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		<title>By: S</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/08/10/so-this-is-where-men-learn-to-date/#comment-63659</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 04:07:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;Why would you take a perfectly adorable, shy, and socially inept computer geek and turn him into a douchebag player??&quot; 
 
Let&#039;s be honest, Katie. Most girls are probably not going to have sex with the &quot;perfectly adorable, shy, and socially inept computer geek&quot; (in fact, this guy&#039;s not really so different from the &quot;creep&quot; character you described in your other article, the one you will never go home with - what&#039;s the difference? The creep doesn&#039;t avert his eyes when you look at him?). There are, however, plenty of women who will have sex with &quot;a douchebag player,&quot; especially in college. Of course the best way to get laid is to actually have a personality of your own and to become a strong, intelligent, interesting, charming dude (or at least this is the best way to get with women who are actually interesting - no shortage of boring girls who will continue to fall for the asshole idiots), but the general thrust of the 90s involved encouraging smart nice guys to be weak, so most of the smart, interesting, nice guys are socially weak until they either start reading this pick-up garbage and become assholes or figure their own shit out and just become awesome. I&#039;m 24 years old and I&#039;m only now beginning to become awesome. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&quot;Why would you take a perfectly adorable, shy, and socially inept computer geek and turn him into a douchebag player??&quot;</p>
<p>Let&#039;s be honest, Katie. Most girls are probably not going to have sex with the &quot;perfectly adorable, shy, and socially inept computer geek&quot; (in fact, this guy&#039;s not really so different from the &quot;creep&quot; character you described in your other article, the one you will never go home with &#8211; what&#039;s the difference? The creep doesn&#039;t avert his eyes when you look at him?). There are, however, plenty of women who will have sex with &quot;a douchebag player,&quot; especially in college. Of course the best way to get laid is to actually have a personality of your own and to become a strong, intelligent, interesting, charming dude (or at least this is the best way to get with women who are actually interesting &#8211; no shortage of boring girls who will continue to fall for the asshole idiots), but the general thrust of the 90s involved encouraging smart nice guys to be weak, so most of the smart, interesting, nice guys are socially weak until they either start reading this pick-up garbage and become assholes or figure their own shit out and just become awesome. I&#039;m 24 years old and I&#039;m only now beginning to become awesome.</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/08/10/so-this-is-where-men-learn-to-date/#comment-50862</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[John]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 19:11:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[These books speak to the frustrated parts of guys; guys who think being nice or sensitive will attract women, but get the opposite results... 
I can&#039;t blame a guy for wanting more for himself than more for a woman who doesn&#039;t even know what she wants... ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These books speak to the frustrated parts of guys; guys who think being nice or sensitive will attract women, but get the opposite results&#8230;</p>
<p>I can&#039;t blame a guy for wanting more for himself than more for a woman who doesn&#039;t even know what she wants&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Dating Book</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/08/10/so-this-is-where-men-learn-to-date/#comment-50477</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dating Book]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 17:42:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] more here:  So, This Is Where Men Learn To Date? : College Candy   Share and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>By: Ashley B</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/08/10/so-this-is-where-men-learn-to-date/#comment-50261</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ashley B]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 10:28:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Once filthy girls stop only going out with &quot;hot guys&quot; and guys who are rich, then maybe these books won&#039;t have to be written. Girls need to stop being so shallow and only dating these types of guys. You need to see that there are great guys who aren&#039;t necessarily &quot;hot&quot; or rich.  Until then, keep your traps shut ladies. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Once filthy girls stop only going out with &quot;hot guys&quot; and guys who are rich, then maybe these books won&#039;t have to be written. Girls need to stop being so shallow and only dating these types of guys. You need to see that there are great guys who aren&#039;t necessarily &quot;hot&quot; or rich.  Until then, keep your traps shut ladies.</p>
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		<title>By: Ivan</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/08/10/so-this-is-where-men-learn-to-date/#comment-50217</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ivan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 19:32:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Books like that exist because you ladies are cold and shallow! Average nice guys need an advantage because the frat-boy a-holes get all the girls! Girls like a-holes! Nice guys who are already sensitive face rejection wherever they go, whether it be at a bar, a party or online. I&#039;ve had experience with all of those and internet dating is no easier or less full of rejection. The book Copy Paste and Bang, from what I understand because I have not read it, (but I did hear the interview the author had with Howard Stern,) is a direct response to all those nice, sensitive guys out there who have been frustrated with trying meet girls in social settings only to find a whole new world of rejection online! Sure, it&#039;s all about how to have sex as quickly as possible but as long as you girls out there pretend to be all about personality, we&#039;re gonna go ahead and fight fire with fire. 
 
Girls are always saying how looks don&#039;t matter... it&#039;s all about personality, it&#039;s all about a sense of humor.. that is such HORSE POO! Confidence? BS. Girls are JUST as shallow as guys and if you&#039;re not hot or have lots of money, you will have a ROUGH time meeting a girl, no matter where you look. 
 
So deal with it, ladies. As long as you remain shallow, then pretend you&#039;re not, books like this will never stop being written and published. As long as truly nice guys face rejection from girls pretending to just be looking for a nice, honest guy, guys will come up with ways of getting in your pants because clearly, you&#039;re not interested in anything else if the techniques in the book work! ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Books like that exist because you ladies are cold and shallow! Average nice guys need an advantage because the frat-boy a-holes get all the girls! Girls like a-holes! Nice guys who are already sensitive face rejection wherever they go, whether it be at a bar, a party or online. I&#039;ve had experience with all of those and internet dating is no easier or less full of rejection. The book Copy Paste and Bang, from what I understand because I have not read it, (but I did hear the interview the author had with Howard Stern,) is a direct response to all those nice, sensitive guys out there who have been frustrated with trying meet girls in social settings only to find a whole new world of rejection online! Sure, it&#039;s all about how to have sex as quickly as possible but as long as you girls out there pretend to be all about personality, we&#039;re gonna go ahead and fight fire with fire.</p>
<p>Girls are always saying how looks don&#039;t matter&#8230; it&#039;s all about personality, it&#039;s all about a sense of humor.. that is such HORSE POO! Confidence? BS. Girls are JUST as shallow as guys and if you&#039;re not hot or have lots of money, you will have a ROUGH time meeting a girl, no matter where you look.</p>
<p>So deal with it, ladies. As long as you remain shallow, then pretend you&#039;re not, books like this will never stop being written and published. As long as truly nice guys face rejection from girls pretending to just be looking for a nice, honest guy, guys will come up with ways of getting in your pants because clearly, you&#039;re not interested in anything else if the techniques in the book work!</p>
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		<title>By: Rei</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/08/10/so-this-is-where-men-learn-to-date/#comment-49688</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rei]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2009 12:22:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Men shouldn&#039;t act like assholes to get a woman into bed with him. He should be a gentleman, not a jerk. The only women who will go to bed with a complete ass, after reading these ridiculous books, are women who are &#039;easy&#039; and they are called prostitutes. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Men shouldn&#039;t act like assholes to get a woman into bed with him. He should be a gentleman, not a jerk. The only women who will go to bed with a complete ass, after reading these ridiculous books, are women who are &#039;easy&#039; and they are called prostitutes.</p>
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		<title>By: The Weekly Wrap Up: Is It Time For School Yet? : College Candy</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/08/10/so-this-is-where-men-learn-to-date/#comment-49549</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[The Weekly Wrap Up: Is It Time For School Yet? : College Candy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 21:32:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] this year. It’s time to tell that stupid summer crush buh-bye (he prolly learned about dating on here), and jump into school single and ready to mingle! I do love summer, but there is something about [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] this year. It’s time to tell that stupid summer crush buh-bye (he prolly learned about dating on here), and jump into school single and ready to mingle! I do love summer, but there is something about [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Blog Snog (08-14-09) &#124; Em &#38; Lo: Sex. Love. And Everything in Between.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 12:01:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] Candy bashes the books that are apparently teaching men how to date (read: get laid&#8230;read: be [...]]]></description>
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		<title>By: Henry Hotspur</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Henry Hotspur]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 11:50:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You should read &quot;The Game&quot; before slamming it. Not only is it NOT a how-to book (although Neil has written one of those) but it answers the question about why Neil would make the change. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You should read &quot;The Game&quot; before slamming it. Not only is it NOT a how-to book (although Neil has written one of those) but it answers the question about why Neil would make the change.</p>
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		<title>By: Johnny</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 10:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Talk all the shit you want! Seduction literature has gotten me better with women, and I&#039;m not sorry about that. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Talk all the shit you want! Seduction literature has gotten me better with women, and I&#039;m not sorry about that.</p>
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