Comments on: Single. And Not Getting Any

By: Where Is It Best to Be a Woman? Not the U.S. : College Candy

Where Is It Best to Be a Woman? Not the U.S. : College Candy — Mon, 18 Oct 2010 16:01:35 +0000

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By: Branwen

Branwen — Fri, 23 Jul 2010 12:23:31 +0000

I just read what Ashley said. Sadly, she is very egotistical. Science is changing everyday. Just because a study suggests this does not mean that every single person that is in a fuck buddy partnership is due to being abused as a child.

Her statement doesn't have any hard facts. She has not stated how she interviewed many people, read studies, stated what book (or article) she has read this in. Just that everyone thinks it. Be weary of opinion.

By: Rach

Rach — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 23:01:52 +0000

Hey,

I'm an 18-year old girl, no sexual abuse here ha, but I do have a strange friendship with my guy mate…he's been one of my closest mates for a while and one night we ended up kissing, realised we could laugh and chat about it, then carried on doing it on nights out n things. Now I don't want to be with him, nor does he want to be with me so it's been pretty good…just sort out each other's lustful needs I suppose. We've done everything aside sex, and have just had a chat about sex, I've felt no attachment up until now – yet i'm still undecided on the whole sex thing, I'd love to have sex with him, he seems skilful enough haha – yet, I can't say 100% I wouldn't form some little attachment. So I've put it off as of yet, just cause he doesn't want anything to change between us, and neither do I.

Suppose the problem is, you don't know if you'll get attached until you do it and find out… catch 22 really!

By: Single. And Focusing On Me : College Candy

Single. And Focusing On Me : College Candy — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 16:09:27 +0000

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By: Ty

Ty — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 10:57:13 +0000

Sex outside a relationship is using someone else's body to masturbate with, maybe everyone is just losing their ability to fantasize.

By: Dafra

Dafra — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 02:39:09 +0000

I do believe that it is hard [while not impossible] for a girl to completely separate sex and feelings, but it just comes down to knowing urself and ur limits. Also, remember that our society is more prone to judging sexually liberated women than men

By: Dafra

Dafra — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 02:33:18 +0000

Even though the issue here is that girls may end up being attached to a guy they have sex with, a poll i saw once stated that more than 50% of men actually said that they were likely to develop ties for women they slept with on a regular basis.

By: I wonder

I wonder — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 00:36:21 +0000

I have to ask, how do you even go about getting a friend with benefits? Howww do you smootly bring that up in conversation? I'm sure most guys would be up for it, but it seems like it may be awkward if they think of you as a 'good' girl, like myself.

And as for strangers…say you recently met someone–maybe went on 1 or 2 dates with him–and you just want to be intimate with him (intimate: yes, sex: no) but not have a relationship. At such an early stage in the game, how important is it to clarify that you're not looking for anything serious, just some fun?

By: Harriet Handley

Harriet Handley — Mon, 07 Sep 2009 07:22:41 +0000

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By: Genghis

Genghis — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 18:32:36 +0000

@Bruce. I suppose you're talking about yourself, a virgin at age 37. That requires determination and discipline. I salute you. I hope you finally find the right woman for you.

When I was a teenager, my reaction to any girl looking at me was to lie down immediately. That led to a series of S&M's that I regret up to now. I did learn a lot from them, but those were bad teachers.