Comments on: Single. And Pissed Off At The Ladies http://collegecandy.com/2009/09/04/single-and-pissed-off-at-the-ladies/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Sat, 26 May 2012 07:48:10 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: emi http://collegecandy.com/2009/09/04/single-and-pissed-off-at-the-ladies/#comment-53991 Sat, 19 Sep 2009 02:15:41 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=39855#comment-53991 I had a similar situation where one of my good friends and I stopped speaking to each other all b/c I was the "filler". Once she found her BF, it was like "BUH bye 4ever", especially since HE was telling me that "she was going to call me" or "thought about hanging-out with my friends and I" haha. I never made a huge deal out of this, I did feel hurt, yes.

On the other hand, I've had several friends with BFs/ husbands who still remember their friends and we all keep in touch (like the old times!) It MUST a friendship test, right? It must be…there are days I feel like I'm Lauren. Good luck girls. :)

]]> By: kate http://collegecandy.com/2009/09/04/single-and-pissed-off-at-the-ladies/#comment-52769 Sun, 13 Sep 2009 17:46:50 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=39855#comment-52769 i love boys, i do.

but there definitley is in need of some balance.

i lost a best friend this year too when she got a boyfriend :/.

]]> By: mollination http://collegecandy.com/2009/09/04/single-and-pissed-off-at-the-ladies/#comment-52700 Sat, 12 Sep 2009 16:58:07 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=39855#comment-52700 I haven't had a girl-friend like the ones described above since I was 15. I have tried with reckless abandon to find a good girl for the past 7 years to be friends with – someone genuine, someone normal (as in the same type of crazy as me), someone honest. Just someone that wouldn't blow me off, put guilt trips on me, throw stinging backhanded compliments at me when I was already feeling insecure, tag along on my dates only to sabotage me and them, constantly make me feel like she secretly knew something about me that I didn't know and then proceed to dangle it above my head and use as ammo against me, accuse me of flaking out if I simply couldn't hang out for once, belittle me, judge me, make me work for their friendship or kindness, talk shit about me behind my back, or point out my worst attributes.

THAT'S why I prefer man's company.

Oh and Angie Marie- Yes, girl. You've got a case of the crush. :)

]]> By: twentysomethingreali http://collegecandy.com/2009/09/04/single-and-pissed-off-at-the-ladies/#comment-52673 Sat, 12 Sep 2009 11:21:26 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=39855#comment-52673 When my boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago, I don't think I could have gotten through it without my girlfriends. Those friendships last longer than most relationships.

http://twentysomethingmeetsreality.wordpress.com/

]]> By: Al http://collegecandy.com/2009/09/04/single-and-pissed-off-at-the-ladies/#comment-52595 Fri, 11 Sep 2009 13:40:32 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=39855#comment-52595 I don't agree, because I go to an all-women's school where female bonds are really strong. Sisterhood and friendship take precedence over all else. Women should follow this model of NOT HATING other women; it's counterproductive and a detriment to our progression.

FYI: Everyone's filler in my book, regardless of gender, until I meet people of substance… a pretty difficult search.

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]]> By: Erich http://collegecandy.com/2009/09/04/single-and-pissed-off-at-the-ladies/#comment-52214 Tue, 08 Sep 2009 12:42:47 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=39855#comment-52214 Heres the thing, When you get out of college and start a life of your own, you will only end up with a few really good friends frm HS and college. So the friends that make the effort to hang with you now when your not partying or gpoing thru rough times are the ones that will be there for life, the others will just go by the way side.

]]> By: K http://collegecandy.com/2009/09/04/single-and-pissed-off-at-the-ladies/#comment-52117 Mon, 07 Sep 2009 13:47:46 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=39855#comment-52117 Neil – A lot of girls cheat too, but not all of us–you don't want to be thrown in with cheating guys and we don't all want to be thrown in with whorish girls.

Personally, I think 80% + girls fit this mold. Doesn't seem like it will ever change.

]]> By: Neil http://collegecandy.com/2009/09/04/single-and-pissed-off-at-the-ladies/#comment-52077 Mon, 07 Sep 2009 03:22:29 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=39855#comment-52077 Oh what a load of cheetah shit!!!! Guys treat girls too well and get jack shit in return except the girl sleeping around like a whore and cheating on him. Dont say guys are worse than girls because it is the girls who are the biggest cheaters in the world.

]]> By: kvguzman http://collegecandy.com/2009/09/04/single-and-pissed-off-at-the-ladies/#comment-52049 Sun, 06 Sep 2009 15:35:06 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=39855#comment-52049 I totally agree but I think a huge part of the problem is men practically make up the core of women. At least when it comes to my friends, they feel like they exist for men and without a man they are miserable human beings and I can't tell you how often we (I'm including myself here – check out my blog, i'm very much a part of the problem! hahaha) involve a male in our conversations! WHYYYYYYYYYYYY are we hardwired to care sooooo much about them and they care so little about us?

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