Comments on: Tuffy Luv Sez: Fear of What Now?!

By: Gilly

Gilly — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 22:45:17 +0000

This is basically what happened to me, except at the time I was a highschool freshman and he was a highschool senior. We ended up dating (he came back to do a victory-lap year) and we are still together now. He asked me to formal as a “our-parents-are-friends” thing, but then…. well, the rest is history!

By: Becca

Becca — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 19:24:58 +0000

At a lot of schools, RAs arent allowed to date their residents, and if they get caught they could lose their job, which means losing their room and board grant. Find out if this is the case at your school before doing anything, because if he rejects you it might be that he can’t afford to take the risk. Keep that in mind and proceed with caution!

By: Darwin - New York Un

Darwin - New York Un — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 18:47:59 +0000

Rejection or the anticipation of it may feel bad, but it is nothing compared to regret.

Man (or woman) up and pull the trigger. It is a great feeling to get that ton of weight off your shoulders, rejection or success.

It can also be helpful to have a friend around to push you. Otherwise, you are going to find yourself making excuses for not making a move.

By: Casey

Casey — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 14:12:11 +0000

If you live in fear your whole life, you'll miss out on a great deal in this world. Sometimes you've just got to suck it up.