Comments on: Tuffy Luv Sez: Third Time’s The Charm http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/27/tuffy-luv-sez-third-times-the-charm/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Mon, 13 Feb 2012 09:13:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: rinoboy http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/27/tuffy-luv-sez-third-times-the-charm/#comment-62756 Thu, 17 Dec 2009 16:17:18 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=44675#comment-62756 Gina, you're a selfish whore…he's not. Bad mix.

]]> By: Kat http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/27/tuffy-luv-sez-third-times-the-charm/#comment-58494 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 12:35:45 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=44675#comment-58494 Wow Gina. WOW. It's really astonishing to me that anyone could cheat on someone they care about, nonetheless transfer whatever guilt – if there even IS any guilt in your body – into scolding him for dating someone while you guys were on your little "break." Really. I applaud you. Great job well done sweet heart.

]]> By: Mal http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/27/tuffy-luv-sez-third-times-the-charm/#comment-58488 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 10:46:08 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=44675#comment-58488 if you really care about this guy, the best thing you can do is not be with him… i feel really bad for the guy in this situation. Gina, is being beyond ridiculous

]]> By: Toralinda http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/27/tuffy-luv-sez-third-times-the-charm/#comment-58429 Tue, 27 Oct 2009 17:11:53 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=44675#comment-58429 I agree. My boyfriend and I broke up for a while last year (not because anyone was cheating, but because things were just getting rough) and I told him that I would wait for him and that I wouldn't date in the meantime. Well, it eventually dawned on me that he may never come back, and so I realized that for me to uphold that promise was ridiculous. So yes, I dated, and I did do more than just go out to dinner with someone, but when it eventually ended up that he wanted to get back together (and I did too), he was hurt that I didn't keep that promise, but he also didn't expect me to apologize for something that, in reality, wasn't a reasonable thing to expect.

When you let someone go, or lose someone due to something stupid you did, for that matter, there is no possible reason for you to expect them to just wait around for you, even if they say they will. And to expect them to apologize for it, let alone do something "bigger," is just plain narcissistic.

]]> By: Jessica http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/27/tuffy-luv-sez-third-times-the-charm/#comment-58414 Tue, 27 Oct 2009 15:17:40 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=44675#comment-58414 i can't believe she has the nerve to act like she deserves something (in her words) "bigger". really? you're lucky he even wants you back at all.

]]> By: Erich http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/27/tuffy-luv-sez-third-times-the-charm/#comment-58410 Tue, 27 Oct 2009 14:15:51 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=44675#comment-58410 He should tell Gina to eff off…

]]> By: Johnnie http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/27/tuffy-luv-sez-third-times-the-charm/#comment-58408 Tue, 27 Oct 2009 13:51:50 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=44675#comment-58408 @ Casey: You said it better than Tuffy

]]> By: Casey http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/27/tuffy-luv-sez-third-times-the-charm/#comment-58406 Tue, 27 Oct 2009 13:38:33 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=44675#comment-58406 I totally agree with Tuffy on this one! How can you be upset at him for seeing someone else when the two of you weren't even together (which means he has absolutely no obligation to you) when you CHEATED on him, which is blatantly breaking his trust. Seriously, you should have saved yourself the embarrassment of this asinine question and just dropped it with the first e-mail. You don't deserve this guy, and he deserves for you to stop messing with his emotions.

This, "I realized that the other guy that I was cheating with wasn’t that great so I really want to get back with my guy." Made me sick! Really!? You think you deserve to have anyone better when all you're going to do is cheat on them the next time someone who may appear to be better comes along? Tuffy's right, "You get what you give" Well you cheated on a guy with a not-so-great guy, that makes you a not-so-great girlfriend so you totally deserve that not-so-great guy!

]]> By: Kate http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/27/tuffy-luv-sez-third-times-the-charm/#comment-58405 Tue, 27 Oct 2009 13:38:22 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=44675#comment-58405 Hell yea Tuffy!

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