Sexy Time: You Ready For It?

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I'm ready for ya, boys.

If you want be having sex, or be having more sex (and, come on, who doesn’t!?) the best thing you can do is make sure you’re prepared. Getting yourself ready for sex will put you in a mental mindset compatible with getting some. And feeling sexy will send out the come hither vibes that will make it happen.

Even if you’re having a dry spell, you never know when the opportunity to break it will arise, and you don’t want to be held back by granny panties or hairy legs.

Keep Up Your Grooming. Keep your down-there area groomed enough so that you’d comfortable with someone seeing it, should the situation arise. Nothing will kill the mood (or your self esteem) faster than an unkempt forest.

Keep Up Your Birth Control Routine. Don’t slack on taking your pill just because you haven’t been getting any or you’ll be sorry when you actually do! Not only will it mess with your cycle (spontaneous bleeding = bad), but it won’t be as affective and the last thing you want from a night of nooky is a night-of-nooky-bun-in-the-oven.

Be Tested Regularly. If you’re not having sex, you don’t need to be tested every three months, but make sure you’ve been tested since your last period of sexual activity. Health comes first!

Look Nice Under Your Clothes. Wearing sexy underwear can make us feel hot, even if no one sees them. And if that isn’t incentive enough to layer on the lacy goods, just imagine your love interest’s shock and horror when he goes to disrobe you and finds….period stained long johns. For realz, update those underthings.

Know What You Want and What You Don’t. Know what kind of guy and relationship you’re looking for. If you want something casual, make sure he’s clean and respectful. If you want something more relationship-y, don’t settle for a FWB just because you’re horny.

Keep Your Room Clean. Because you don’t want to tell that hottie he can’t come home with you just because you’ve got dirty laundry all over your floor.

In the meantime…

Do It Yourself. Just because there’s no man in your life doesn’t mean you have to be deprived of sexual pleasure. Take care of your needs yourself… it’s good for you!

If you follow each of these steps, you’ll be ready to have sex with the opportunity arises. After all, if you build it, they will come. (Hell yeah that pun was intended!)

5 Comments on "Sexy Time: You Ready For It?"

  1. Kelly's Secret Admirer says:
    Thu, 15th Oct 20094:39 pm 

    Kelly for CollegeCandy President. Or at the least get this girl a publishing deal. I want a lot more Kelly and I’m sure I’m not alone.

  2. Star says:
    Thu, 15th Oct 20097:59 pm 

    Is it just me or are those two white lines going across the picture part of a watermark? Might not be, hard to tell. College Candy seems to publish a lot of pictures though that could potentially land them in hot water.

    About the article though, it’s really good advice and wearing sexy lingerie is extremely fun and a great confidence booster even if you’re not looking to hook-up.

  3. Jess says:
    Fri, 16th Oct 200912:35 pm 

    Wait, why did Star’s comment get deleted? It is interesting that the photo didn’t receive credit to where it belongs.

  4. zoe says:
    Sat, 17th Oct 20095:19 pm 

    I love reading these articles, but I’ve got to say… someone is slacking in the editing department. It REALLY bugs me when I read an article on what seems to be a reputable site and it has really basic mistakes that are easy to fix (not knowing the difference between affect and effect, for example). Please be more careful in the future- it’s hard for me to take collegecandy seriously when there are so many grammar mistakes, but I’m rooting for you guys.

  5. Cynthia says:
    Tue, 27th Oct 200910:10 am 

    Birth control medication, Yaz, has been linked to strokes, heart attacks, and other life-threatening and dangerous adverse events. Here is some valuable information: http://www.yaz-may-cause-strokes.com/

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