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	<title>Comments on: The Doctor Is In: Why Does Sex Hurt Me?</title>
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		<title>By: Mary NICOLAOU</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/23/the-doctor-is-in-why-does-sex-hurt-me/#comment-170745</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mary NICOLAOU]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Mar 2012 11:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am a 44 year old lady and I haven&#039;t had sex I tried once and I had to push my man away just the tip of him trying to get in and I couldn&#039;t handle the pain also when I have pap smear test they have to put me asleep to do the test is it because I am an obese lady all my life my gynecologist said I am okay nothing wrong with me I arouse my self and that&#039;s okay what do I do 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a 44 year old lady and I haven&#039;t had sex I tried once and I had to push my man away just the tip of him trying to get in and I couldn&#039;t handle the pain also when I have pap smear test they have to put me asleep to do the test is it because I am an obese lady all my life my gynecologist said I am okay nothing wrong with me I arouse my self and that&#039;s okay what do I do </p>
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		<title>By: Bizzle</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Bizzle]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2012 19:39:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Okay, so i&#039;ve been having sex for 4 years now, and the last 3 have been with the same person.. I&#039;m 19.  All of a sudden a couple months ago I just don&#039;t enjoy it anymore.  I mean, he is really good at it, its just painful for me!  Not when it goes in, but when its actually up there.  It makes me feel as if I have to pee and it just feels very uncomfortable.  I have anxiety and i read that could be teh cause, but I don&#039;t believe that.  Its a physical pain not mental. I need help and i have no health insurance to find out whats wrong!  When i did have health insurance i went to my normal doctor for a pap and told her about it, but she couldn&#039;t tell what was wrong because they didn&#039;t have any kind of ultrasound equipment or anything... ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, so i&#039;ve been having sex for 4 years now, and the last 3 have been with the same person.. I&#039;m 19.  All of a sudden a couple months ago I just don&#039;t enjoy it anymore.  I mean, he is really good at it, its just painful for me!  Not when it goes in, but when its actually up there.  It makes me feel as if I have to pee and it just feels very uncomfortable.  I have anxiety and i read that could be teh cause, but I don&#039;t believe that.  Its a physical pain not mental. I need help and i have no health insurance to find out whats wrong!  When i did have health insurance i went to my normal doctor for a pap and told her about it, but she couldn&#039;t tell what was wrong because they didn&#039;t have any kind of ultrasound equipment or anything&#8230; </p>
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		<title>By: kev</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[kev]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2012 07:50:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ok so when i first enter my gf it hurts her so i go in slow then she is alright and we can do whatever and however fast we want would that just be because we dont have sex very often ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ok so when i first enter my gf it hurts her so i go in slow then she is alright and we can do whatever and however fast we want would that just be because we dont have sex very often </p>
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		<title>By: Ann</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ann]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Mar 2012 20:05:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have not had sex for three years now, I ma married I do not stray, when we tried to have sex it was like a red hot poker going in me, I was screaming in pain, not pleasure, can you tell me why this is, I went to my Gp, she gave me some lubrication inserts. that was so sore, it was as bas as sex, felt like all my skin was coming away, ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have not had sex for three years now, I ma married I do not stray, when we tried to have sex it was like a red hot poker going in me, I was screaming in pain, not pleasure, can you tell me why this is, I went to my Gp, she gave me some lubrication inserts. that was so sore, it was as bas as sex, felt like all my skin was coming away, </p>
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		<title>By: bv free in 3 days review</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/23/the-doctor-is-in-why-does-sex-hurt-me/#comment-168046</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[bv free in 3 days review]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2012 17:02:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is the perfect website for anyone who wants to find out about this topic. You know a whole lot its almost hard to argue with you (not that I actually would want to…HaHa). You definitely put a fresh spin on a topic that&#039;s been written about for many years. Excellent stuff, just wonderful!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the perfect website for anyone who wants to find out about this topic. You know a whole lot its almost hard to argue with you (not that I actually would want to…HaHa). You definitely put a fresh spin on a topic that&#8217;s been written about for many years. Excellent stuff, just wonderful!</p>
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		<title>By: oldy put goody</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/23/the-doctor-is-in-why-does-sex-hurt-me/#comment-167872</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[oldy put goody]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Mar 2012 20:41:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[have not had a man nor sex in 22 years. decides to try it and my vaginia started to feel like stick pens in side even forplay did not help .what should i&#039;ve done. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>have not had a man nor sex in 22 years. decides to try it and my vaginia started to feel like stick pens in side even forplay did not help .what should i&#039;ve done. </p>
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		<title>By: Kay</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/23/the-doctor-is-in-why-does-sex-hurt-me/#comment-167140</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kay]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Feb 2012 08:45:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I lost my  virginity around 2 and a half years ago and I was with the first guy for 15 months. We had sex on a very regular basis for a year..like at least once or twice a week- do the math, thats like at least a hundred times. It has never stopped being painful for me. During the year that I was having sex often, it would stop hurting after like 3min and just become kinda numb or uncomfortable. I&#039;ve never had an orgasm, or even felt sexual pleasure from intercourse.  I&#039;ve had sex a couple times since then...or more like I&#039;ve TRIED to have sex. it&#039;s like trying to stick a cucumber through your belly button, (i know weird analogy) it just won&#039;t go in! I was able to have sex once and I felt burning for days. it hurts like hell and i try to hide the grimaces and tears, but the guys get scared of hurting me and stop immediately. I hate that there is no pleasure in sex...just pain! My gyno doesn&#039;t seem to have an answer for me at all. if anyone knows what might be happening to me, please let me know! ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I lost my  virginity around 2 and a half years ago and I was with the first guy for 15 months. We had sex on a very regular basis for a year..like at least once or twice a week- do the math, thats like at least a hundred times. It has never stopped being painful for me. During the year that I was having sex often, it would stop hurting after like 3min and just become kinda numb or uncomfortable. I&#039;ve never had an orgasm, or even felt sexual pleasure from intercourse.  I&#039;ve had sex a couple times since then&#8230;or more like I&#039;ve TRIED to have sex. it&#039;s like trying to stick a cucumber through your belly button, (i know weird analogy) it just won&#039;t go in! I was able to have sex once and I felt burning for days. it hurts like hell and i try to hide the grimaces and tears, but the guys get scared of hurting me and stop immediately. I hate that there is no pleasure in sex&#8230;just pain! My gyno doesn&#039;t seem to have an answer for me at all. if anyone knows what might be happening to me, please let me know! </p>
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		<title>By: lola</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/23/the-doctor-is-in-why-does-sex-hurt-me/#comment-167124</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[lola]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Feb 2012 04:21:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi tis is my situation. Im a few weeks pregnant and i been having sex and it hurts me alot, before it didnt hurt me like that much so why does it hurt me now ?? Is it hurting the baby ?? help me im scared for my baby. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi tis is my situation. Im a few weeks pregnant and i been having sex and it hurts me alot, before it didnt hurt me like that much so why does it hurt me now ?? Is it hurting the baby ?? help me im scared for my baby. </p>
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		<title>By: lasdkajdp</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/07/23/the-doctor-is-in-why-does-sex-hurt-me/#comment-166920</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[lasdkajdp]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Feb 2012 06:07:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[dont listen to that &#039;blue balls&#039; bs.........guys say that to be selfish!  ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>dont listen to that &#039;blue balls&#039; bs&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;guys say that to be selfish!  </p>
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		<title>By: worried</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[worried]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Feb 2012 06:05:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I feel exactly the same as you....with my boyfriend, I feel like I cannot provide him with what he deserves. We have been together 4 years and have sex about every 6-9 months! It is not enjoyable to me because of the pain I endure. I also have the same problem at the gyno appts. I tear up every time. I need answers too. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel exactly the same as you&#8230;.with my boyfriend, I feel like I cannot provide him with what he deserves. We have been together 4 years and have sex about every 6-9 months! It is not enjoyable to me because of the pain I endure. I also have the same problem at the gyno appts. I tear up every time. I need answers too. </p>
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