Comments on: You’ve Been Dumped. Let’s Move On

By: e

Tue, 17 Nov 2009 20:11:16 +0000

my boyfirend and i broke up 4 months ago i believe ,due to him going off to college and me staying home attending college. i wanted to try to make it work, but he couldnt do it and told me it was the hardest decison he has everhad to make. he said we would be together if he didnt have to go away to college. we didnt keep in contact for a while after constant fighting over the phone and text messaging. then we started talking again and it just didnt turn out well caue i love him so much and missed him and still wanted to try but he didnt cause of school. we became distant and stopped contacting eachother after we told eachother how we felt. i told him i still love him and hope e felt the same and he said he did but wanted to be friends cause he didnt want me out of his life. he said i rather have u as a friend then nothing at all. i took that as him being over me and told him i couldnt do it cause it would be too hard. the morning before my bday he sent me a text wishing me a happy bday. i sent him one saying tht my bday was tomorrow ut thanks. he sent one back saying i know i just wanted to be the first to tell you. i said thanks and that was it. no more communication. after that text i had hope that he wasnt over me, but idk. could of just been nice i guess.

ive been in the process of trying o move on and it sucks ass. im having such a tough time. thaksgiving and other holidays will be coming soon and he will home. ugh!!! he came home twice already and never saw me. ): trying to do the things thats on the list, but its not helping me. guess i need time.

By: Allie

Allie — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 22:33:24 +0000

Yesterday my boyfriend and I of a year broke up. It turns out I fell in love with a person who did not love me back. And now I am hurt and I cry and I feel sick. I am getting out and trying my best to be happy but I can't yet. All I think about is him and how happy I was with him and how happy he seemed. I'm confused and I feel alone. I want him back, I can't sleep without him. I know these feelings are going to pass but I just can't see the end now. I wish these tips would work. But they don't.

By: Victoria

Victoria — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 21:29:50 +0000

Me and my guy have been on and off for two years–a few days ago he said he thinks that we should go our seperate ways.. he loves me and whats to be with me but not right now, and i can't understand why.. I don't know what that means.. and he brought up the lets be friends thing.. and he does that alot.. normally i say okay but i feel like he thinks he has some kind of hold on me cuz he thinks he can do whatever he want but..he doesn't want me to be with anybody else.. he still acts like a boyfriend. So i said if your going to be my friend, be my friend.. You can't have any control over who i see and what i do… and he was like he can't handle me being with somebody else.. so he said we shouldn't see each other at all… but everytime he ends things a few hours or days later he's texting me. Today is the first day I haven't heard from him all day.. and I don't know what to do if he texts me again.. because I love him and i do want to be with him but, at the same time i feel like he's unsure of his self.. I told him I'm ready to settle down and every time I say something about a commitment he takes a giant leap back.. or breaks up with me and is back again in a few days..(i made this man my world i practically worship the ground he walks on.. im 22 he's 29 years old) I like older guys because they are very mature and intelligent i can learn more from them but, i feel like he's acting childish right now…….he is honestly my first true love and he told me he has never loved another woman like he loves me.. we've broken up many times but now i feel like it really is over.. this is the longest relationship ive been in.. i know im suppose to ignore all his calls and texts but i keep thinking that "maybe" or "what if"……….if he really wants to be with my why is now not a good time? if so when?.. i've really given him the upperhand in this relationship..so now i think that he thinks he will always have me.. I don't want him to think that way but at the same time.. its like i can't stay away.. i don't know what to do

By: Kaitlyn

Kaitlyn — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 19:57:00 +0000

I LOVE these tips! It’s so true that when you are dumped you often want to wallow (Gilmore Girls anyone?) in your own self pity. You have to look at the positive side to the breakup though. Sometimes you can become closer to your friends because of it–a wonderful girls movie night full of snacks and chit chat can really bring you together. What better way to get your mind off of a breakup than by spending it with your closest friends?
We love your blog!
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By: Trisha

Trisha — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 14:00:00 +0000

I followed all of those words of advice and after sometime I got back to a good place, and then communication did open up again, we decided we really missed eachother and wanted to be friends. I was not sure at first i believed him because he had had a 'fling' of sorts only 2 months after we broke up. We had a long past together and finally ended up together for a year and a half, but then he had to move. we did the long distance thing for five months, until he called it quits. We did not speak for a few months, but really it was him ignoring me, until i kept with your advice and cut off communication. Which would bring up back to being friends again, but he suggested we are never going to be just friends that there is always something more between us and he can see his future with me but he still needs to be single, i even understood that. But he would flirt with me almost everyday and he apologized for all that he had done (i mean he was a really hard unexpected breakup). Here comes the tricky part, after three months of talking everyday and flirting, etc. He begins to ignore me again, there is a new girl (but if we were friends why would you ignore me cause you are dating). How would you advice someone to deal with something that feels so much like a break-up but you were never really dating? I need something more than time heals, and keep busy, i do all of that and nothing is changing.

By: agukoy

agukoy — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 03:42:55 +0000

aahh… being dumped is not the end of the world. If you love someone don't give everything to that person. It would only hurt you much when its time to say goodbye. You are definitely right Steph. TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS =)

By: Jeremy

Jeremy — Mon, 21 Sep 2009 19:50:43 +0000

You know what, Casey. My honest and truthful answer to that question is that I do not know. I really do not mean to be mean or to generate controversy. But it might be that I subconsciously do just that. We can say the same for the writers of the articles. In fact, that is almost certainly why they write them the way they do – "generate the biggest response possible". The only difference is that I do not mean to get any response. I would be happy if people just agreed with me and bowed down like they should. But we can't all get our way. hahaaha

Sometimes I do joke around and that's just me. I say these things in person too to almost everyone I meet and am comfortable enough to have real conversation with. Most are cool but some of the people I meet take life too seriously.

I haven't really made my mind up about you yet either.

By: Casey

Casey — Mon, 21 Sep 2009 15:48:51 +0000

Jeremy, I think she was talking about Melenda.

You're only a troll if you're detracting from the discussion to get a rise out of people for some sick gratification.

But you actually contribute meaningful conversation to the discussion, not pejorative bullshit that you don't necessarily believe to generate the biggest response possible. Or do you?