Comments on: Single. And My 3 Roommates Aren’t

By: Brit

Brit — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 15:26:54 +0000

Yea I live with for girls who all have men. We all used to be best friends, and everything changed in the course of 2 weeks. I have not dated a whole lot I go to a small school and there are not many options and every guy I have dated I have not really liked. I walk in the house last night first floor girl is wit her boo, up a floor my other roomate and her man are snuggling and then on the top floor one girls on the phone with her man and the other one is obvs not even there, because shes out with her man and then there is ME. It sucks and it seems like there is no light at the end of the tunnel. Its hard not to ask why the fuck is this happening? Or why am I alone is there something wrong with me? Its just miserable.

By: Kesha

Kesha — Fri, 30 Sep 2011 00:16:53 +0000

My roommates were in relationships when we met. One for 2 years&engaged, the other for 3. They write&talk about how in love they are. I have a room to myself. They room together. Two of them actually ask me why I never come out. One of them doesn't like me. (I don't know why. She just never liked me.) I used to give relationship advice&apparently it helped, but now my confidence is shattered&I feel like I can't keep a man or whatever. On top of that, everyone dropped out of a required Biology course&I have to drop out, too. I need the course to graduate. I hate it here.

By: Sara

Sara — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 01:24:57 +0000

I'm in the same situation. When I moved in with my two roommates at the beginning of summer, I was in a relationship and so was one of the other roommate. The third roommate was single but was away for the summer. My boyfriend broke up with me at the end of summer, and not very long after, the third roommate began a relationship. Not only have I been heartbroken for six months, but I have to deal with constant house guests who do not always act like guests should in our apartment. Bonding time has definitely been compromised because I'm the single, heartbroken black sheep. It's embarrassing because I live with two women who have their love life figured out, while I am navigating the single life. They have to witness my awkward dating/hookup situations, sometimes alongside their boyfriends. The worst part is, when I feel like I need to escape from my apartment to someone who cares about me and with whom I can cuddle my frustrations away, I can't.

By: Kristine

Kristine — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 23:58:36 +0000

I understand completely. I actually am the one single roommate living with 3 ladies all in a relationship. I constantly find myself stranded alone while they are each running off to their boyfriends, or talking about them (which they do constantly). It seems like the only thing they want to talk about is their love life, and since my love life is currently non existent that makes me, well non existent in the conversations. I miss the girls nights we used to have, even just having a movie night now is impossible due to the constant texting and phone calls. Its like they cant live for an hour and a half without texting their guys. So i sit here, quietly, and watch the movie basically alone. Like you said, I'm happy their happy, but i miss my friends, and i hate being so alone while living in with 3 other people.

By: kari

kari — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 19:41:54 +0000

We live the exact same life. WOW

By: eelizg23

eelizg23 — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 14:52:19 +0000

I lived the reverse situation. My last year in college, my roommates were all single or in long distance relationships. They made me feel like my bf was unwelcome in our house unless he was acting as a handyman and fixing something. I ended up spending more time at his house because his single guy roommates were not bothered by my presence at all.

By: Vanessa Hurst

Vanessa Hurst — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 15:35:26 +0000

This is so beyond accurate it's scary.. I lived through this whole scenario last semester and I wanted to die. I miss my girls, and honestly the outcome wasn't that great: 2 roommies got dumped, and when they came crawling back they were really unaware that I didn't have a lot of sympathy. Getting dumped sucks, but they both dumped me the whole semester! And the last girl, my favorite roommate… is still together with her guy and we hardly speak. Growing up isn't always fun.

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By: Cassie

Cassie — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 22:51:44 +0000

I'm in a similar situation. I live in a house with three other girls and we all have boyfriends. The only problem is that my boyfriend goes to school 2+ hours away. My housemates' boyfriends all either go to school with us or live in the area. I'm constantly feeling like the 3rd, 5th, or even 7th wheel. I am also beyond happy that they are all happy with their boyfriends. But it still kind of sucks when everyone else is cuddling up with their boys and I'm just there by myself.

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