Comments on: We’ve All Been There: The Bad Kisser

By: Casey

Casey — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 11:11:57 +0000

ohgoodgodchristman, Considering they are talking about their FIRST KISS which probably happened with some pre pubescent 13-16 year old awkward inexperienced kid and not some erotic night with a super hot sex god, then I don't think they are closed minded to any of the things you mentioned, but instead are simply rehashing the experiences of their first kisses where said kid tried (and failed miserably at) all of those "eroticism's" that you mentioned. Like you said, it's not the practice itself that has these ladies turned off, but the very poor execution of a kid trying them out for the first time.

So let's try to calm down shall we?

By: ohgoodgodchristman

ohgoodgodchristman — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 08:18:39 +0000

WTF? You've got to be the most sheltered and narrow minded bunch of provincial straight jacketed people on earth! I can understand some of the complaints here but you all act like you've never even heard of biting or the fact that the ears are a very common erogenous zone that given the right attention can be incredibly stimulated and give intense pleasure to the recipient.

Man, I had an outrageously hot girl kissing, sucking and licking my ears and neck recently and my god it made my whole body feel it, it was like I was floating! Unbelievably sexy! She is an artist at this!

I haven't always been the biggest fan of biting, but done right, by the right person at the right time it can be incredibly erotic and passionate. I've had some girls really turn me on with a sexy bite on the lips or elsewhere. Hasn't any of you heard the term "love bites"? True, it can be terrible and painful if done wrong, obviously, but come on, expand your horizons at least enough to be aware of this and acknowledge it. It's not the practice itself, like you guys make it seem, it's the execution. Not that it's for everybody anyway, but jeez people!

By: Jay

Jay — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 23:34:29 +0000

Oh, God… this is almost exactly what happened to me, right down to the awkward, 'haha, I have to study tomorrow…' thing. I think getting a horrible kiss from a guy is a rite of passage for us ladies.

Another thing to look out for is the guy with the terrible breath. Actually, I think that's more intolerable than a bad kisser. I once kissed a guy at a party whose breath smelled like tuna. I got away from him as quick as I could and avoided him for the rest of the night. Bad breath is virtually inexcusable. Unless you have some kind of medical condition, there is no reason in the world for it to smell awful.

By: ModernSophist

ModernSophist — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 18:22:35 +0000

I think Linda got it right; She seems to have taken some positive control of the bad kissers. Thanks for this. I am trying to figure the bad kissing thing out too. A friend of mine was complaining about a guy she's seeing, and I asked her, "why don't you try to help him out instead of just complaining. I mean, both of you would be better off, right?" See what you think. "What makes a bad kisser?

By: Darwin - New York Un

Darwin - New York Un — Sat, 17 Oct 2009 21:53:33 +0000

The ear kiss is always creepy. The question becomes "Oh shit, did I clean my ears well?" or "I hope she cleaned her ears today…"

By: mary

mary — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 15:53:12 +0000

As the song goes "it's in his kiss". I once had a guy who licked my whole face..yuk. I say you can tell a lot about a guy from the way he kisses (how he'll be in bed). They either are naturals or not. What makes them think their tongue in your mouth is a turn on? Remember the episode on Sex in the City about kissing..funny and true.

By: Megan

Megan — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 18:48:31 +0000

Ah haha. I just dealt with something very similar to this. I really liked this guy until he kissed me… and it was horrible! His idea of making out was sticking his tongue down my throat for a minute or so and not using his lips whatsoever. Where he learned this, I'm not even sure but that's not kissing. And then when I finally did say something about his tongue being down my throat, he was just as bad at using his lips. Pretty much, I've had no desire to kiss him since.

By: Jenn

Jenn — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 02:06:26 +0000

Oh my goodness – I kissed a guy once who definitely thought it was sexy to, basically, make out with my ear. I was utterly grossed out. I kept thinking "this isn't making out, this is just a really intense wet willy".

Another guy (granted, he was drunk) ended up leaving me feeling as though I'd had a really awkward encounter at the dentist. My gums and lips physically hurt afterwards because he kept biting me. It was terrible.

By: Kiera

Kiera — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 16:14:30 +0000

I was so disappointed in my first kiss I didn't call the guy back for three days! I was scared I was one of the few that was doomed to hate kissing until his ex-girlfriend asked me if I thought he was a bad kisser too. I said, wait, you mean your chin isn't supposed to be dripping wet?

~Kiera

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By: Linda

Linda — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 15:28:48 +0000

Great article!

I've learned though, that communication is key..just say something!

If you can't handle that…then take control when kissing, your guy should take a cue from that!