Comments on: The Doctor Is In: Why Does Sex Hurt Me?

By: Kim

Kim — Sun, 12 Feb 2012 03:15:01 +0000

I am 19. Me and my boyfriend had sex once when I was 18. It hurt SO badly. It was my first time. A week and a half later, we tried to hav sex again. It hurt so bad I told him to stop. I blamed it on my period just ending and still being sore from th first time. But th next time we tried, he started to go in and it hurt so badly I told him to stop. Since then, I can’t even try now. Every time I think of sex I thnk of that pain and it scares me so I don’t hav sex. My bf loves me very much and understands. And if I tell him to stop, he stops. But now I cant even try. I’m too scared. I get a pain in my stomach and feel lik I’m gonna throw up. I freak out and say no at th last second. What’s wrong with me? We want to get married and hav 4 kids. But how am I gonna do that if I’m too terrified to hav sex? I try to tell myself to just do it, but I chicken out at th last second. I tried a vibrator, fingering myself and him fingering me. I can’t talk to my doc bc my mom doesn’t no I’m having sex. We haven’t in almost 9 months. And I heard th more u wait th more it hurts. Plus a yr ago I got diagnosed with cysts on my ovaries. And that can cause pain during sex. But is that th only reason y it hurts? He’s kinds big and I’m very small but idk what to do. Plz help me.

By: Rose

Rose — Thu, 09 Feb 2012 03:13:17 +0000

My name is rose and i am 20. okay with me i am wet and everything but it just hurts like rubbing and i don't really know how to describe it, it just isn't enjoyable and then i just get really frustrated. i am scared that it will always be like this and i will never enjoy sex.

By: Small Town Girl

Small Town Girl — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 16:13:58 +0000

Okay, so me and my boyfriend both lost our virginity to each other when we was 15 & he was about to turn 16.. And I’m not going to lie the first time he stuck it in me it hurt like hell and I made him take it out , a week later we had sex with my legs on his shoulder and it felt better and ever since then it felt great. But lately , I’ve been feeling induce and sever paIn when he sticks it in me and the last 5 times I’ve felt burning , it had just hurt all together ! I almost cried. I told him he had to stop because he lasts a longggg time but he said he was almost done and I don’t wanna make him get blue balls because I feel bad when he does :/ but it hurts so bad that sometimes I don’t even want it. Could it be because he’s too big or what? I’m so confused. I love sex don’t get me wrong , but I don’t wanna feel pain because I’m about to just stop having sex . Something is wrong .. :/

By: Elmo!

Elmo! — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 00:57:24 +0000

he was most likely oushing into ur cervix….

By: Starrr

Starrr — Sat, 21 Jan 2012 07:55:00 +0000

When I first met my husband we had sex all tha time with no prob & even enjoyed doin it in diff positions,I’ve been with him fo 10 yrs & up until now I have gotten ta tha point where I rather watch tv or tawk instead of havin sex & that of course is bcuz of tha pain that I now experience when havin sex with him,I had uh baby like 2 yrs ago & afta that everythg went down hill.

By: Brittany

Brittany — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 20:09:45 +0000

Im 16 and my boyfriend is 22. But the other day we truer a new position. He put my legs over his shoulders. And during sex it started to hurt so bad that we had to stop. Is that something I should worry about?

By: Xavia

Xavia — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 18:20:59 +0000

I av had sex 5 times wif 4 different guys and each time it hurts.i feel this pain in my lower stomach that takes days to go and my vigina burns 4 almost a week.it even affects hw i sit.sex aint fun atall.am i sick?

By: Devin

Devin — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 12:44:05 +0000

Okay so I’ve been having sex for about a year and a half now, and everytime it feels great, but our last time having sex started off normal, nothing different, and then as he was going in deeper, it started to hurt so badly. It wasn’t like any pain that I’ve ever had during sex. I could usually feel it in hittin the back and it felt good, but this time something was different an I started to cry and had to tell him to stop. He’s the type of boyfriend where we’re very open and comfortable with eachother, so I didn’t have to hide the fact that he hurt me from embarrassment. He was okay with it but was just as confused as I was. We couldn’t figure out why it hurt and then he went back in and it was fine, because he didn’t go as hard and deep as he did before. But the pain wasn’t as intense as it had been.

By: Betsi

Betsi — Fri, 13 Jan 2012 05:22:34 +0000

Ok so every time I have sex I feel like crying and the pain is only getting worst and I don’t understand why. I thought when I gave birth to my baby girl that maybe it would help in some type of way like maybe help stretch down there or some thing but it didn’t and to tell I the truth the has gotten so bad to the point that I will only allow my boyfriend to have sex with me once a month some times not even that I need to figure this put it’s not right to him and I don’t want to be scared to have sex anymore and I told my gyn and he said it’s cause of my baby but I told him how cause I have felt the same pain since the first time I ever had sex so dome one please help me

By: Mia

Mia — Fri, 06 Jan 2012 04:48:23 +0000

Okay im 13 years old, Nd i do not plan on having SEX at all at my age, im really smart and i think ahead about my future,when i grow up i want 1 boy and 1 girl, also i don't wana do it till im comfortable and im married, which is a long time from now. but today i was riding home on the school bus and my friends tended to talk and have a conversation to me about it and they told me that it hurts having Sex , it made me judge my future a little bit and i got really scared,now i feel as if i don't even want a relationship as I grow uhp because i don't wana ruin things for me or my body , it's scaring me to death and I just dont want some of my plans in my future anymore, Please Help Me with this Advice, i can't go to anyone about this.