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By: Amy

Amy — Sat, 25 Jul 2009 09:56:30 +0000

If women/men are divorced/have kids/have sex before marriage etc, they all need to be rounded up and put into a secure location so that they don't pollute the dating pool for people of both genders who haven't made such idiotic decisions and who aren't contaminated with filth. The dating scene for both genders would be a lot better when only people who actually mattered were allowed to date.

In both cases, the men and women who are ruined and worthless by virtue of their poor life choices, wouldn't be allowed to ruin the dating scene for everyone. Get the hell out of our way!!!! We are not going to suffer for your mistakes and stupidity!!!!! Rotton scoundrels!!!!

By: Justin

Justin — Sat, 25 Jul 2009 04:35:28 +0000

Broken,

I completely agree with Melanie. When it comes to girls as platonic friends I try to avoid being friends with girls I'm attracted to completely. No matter how much I like them, how much they do for you or how good of a friend they are…. if you try to pursue anything beyond being just a friend you will get your heart broken.

If you fail to get the girl, sever. There is no point to pursue anything else. When I failed to get the girl of my dreams, I deleted her facebook, phone number and her picture from my phone so I can never contact her again and bring up old feelings. so yea, keep that in mind next time you befriend a hot chick.

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You Might Be Crazy If…. « Media Outrage — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 15:53:11 +0000

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By: Melanie - Northeaste

Melanie - Northeaste — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 11:54:50 +0000

Broken,

Sorry to hear it. I know, girls are a lot to handle. So are guys! You're very right, none of these behaviors are great. Unfortunately, they have become "norms," which is what I was trying to point out, in my CollegeCandy sort of way. None of these behaviors are ideal, but they have become traits that are very common in a lot of women (myself included).

Having a big mix of all these things can definitely lead to disaster. I'm also guilty of crying on my good guy friends' shoulders more than I should and not considering that they might want something more than a friendship. Don't let girls do this to you! I once heard, "Wise guys cut ties" (thanks, TheFrisky), and it stuck.

It may not be fair, but girls do tend to be more emotionally attached, whether it be to friendboys or boyfriends. Sometimes the guy has to make the tough call and break it off completely, even if it's just a damaging friendship.

I wish you luck and genuinely good girls, Broken. Keep reading!

-Melanie

By: Broken

Broken — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 11:37:20 +0000

One or two of these isn't bad to live with. Noone can expect perfection. But if a female has ALL OF THESE FAULTS kicking on full cylinders at the same time there's not much hope.

The big problem with me is I've known girls who had a combination of everything here in extreme degrees especially the "I love douchbags!" and "I wanna talk about all my problems or good fortune to the point your head explodes!" syndromes.

Females sometimes forget we hate being assigned as platonic friends. We do not mind being a shoulder to cry on sometimes but ALL THE TIME is a bitch. At least offer us the illusion we could be something more in the future and never say "I love you like a brother!" or "I don't want to screw you because it would complicate this wonderful thing we share!" (Ok, but then why screw a guy you don't have a "wonderful thing" with??)

Once I had a friend tell me the above 2 things in tedium many years and by the time she did want to have sex with me I no longer wanted to. Good windows of opertunity do not last forever for either gender. Neglect a loved one too long and they will stop having certain intimate feelings.

As you touched on the important thing is having these faults, recognizing them, admitting there's a problem, and trying to work it out. These are "normal" but on the same flip of the coin they are not justified or healthy either. Slipping into the muck and getting up is admirable but slipping into the muck and wallowing in it is self destructive and hurtful to those within close proximity.