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		<title>By: Senthil</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Feb 2012 02:28:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I could not agree with you more, Barb. Moms used to ask me how I got my deghutar to dress modestly and wear dresses. I told them that she didn&#8217;t have anything inappropriate in her closet!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I could not agree with you more, Barb. Moms used to ask me how I got my deghutar to dress modestly and wear dresses. I told them that she didn&#8217;t have anything inappropriate in her closet!</p>
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		<title>By: Jill</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 12:53:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;a href=&quot;http://bowtrolexposed.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Bowtrol&lt;/a&gt; ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://bowtrolexposed.com/" rel="nofollow">Bowtrol</a> </p>
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		<title>By: Katie</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Katie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 20:24:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[so then what happens when your girlfriend starts dating your boyfriend? ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>so then what happens when your girlfriend starts dating your boyfriend? </p>
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		<title>By: Xaric Lance</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xaric Lance]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 22:26:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Both kind of women have good and bad things about them but the fact of the matter is that you refuse to love yourselves in many of your relationships which cuases problems for both of these prefrence types. love yourself and love others for themselves there is no need for change in a relationship becuase if you love them then you love everything they are asking for someone to change is greedy and leads to problems. if theres something about a person thats better of changed or nonexistant like drinking problems, gambling, cheating etc. and theyve told you they love you then theyll will change on there own. if you dont like something about a relationship never threatin to leave just leave any problems youve had with your relationships are not just the mens fualt like the media likes to popularize nowadays. give &amp; take works but most people dont know what this actually means, this also goes for both women types that are bickiring on this post. now where the two women types fighting here to be women who were lesbian or bi my responce would vary but youve all made it very clear your straight[or at least have sexual intrest in men] so to all of you i ask you to learn to love youselves before others as hard as that may be for some of you.  
｜to the poster｜ it sounds like you are the cuase of all your unsuccessful relationships please stop blaming men for you greed and lack of selflove, for doing so qualifies as a type of women that leads men to think theres no such thing as love to women which makes them to hurt other inoccent women[out of thought that women dont care] later on...oh wait you are already this kind of women arent you, guess you better stop sleeping around with random men becuase noone wants a relationship with you. ｜to all women｜ you cuase men to sleep around and be as unattached as they are either from bad parenting, or single moms/dads[NEVER do this to your kid] or freinds with the first two or partners with the first two. men arent born as cheating jerks. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Both kind of women have good and bad things about them but the fact of the matter is that you refuse to love yourselves in many of your relationships which cuases problems for both of these prefrence types. love yourself and love others for themselves there is no need for change in a relationship becuase if you love them then you love everything they are asking for someone to change is greedy and leads to problems. if theres something about a person thats better of changed or nonexistant like drinking problems, gambling, cheating etc. and theyve told you they love you then theyll will change on there own. if you dont like something about a relationship never threatin to leave just leave any problems youve had with your relationships are not just the mens fualt like the media likes to popularize nowadays. give &amp; take works but most people dont know what this actually means, this also goes for both women types that are bickiring on this post. now where the two women types fighting here to be women who were lesbian or bi my responce would vary but youve all made it very clear your straight[or at least have sexual intrest in men] so to all of you i ask you to learn to love youselves before others as hard as that may be for some of you. </p>
<p>｜to the poster｜ it sounds like you are the cuase of all your unsuccessful relationships please stop blaming men for you greed and lack of selflove, for doing so qualifies as a type of women that leads men to think theres no such thing as love to women which makes them to hurt other inoccent women[out of thought that women dont care] later on&#8230;oh wait you are already this kind of women arent you, guess you better stop sleeping around with random men becuase noone wants a relationship with you. ｜to all women｜ you cuase men to sleep around and be as unattached as they are either from bad parenting, or single moms/dads[NEVER do this to your kid] or freinds with the first two or partners with the first two. men arent born as cheating jerks. </p>
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		<title>By: Elizabeth</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Elizabeth]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 20:41:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#039;t think it is necessary for us to fight over which life is better to live. I&#039;ve been with my boyfriend for 4.5 years and I go back and forth between thinking it is the best way to live and thinking i need to be alone nd independent. Lets face it, girls in relationships want to put down single girls because we are jealous of your freedom. Single girls want to put down girls in relationships because they are jealous that we have found a loving relationship (no offense -nothing like the relationship we have with our girlfriends). I&#039;m just sick of this fight. I&#039;ve lost too many girlfriends because of this stupid relationship girls versus single girls bullshit. I wish everyone would stop trying to justify their own position by putting down the &quot;other side&quot;. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#039;t think it is necessary for us to fight over which life is better to live. I&#039;ve been with my boyfriend for 4.5 years and I go back and forth between thinking it is the best way to live and thinking i need to be alone nd independent. Lets face it, girls in relationships want to put down single girls because we are jealous of your freedom. Single girls want to put down girls in relationships because they are jealous that we have found a loving relationship (no offense -nothing like the relationship we have with our girlfriends). I&#039;m just sick of this fight. I&#039;ve lost too many girlfriends because of this stupid relationship girls versus single girls bullshit. I wish everyone would stop trying to justify their own position by putting down the &quot;other side&quot;. </p>
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		<title>By: Brad Wellen</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Brad Wellen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 12:58:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lock up the women when this rock star comes to town - http://www.precioustimeny.com/blog/?p=5413#more-5413]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lock up the women when this rock star comes to town &#8211; <a href="http://www.precioustimeny.com/blog/?p=5413#more-5413" rel="nofollow">http://www.precioustimeny.com/blog/?p=5413#more-5413</a></p>
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		<title>By: Cecil</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Cecil]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 18:11:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[From experience I wouldn&#039;t choose friends over a -good-boyfriend. I have plenty of friends, we go out together have good times &amp; share some &quot;secrets&quot;... but there always comes a point where they start ignoring others(me) once they get boyfriends/girlfriends... they only come back when things get messy.. I don&#039;t really hold it against them but I know better than to put them first.  
There&#039;s just one girl who has been my BFF for over eight years who&#039;d I choose over a boyfriend (not that she&#039;d ever make me choose) &amp; I make sure every guy I date knows how much she means to me... they get the idea ;) ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From experience I wouldn&#039;t choose friends over a -good-boyfriend. I have plenty of friends, we go out together have good times &amp; share some &quot;secrets&quot;&#8230; but there always comes a point where they start ignoring others(me) once they get boyfriends/girlfriends&#8230; they only come back when things get messy.. I don&#039;t really hold it against them but I know better than to put them first. </p>
<p>There&#039;s just one girl who has been my BFF for over eight years who&#039;d I choose over a boyfriend (not that she&#039;d ever make me choose) &amp; I make sure every guy I date knows how much she means to me&#8230; they get the idea <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
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		<title>By: kailash</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/10/bestfriendsarebetterthanboyfriend/#comment-57472</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[kailash]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 12:28:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yes i agree with Darwin. Every one is a different person and also it depends upon the mood. Everything counts to some extent.  &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.hindlist.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://www.hindlist.com&lt;/a&gt; ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes i agree with Darwin. Every one is a different person and also it depends upon the mood. Everything counts to some extent.<br />
  <a href="http://www.hindlist.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.hindlist.com</a> </p>
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		<title>By: Darwin - New York Un</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/10/bestfriendsarebetterthanboyfriend/#comment-57184</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Darwin - New York Un]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 17:56:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Really depends on the person. Everyone is different. Both guys and girls. Most of us have a preference on which sex we prefer to hang with and that reflects through who we&#039;re friends with. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Really depends on the person. Everyone is different. Both guys and girls. Most of us have a preference on which sex we prefer to hang with and that reflects through who we&#039;re friends with. </p>
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		<title>By: Erich</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Erich]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 11:39:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK. In my time I have always had female friends. I love hanging with them and not for the sex, but for the interesting differnces we all have. I love a womens insight. That being said a lot of women I date tend to be jealous because I do enjoy my girls. Besides, who doesnt want to hang with beautiful chicas all day? ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK. In my time I have always had female friends. I love hanging with them and not for the sex, but for the interesting differnces we all have. I love a womens insight. That being said a lot of women I date tend to be jealous because I do enjoy my girls. Besides, who doesnt want to hang with beautiful chicas all day? </p>
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