Comments on: Single. And My 3 Roommates Aren’t http://collegecandy.com/2009/11/06/single-and-my-3-roommates-arent/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Fri, 19 Mar 2010 21:03:28 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Sara http://collegecandy.com/2009/11/06/single-and-my-3-roommates-arent/#comment-69229 Sara Wed, 24 Feb 2010 06:24:57 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=45455#comment-69229 I'm in the same situation. When I moved in with my two roommates at the beginning of summer, I was in a relationship and so was one of the other roommate. The third roommate was single but was away for the summer. My boyfriend broke up with me at the end of summer, and not very long after, the third roommate began a relationship. Not only have I been heartbroken for six months, but I have to deal with constant house guests who do not always act like guests should in our apartment. Bonding time has definitely been compromised because I'm the single, heartbroken black sheep. It's embarrassing because I live with two women who have their love life figured out, while I am navigating the single life. They have to witness my awkward dating/hookup situations, sometimes alongside their boyfriends. The worst part is, when I feel like I need to escape from my apartment to someone who cares about me and with whom I can cuddle my frustrations away, I can't. I’m in the same situation. When I moved in with my two roommates at the beginning of summer, I was in a relationship and so was one of the other roommate. The third roommate was single but was away for the summer. My boyfriend broke up with me at the end of summer, and not very long after, the third roommate began a relationship. Not only have I been heartbroken for six months, but I have to deal with constant house guests who do not always act like guests should in our apartment. Bonding time has definitely been compromised because I’m the single, heartbroken black sheep. It’s embarrassing because I live with two women who have their love life figured out, while I am navigating the single life. They have to witness my awkward dating/hookup situations, sometimes alongside their boyfriends. The worst part is, when I feel like I need to escape from my apartment to someone who cares about me and with whom I can cuddle my frustrations away, I can’t.

]]> By: Kristine http://collegecandy.com/2009/11/06/single-and-my-3-roommates-arent/#comment-61916 Kristine Tue, 08 Dec 2009 04:58:36 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=45455#comment-61916 I understand completely. I actually am the one single roommate living with 3 ladies all in a relationship. I constantly find myself stranded alone while they are each running off to their boyfriends, or talking about them (which they do constantly). It seems like the only thing they want to talk about is their love life, and since my love life is currently non existent that makes me, well non existent in the conversations. I miss the girls nights we used to have, even just having a movie night now is impossible due to the constant texting and phone calls. Its like they cant live for an hour and a half without texting their guys. So i sit here, quietly, and watch the movie basically alone. Like you said, I'm happy their happy, but i miss my friends, and i hate being so alone while living in with 3 other people. I understand completely. I actually am the one single roommate living with 3 ladies all in a relationship. I constantly find myself stranded alone while they are each running off to their boyfriends, or talking about them (which they do constantly). It seems like the only thing they want to talk about is their love life, and since my love life is currently non existent that makes me, well non existent in the conversations. I miss the girls nights we used to have, even just having a movie night now is impossible due to the constant texting and phone calls. Its like they cant live for an hour and a half without texting their guys. So i sit here, quietly, and watch the movie basically alone. Like you said, I’m happy their happy, but i miss my friends, and i hate being so alone while living in with 3 other people.

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