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		<title>By: DatingInTheATL</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/08/20/sexy-time-the-stigma-against-rough-sex/#comment-141279</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2011 22:54:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I had some REALLY hot, rough sex with my girlfriend on my birthday. 
 
She tells me that she is still sore from it lol. I love to pull her hair, hit it from the back, throw her around, f*ck her whenever I want, and generally dominates her. My girlfriend loves it and she doesn&#8217;t look at it as unethical or anti-feminist. But I guess not all girls are like my girlfriend.  
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had some REALLY hot, rough sex with my girlfriend on my birthday. </p>
<p>She tells me that she is still sore from it lol. I love to pull her hair, hit it from the back, throw her around, f*ck her whenever I want, and generally dominates her. My girlfriend loves it and she doesn&rsquo;t look at it as unethical or anti-feminist. But I guess not all girls are like my girlfriend.</p>
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		<title>By: guest</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jul 2011 14:26:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I LOVe rought sex.  A guy who oves you often will do this just with you and no one else.. the pleasure can be sooooo intense. they need to try it . 
i hate soft sex. Maybe when you do it enough the top nerves deaden.. .i love my nipples pinched and niblled...  ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I LOVe rought sex.  A guy who oves you often will do this just with you and no one else.. the pleasure can be sooooo intense. they need to try it .<br />
i hate soft sex. Maybe when you do it enough the top nerves deaden.. .i love my nipples pinched and niblled&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Sexy Time: Opening the Back Door : College Candy</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Apr 2011 13:01:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] Some of us are submissive. We enjoy relinquishing control in the bedroom and being dominated by our partner. Anal sex is generally considered one of the most vulnerable sex acts, and for many women who enjoy [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Some of us are submissive. We enjoy relinquishing control in the bedroom and being dominated by our partner. Anal sex is generally considered one of the most vulnerable sex acts, and for many women who enjoy [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Glamour Says the Darndest Things: November Edition : College Candy</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Oct 2010 14:53:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] Glamour says: &#8220;Biting your nipples. Ow.&#8221; Jasmine says: Some women enjoy rough sex. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>By: donia</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 05:31:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[hey! 
i wanted to say that i loved you article and believe me you are totally right because i also believe that if you are secured  in your relationship and in the person you are then you will feel very ok having sex in every way but if you like most other narrow-minded minded people who are either fat and hate their bodies or just religiously illuded people who still thinks that women are brn from men and sex is a sin. they like it missionary 
 
 
but i am like you and my boyfriend is so respecting me that he cant even say that he is horny when he is but he and i are very rough in bed and he like to like &quot; look down&quot; and man-over me while doing it and i like being rough to him and bite him and stuff 
 
 
 
and those who still thinks that rough sex is forbidden i find it amusing to say 
good luck with you boring missionary and your non existing sex life hahahha ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey!</p>
<p>i wanted to say that i loved you article and believe me you are totally right because i also believe that if you are secured  in your relationship and in the person you are then you will feel very ok having sex in every way but if you like most other narrow-minded minded people who are either fat and hate their bodies or just religiously illuded people who still thinks that women are brn from men and sex is a sin. they like it missionary</p>
<p>but i am like you and my boyfriend is so respecting me that he cant even say that he is horny when he is but he and i are very rough in bed and he like to like &quot; look down&quot; and man-over me while doing it and i like being rough to him and bite him and stuff</p>
<p>and those who still thinks that rough sex is forbidden i find it amusing to say</p>
<p>good luck with you boring missionary and your non existing sex life hahahha</p>
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		<title>By: donia</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[donia]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 05:29:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[hey! 
i wanted to say that i loved you article and believe me you are totally right because i also believe that if you are secured  in your relationship and in the person you are then you will feel very ok having sex in every way but if you like most other narrotive minded people who are either fat and hate their bodies or just relegiously illuded people who still thinks that women are brn from men and sex is a sin. they like it missinary 
 
 
but i am like you and my boyfirend is so respecting me that he cant even say that he is horny when he is but he and i are very rough in bed and he like to like &quot; look down&quot; and manover me while doing it and i like being rough to him and bite him and stuff 
 
 
 
and those who still thinks that rough sex is forbeddin i find it amusing to say 
good luck with you boring missanry and your nonexisting sex life hahahha ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey!</p>
<p>i wanted to say that i loved you article and believe me you are totally right because i also believe that if you are secured  in your relationship and in the person you are then you will feel very ok having sex in every way but if you like most other narrotive minded people who are either fat and hate their bodies or just relegiously illuded people who still thinks that women are brn from men and sex is a sin. they like it missinary</p>
<p>but i am like you and my boyfirend is so respecting me that he cant even say that he is horny when he is but he and i are very rough in bed and he like to like &quot; look down&quot; and manover me while doing it and i like being rough to him and bite him and stuff</p>
<p>and those who still thinks that rough sex is forbeddin i find it amusing to say</p>
<p>good luck with you boring missanry and your nonexisting sex life hahahha</p>
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		<title>By: Simon</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/08/20/sexy-time-the-stigma-against-rough-sex/#comment-63116</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 11:40:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think a lot of people mistakenly think that your sexual preferences somehow define you. As far as I&#039;m concerned there is no link between what you like in bed and the kind of person you are.

I&#039;m a man and I like to be dominant in bed. I&#039;ve come to realise that a lot of women aren&#039;t comfortable with this, and to be honest I&#039;m not that comfortable with it myself. I know that I get turned on by spanking her or pulling her hair but I wish that I could get turned on by less agressively dominant behaviour. However, I know that it&#039;s practically impossible to change your sexual desires and that it&#039;s something I have to come to terms with.

Unfortunately my current girlfriend does not like being submissive and as a result I don&#039;t enjoy sex nearly as much. But I love her more than anything and couldn&#039;t break up with her just because I&#039;m not getting what I want in the bedroom.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think a lot of people mistakenly think that your sexual preferences somehow define you. As far as I&#8217;m concerned there is no link between what you like in bed and the kind of person you are.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a man and I like to be dominant in bed. I&#8217;ve come to realise that a lot of women aren&#8217;t comfortable with this, and to be honest I&#8217;m not that comfortable with it myself. I know that I get turned on by spanking her or pulling her hair but I wish that I could get turned on by less agressively dominant behaviour. However, I know that it&#8217;s practically impossible to change your sexual desires and that it&#8217;s something I have to come to terms with.</p>
<p>Unfortunately my current girlfriend does not like being submissive and as a result I don&#8217;t enjoy sex nearly as much. But I love her more than anything and couldn&#8217;t break up with her just because I&#8217;m not getting what I want in the bedroom.</p>
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		<title>By: Mack</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 02:45:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I just love to have the role of top-dog when having sex with a girl. I often play &quot;take-down&quot; where my partner really wants to feel that there is no chance of getting away from me &quot;getting what I want&quot; (and what she actualy craves). But I have to prove it. No pretend-play. Bruises &amp; scratches on both sides. Sometimes thorn clothes too. 
But not even a chance that she wants to call the cops. More likely that she&#039;ll be purring like a kitten after the big bang.   
 
To me it seems that sexism is a great thing as long as you keep it where it belongs... 
 
Within sex. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just love to have the role of top-dog when having sex with a girl. I often play &quot;take-down&quot; where my partner really wants to feel that there is no chance of getting away from me &quot;getting what I want&quot; (and what she actualy craves). But I have to prove it. No pretend-play. Bruises &amp; scratches on both sides. Sometimes thorn clothes too.<br />
But not even a chance that she wants to call the cops. More likely that she&#039;ll be purring like a kitten after the big bang.   </p>
<p>To me it seems that sexism is a great thing as long as you keep it where it belongs&#8230; </p>
<p>Within sex.</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[John]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 17:45:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#039;s a guy&#039;s view.  I&#039;ve known several women into rough sex.  There seem to be two types.  

One is the jock. She runs several miles a day, plays contact sports, and likes to get physical.  Rough sex for her is just good rough play.  She likes to feel her muscles straining against a man.  What&#039;s the fun just lying there?  

Then there&#039;s the woman who&#039;s been abused, and kind of liked it. Makes the same mistakes in a boyfriend over and over.  Tends toward passive-aggressive behavior and drama.  Calls cops after boyfriend beats her, then pleads with cops not to take him away.  More trouble than she&#039;s worth. 

The jocks are keepers; dump the passive-aggressives as soon as you identify them.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s a guy&#8217;s view.  I&#8217;ve known several women into rough sex.  There seem to be two types.  </p>
<p>One is the jock. She runs several miles a day, plays contact sports, and likes to get physical.  Rough sex for her is just good rough play.  She likes to feel her muscles straining against a man.  What&#8217;s the fun just lying there?  </p>
<p>Then there&#8217;s the woman who&#8217;s been abused, and kind of liked it. Makes the same mistakes in a boyfriend over and over.  Tends toward passive-aggressive behavior and drama.  Calls cops after boyfriend beats her, then pleads with cops not to take him away.  More trouble than she&#8217;s worth. </p>
<p>The jocks are keepers; dump the passive-aggressives as soon as you identify them.</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Affeldt</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Karen Affeldt]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 12:07:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I like to be controlled and sexual aggressiveness but BDSM can go a little overboard. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like to be controlled and sexual aggressiveness but BDSM can go a little overboard.</p>
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