Comments on: Single. And Focusing On Me http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/09/single-and-focusing-on-me/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Sat, 26 May 2012 08:31:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Dan http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/09/single-and-focusing-on-me/#comment-57711 Sun, 18 Oct 2009 23:31:02 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=43155#comment-57711 Yeah ok mrs. couple of months without boys, I had a strict "no girls" policy for over 12 years. When I turned 13 I said ok, I've made my point, but those were still some of the best days of my life.

]]> By: Lotus http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/09/single-and-focusing-on-me/#comment-57686 Sun, 18 Oct 2009 16:28:04 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=43155#comment-57686 "no boys allowed" are you on your period? cool down or get back to your menstrual hut.

]]> By: Cait http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/09/single-and-focusing-on-me/#comment-57040 Mon, 12 Oct 2009 13:22:30 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=43155#comment-57040 As cool as this whole summer-of-abstinence-thing is, you make it sound like it's so difficult.

I'm a 19 year old woman, and have been abstinent for… 19 years.

It's really admirable, but it seems as though you're so proud of yourself for doing something for a short period of time, when others do it for a lifetime.

]]> By: Kelly http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/09/single-and-focusing-on-me/#comment-56854 Sat, 10 Oct 2009 19:24:51 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=43155#comment-56854 abstinence is a beautiful thing. so is good grammar and the occasional use of spell-check, things this author clearly needs to invest in.

]]> By: tasha http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/09/single-and-focusing-on-me/#comment-56789 Fri, 09 Oct 2009 21:26:31 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=43155#comment-56789 thank you, thank you for this post. I am so gonna do my own "Vow" this year and jus swear of liking any friend/guy in class which is annoying for me. It shouldnt be this easy to like people so I shall do this as well.

]]> By: Darwin - New York University http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/09/single-and-focusing-on-me/#comment-56748 Fri, 09 Oct 2009 20:46:43 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=43155#comment-56748 Sounds awesome for you. Don’t force yourself into a relationship if you really can’t handle being committed to one. Go you! Good luck!

]]> By: Erich http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/09/single-and-focusing-on-me/#comment-56773 Fri, 09 Oct 2009 18:25:56 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=43155#comment-56773 Abstenince is a beautiful things sometimes and it sucks. 2 years ago I decide to refrain from dating, making out or hooking up with women so that I could focus more on work and coaching. It has done wonders for me in those areas and as the author stated it let me really learn about me, the deep side of me. Now, that I am back on the dating scene I seem to be much more confident. And its prob due to the break I took.

]]> By: Guy http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/09/single-and-focusing-on-me/#comment-56766 Fri, 09 Oct 2009 17:54:15 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=43155#comment-56766 "But, having been single for over three years, I needed a break."

Uhhhh….you lost me.

]]> By: J http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/09/single-and-focusing-on-me/#comment-56762 Fri, 09 Oct 2009 17:45:11 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=43155#comment-56762 Ever since I found out my (now ex) boyfriend was cheating on me with a few girls, I've been single and focusing on me. I'm just not ready for anyone and I'm still recovering. It's been pretty amazing so far. I'm loving it so much I'm a little worried I'll never want a boyfriend again.

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