Comments on: Meet A Dude. Ask A Dude.

By: Terreal

Terreal — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 02:09:56 +0000

As a guy looking into the world of women who seek "answers", the ability to find quality male "advice" or "perspective" is not the issue.

The real issue is that women seek "excuses" for not changing themselves. Knowing the possible reasons behind why he does things you don't understand or find desireable doesn't "solve" your problem. There's a second step and that involves an honest assesment of your personality, actions and/or standards.

Good girls go bad forever because they use each new negative experience as an additional justification for why men made them jaded. No one is responsible for your mindset but you.

By: Zoe

Zoe — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 18:33:00 +0000

Don't read into things too much – what this guy says is entertainment, not gospel

By: College chick foolishness « In Mala Fide

College chick foolishness « In Mala Fide — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 10:02:30 +0000

[...] up, this piece introducing CC’s new column, “Ask a Dude”: Fact: Women don’t understand men.Fact: For the past 6 months, I’ve attempted to get some [...]

By: Anne

Anne — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 09:16:22 +0000

I see what Mike/Kayla are saying, but no one says that of Dear Abby (or anything of the long assortment of singular-opinion columnists in the world). I think Dude sounds honest… and I know I can learn from that ; )

By: Kayla - California S

Kayla - California S — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 04:06:52 +0000

I agree with Mike. We need a variety of men's opinions on evey questions emailed in. And I still don't know much about The Dude's backgound or what makes him a good choice. Like, what's his age? Is he in college and if so, what year. I want to know what his pesonal demographic is so I can undestand where he is coming from when making his observations and giving advice. A good variety of guys could be:

The Frat Dude

The Sensitive Guy

The Smart One

The Big Brother Type

etc. Just a wide array of different kinds of guys who can offe different opinions. Because no ONE guy will have the right answer to any ONE question.

By: Mike

Mike — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 01:17:39 +0000

First of all, you would be better served by a committee of guys. All men, just like all women, are different and have different opinions. Also, take this guy's advice with a grain of salt. Good luck listening to a 'dude' with a track record of lying, cheating, and being too drunk/lazy to be a decent boyfriend. Idolizing a guy like this is the exact reason that girls settle for less than they deserve without even realizing it.

By: Al

Al — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 00:16:24 +0000

BRAVO! This article was very funny and I like Dude; he sounds like a hottie. Can't wait to read on.

By: Angela

Angela — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 18:03:55 +0000

i am EXCITED lol