol.. but i just read a very informative article… http://www.forbes.com/2003/10/08/cz_af_1008health….

if you have the time have a read

this article here was a laugh but one persons opinion and she is welcome to it..

Personally i would love my wife to be a virgin for a few reasons but i would never not marry a woman just because she has had sex before or think any less of her.. that is very old fashioned and or religous brainwashing view that women who have sex before marriage are sluts or any less respectable.. i think its important to have sex before marriage as if your going to commit to someone for the rest of your life, you should be able to connect with them on the highly emotional level that making love takes you. plus if its not good that will be quite upsetting, so its good to know!

stephanie do your thing i respect you, karlos is a fool

]]> By: Aden Ford http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/13/why-you-should-not-have-sex/#comment-69343 Thu, 25 Feb 2010 09:57:40 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=34417#comment-69343 If you do want to have sex here is a good idea of how long to wait, before you try.

http://www.askaden.com/2010/02/how-long-should-i-…

]]> By: Allison http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/13/why-you-should-not-have-sex/#comment-65765 Sat, 23 Jan 2010 15:11:46 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=34417#comment-65765 Beth,

You really shouldn't have sex period. My answer has nothing to do with your religious background. The reason is that you are in high school. You are far too young to be having sex. What would you do if you got pregnant? Would you raise the child? If you do, don't expect your boyfriend to help you. Very few teenage boys stick around. You'd be on your own. Would you have an abortion? There are some terrible emotional and psychological consequences that you are likely to experience later on. Would you give the child up for adoption?

What would you do if you got an STD? Sex is a beautiful thing, but it does add a lot of complications to your life. You are only in high school. Enjoy being a kid. You should be worrying about homework, friends, getting your driver's license, and other similar stuff. You have your whole life to be an adult. Don't be in a rush to grow up too quickly.

Another thing to consider is that a lot of people regret losing their virginity too early. You can always lose your virginity, but you can never get it back. Honestly, if you have the willpower and self-control, it's best to wait until you're married. I know some people will state that you need experience to be good at sex. While the first time is going to be awkward, you can quickly become good at it as you learn more about your partner's preferences. Each person likes different things when it comes to sex; a turn-on for one guy could be a turn-off for another. You have to learn to learn your partner's turn-ons and they should do the same for you. And yes, regardless of your sexual experience, you still have to go through this learning process for each person you sleep with.

If you can't wait until marriage, then at least wait until you're out of school and have a job to support yourself. Also, make sure you are in a committed relationship!

]]> By: Beth http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/13/why-you-should-not-have-sex/#comment-64575 Sun, 10 Jan 2010 23:20:28 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=34417#comment-64575 Ok so me and this guy have been talking on and off for over a half a year and he finally asked me to be his girlfriend. I'm a sophomore in high school and he is a senior. He's had sex once and I've never had sex.. I went to a purity ball at my church 3 years in a role and I have a purity ring. I'm on birth control and all and his parents are going out of town soon and I know what's gunna happen cause it's almost happened twice already but I stopped myself cause I told myelf that I'm not gunna loose my virginity to someone I wasn't dating. I'm not very religious but I promised to god and my parents that I would stay pure till I was married and I'm scared that if I break that then no one will forgive me. but I was in 7th grade when I first went to the ball and I didn't know what it meant, if I wouldve known and wouldn't have been so young then I wouldn't have gone. I wanna loose my virginity to this guy but what if things dont work out and i regret loosing it to him. What do I do? Please help!

]]> By: Sue http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/13/why-you-should-not-have-sex/#comment-58238 Sat, 24 Oct 2009 23:01:48 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=34417#comment-58238 Luke, shut up. you have no idea what you're saying.

Now, back to this article. I don't agree with this.

]]> By: Sue http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/13/why-you-should-not-have-sex/#comment-58236 Sat, 24 Oct 2009 22:59:51 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=34417#comment-58236 And please Stephanie, stop bragging that you fucked so many guys you lost count. Seriously, how low class. Okay, end of rant.

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